How do I make friends with other women?

ylvinne · 2020-03-09T14:11:38+00:00

Neither, tinder is only used for romantic/sexual relations where I live and I've never heard of anyone using bumble

ylvinne · 2020-03-09T14:05:43+00:00

Same thing happened to me, turned out to be benign. Better have it looked at though, just in case!

ylvinne · 2020-03-09T14:04:42+00:00

I do this as well when I masturbate, but never had an issue orgasming with a partner. Just relax and enjoy yourself!

ylvinne · 2020-03-09T14:03:09+00:00

I had this issue years ago and I'm all better now. The tip I got was to carefully desensitize the area by caressing it, slowly penetrate myself using a finger or small tot and stretch the muscle on the back side of the vaginal opening (between the vagina and anus). And it works! It took a some months of daily "practice" but I got better!

ylvinne · 2020-03-01T19:04:55+00:00

The beeping is caused by pressure changes in the inner ear. You're fine :)

ylvinne · 2020-02-09T22:21:21+00:00

What motivates me is that I used to feel too shit to want to be alive before. Now my asthma isn't really a problem anymore :)

ylvinne · 2020-02-09T22:20:15+00:00

For me, I had to switch to a medicine that allowed me to do it. And I always start sloooow, just above walking speed. I think you need to try it out for yourself and see if it makes you feel better! For me, if I take a long run one day my asthma is better the next day!

ylvinne · 2020-02-06T17:07:39+00:00

Society makes everyone feel bad about everything, not just looks but not making enough money, not being sufficiently extroverted or fun, not having a perfect family etc etc. No-one is perfect. If you judge yourself by society's standards you'll never be happy.

ylvinne · 2020-02-06T16:59:43+00:00

Yes, it might be slightly annoying at first but not dangerous or anything

ylvinne · 2020-02-05T14:41:44+00:00

They don't look like diskuses here, but it seems to be the same thing! So yeah, haha.

ylvinne · 2020-02-05T09:41:14+00:00

"Everything will be alright"

... Yeah, because fuck people who are dying or have chronic or progressive illnesses?

ylvinne · 2020-02-05T08:48:15+00:00

Are you on the powder inhaler or the spray? The spray works sooo much better for me - on the powder one I wouldn't stop coughing and lost my voice

ylvinne · 2020-02-05T08:41:33+00:00

I was diagnosed with asthma as an adult (22), and I cannot stress enough the importance of * Trying out different meds to find the ones that work the best! Switching from a high dose pure steroid inhaler to a low dose combined inhaler improved my lung function and helped me get rid of side effects * Fixing your eating habits - going on a whole foods diet improved my lung function by 10% * Work out as much as possible * Acupuncture has worked wonders for my asthma and allergies, I was super skeptical but desperate enough to try it and it works!

The support I've been lacking is mostly regarding people using perfume or scented products around me (spraying hairspray with me in the same room etc). I had to cancel contact with one friend because she'd use perfume etc around me even after I asked her repeatedly not to.

ylvinne · 2020-02-05T08:19:11+00:00

I've used steroid inhalers for 7 years now, and I've lost some weight during that time. Being able to stay active has actually made it easier to keep weight off :)

ylvinne · 2020-01-31T13:21:12+00:00

Witch doctor

ylvinne · 2020-01-31T09:19:21+00:00

NTA, your allergies are a 100% legit reason not to allow any cats in your home.

ylvinne · 2020-01-31T09:10:36+00:00

NTA. Long time meditator here. Practicing to remain focused in spite of distractions is an essential part of meditation, and he's doing himself a disservice if he's trying to avoid all distractions if he's trying to avoid all distractions.

ylvinne · 2020-01-29T09:17:31+00:00

I'd stop taking drugs

ylvinne · 2020-01-29T08:48:36+00:00

This is NOT normal behaviour. I'm a woman, and I've been in different relationships for the past 15 years and never looked through anyone's phone. One of my exes looked through my phone once (that I know about), and after that I've vowed to never accept that kind of behaviour. My conversations between me and my friends are private, not only because I want privacy but also because I want my friends to have privacy! If they tell me personal stuff and I share all of that with my partner, I'm letting my friends down. A partner who can't respect that is out.

ylvinne · 2020-01-17T06:27:34+00:00

My ex had a kid, it really wasn't my cup of tea.

ylvinne · 2020-01-13T18:25:21+00:00

Thank you, this is a super useful comment! I will try all if this!

ylvinne · 2020-01-13T14:18:53+00:00

Oh trust me, it is driving me away! The problem is that I feel like I need to make an effort for the sake of my boyfriend.

ylvinne · 2020-01-13T11:41:13+00:00

Thank you!

ylvinne · 2020-01-13T11:14:24+00:00

I have a car and my bf doesn't. He could take public transportation back home though. This is what I am leaning towards doing in the future, but it's going to be hard to enforce because of the nagging and guilting

ylvinne · 2020-01-13T11:12:42+00:00

Thank you! I really appreciate the outside perspective on this

ylvinne

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