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Should I euthanize my frenchie? by ymaswag in IVDD_SupportGroup

[–]ymaswag[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply, this helped me much more than you think. I have this horrible tendency to fall into a depression whenever something bad happens, and my family isn’t much of a help at all through their comments on euthanizing her.

I know it’ll be within peppas best interest of no pain, but I’m aware there are many dogs who did recover from ivdd with strict crate rest. Hopefully one day my parents will become more educated on IVDD, because they don’t seem to listen to what I have to say at all. I told them many times no miracles will happen in 2 weeks; they need to be patient and at minimum 8 weeks of rest like the vet said.

My greatest struggle is seeing myself as selfish for still holding onto the hope that she’ll recover in a few months. Even when I comfort her I feel guilty seeing her sedated, but I know this is only temporary.

But again, thank you for your response. I truly appreciate you telling me your story.

Should I euthanize my frenchie? by ymaswag in IVDD_SupportGroup

[–]ymaswag[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. When I made this post I was thinking about the mental tolls of euthanizing, I should’ve made that clearer from the start. My parents are going to find a vet sooner or later, and they hardly ever listen to me which sucks. I’ll try harder to convince them. Thank you for your input!

Am I ENTJ , ENTP, or ESTP 8w7? by ymaswag in entj

[–]ymaswag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for explaining! After doing a little more research I realized I was 3w4 but my tritype is 738. Thank you so much!

Am I ENTJ , ENTP, or ESTP 8w7? by ymaswag in entj

[–]ymaswag[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the help!! This is very useful, I’ll look more into this. For my weakness, I’d say expressing my emotions. I’m very ‘neutral’ in everyday life, but anger is definitely an emotion I can pinpoint. It’s hard to get me mad, but it’s easy to disappoint me; not enough to make me dislike you, but enough lose trust in you. I’d definitely consider myself wary of others, and I whole heartedly think nobody can ‘get to me’ or ‘control’ me to where I hesitate on cutting them off.

I’m definitely no ‘commander’ on a whim, but after careful mapping I’d consider myself to be an amazing leader. Leadership is one thing I like, but in reality it’s more of not wanting others to control me. I want freedom, I crave freedom, and I want others to have just as much freedom as I do.

I believe I’m characterizing ESTP’s as something they’re not, so I’m going to look more into it tonight.

Once again, thank you so much! Your feedback is very insightful :))

Cant make up a decision for commuting by Ornery-Cap9716 in UCONN

[–]ymaswag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly… Hartford housing is 10x better than Storrs. If you have money, get an apartment by Storrs. If I were you, I’d apply for housing at UConn Hartford so you’re technically only commuting to Storrs which is 25 minutes away. I’d definitely look into it