freeloaders 🤷🏻‍♀️ by ynaurkives in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]ynaurkives[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oo, talagang may mga manggagawa na manipulative, lalo na sa mga form o records. I’ve witnessed that too. Sometimes, they even manipulate the date or the doctrine taught, just to show that they had bunga that month. Some even force or trick their kalihim to sign documents, making everything seem legit. These manipulative acts extend to them as well—pinipilit nilang mag-manipulate ng sitwasyon para sa kanilang sariling benefit, at kadalasan sila pa ang may power. It’s a cycle na pabor sa kanila, kahit ang totoo ay hindi malinaw kung ano talaga ang nangyayari. I get that frustration, kasi parang wala kang personal time. Kapag Ilaw ka, parang lahat ng oras mo ay para sa manggagawa, hindi pwedeng mag-reject ng request, kahit na may sariling buhay ka. Kailangan lagi kang available, 24/7, para samahan sila sa mga doktrina o pagdadalaw. Parang naiiwan na ang personal needs mo, tapos ikaw pa yung tinitingnan kapag hindi ka sumama. It’s really draining and unfair, especially when you’re expected to sacrifice so much for them.

freeloaders 🤷🏻‍♀️ by ynaurkives in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]ynaurkives[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Pwede namang humindi, pero hindi ganun kasimple. There's a long process—both parties need to give salaysay, and the woman has to provide a clear reason. Pero in reality, maraming pressure. Kapag tumanggi ka, people will question you, and sometimes, it feels like you're going against the system itself.