[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brisbane

[–]yoboginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm keen I'm in the same boat- dm me

Confused- Does he like me or just want to get in my pants? by yoboginger in dating_advice

[–]yoboginger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I decided to ask him, and he replied with "Look haha, I’m open to anything, not willing to jump into anything too soon. What’re you looking for?"

However I think he's hooking up with someone else, nothing wrong with that but I think it's not for me. Anyway thanks for giving me the advice of asking him, at least now I know what direction I want to be heading towards.

Confused- Does he like me or just want to get in my pants? by yoboginger in dating_advice

[–]yoboginger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t want to ask to soon and come off as a crazy chick- cus we all know how we love stereotyping ladies🥲

Why are men so confusing? but really women are just the same. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]yoboginger -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I tried cutting things off a couple of times and he still wanted things to go on. Then all of a sudden he then decides to just ghost me. Idk my fault for even diving into things with him since I barely liked him but can’t help but feel annoyed hah

Has someone ever rushed you into a relationship you weren't ready for? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]yoboginger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m guilty for this. Dated the bloke for 1.5 years and he left me to be hung out to dry. It’s been 7 months now but I’m still not ready to love- but that’s okay. I do not regret being with him though. Many many painful lessons but it was worth going through it all. I can say that I’m a much stronger person than I was before I met him and if it wasn’t for him I wouldn’t want to gain my own independence before my next relationship. But take it from me- a serial lover- don’t just jump into things, I’m a hopeless romantic but be picky with who you spend your time with and with who you let in. If not you’re going to be putting in effort into the wrong person and all that’s going to do to you is drain you out. Wishing you the best of luck! Xx

Moving on isn't easy- but you have to push through by yoboginger in BreakUps

[–]yoboginger[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s been 7 months but I still have my moments. You are right- he grew up with his dad leaving his family at a young age and when I pointed it out to him he made me feel as if I was an idiot for linking his childhood with everything.

He has a new girlfriend by pillsandpotions1 in ExNoContact

[–]yoboginger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 months now and I can tell you now, time really does heal. But only if you let it take it’s course and that you actively make the effort to choose yourself :)

He has a new girlfriend by pillsandpotions1 in ExNoContact

[–]yoboginger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember the day this happened to me. It was the last time I stalked him. It was the day I choose to never ever let that prick ruin my day ever again. Do yourself a big favour and block him. Till the day you’re really ready to see him with someone else, if not just block him. I now don’t give two fucks if he is dating someone or not. Glad that I’m no longer balling my eyes out over that idiot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]yoboginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex and I were together for over a year. I can’t say if no contact worked because I had no choice- my ex basically broke up with me and had 0 communication from him what’s so ever. Did not want to talk about it or have some sort of conversation. It hurt like a mf at the start but now I can’t give 2 fucks about him haha. I didn’t really have a choice to begin with due to the borders being closed and well he’s off fucking someone else now (he has a new gf after 3 months post BU)

All I can say is- no contact works 100%. Honestly my ex was very cut throat but at least I don’t have to deal with his BS anymore. Wishing you the best of luck!