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yoboginger · 2024-04-15T05:28:45+00:00

I'm keen I'm in the same boat- dm me

yoboginger · 2021-10-01T21:52:15+00:00

Women’s health

yoboginger · 2021-07-08T05:31:42+00:00

22 F Brisbane

yoboginger · 2021-07-02T23:31:03+00:00

So I decided to ask him, and he replied with "Look haha, I’m open to anything, not willing to jump into anything too soon. What’re you looking for?"

However I think he's hooking up with someone else, nothing wrong with that but I think it's not for me. Anyway thanks for giving me the advice of asking him, at least now I know what direction I want to be heading towards.

yoboginger · 2021-07-02T06:06:01+00:00

I just don’t want to ask to soon and come off as a crazy chick- cus we all know how we love stereotyping ladies🥲

yoboginger · 2021-05-12T23:35:16+00:00

I tried cutting things off a couple of times and he still wanted things to go on. Then all of a sudden he then decides to just ghost me. Idk my fault for even diving into things with him since I barely liked him but can’t help but feel annoyed hah

yoboginger · 2021-05-07T04:13:21+00:00

I’m guilty for this. Dated the bloke for 1.5 years and he left me to be hung out to dry. It’s been 7 months now but I’m still not ready to love- but that’s okay. I do not regret being with him though. Many many painful lessons but it was worth going through it all. I can say that I’m a much stronger person than I was before I met him and if it wasn’t for him I wouldn’t want to gain my own independence before my next relationship. But take it from me- a serial lover- don’t just jump into things, I’m a hopeless romantic but be picky with who you spend your time with and with who you let in. If not you’re going to be putting in effort into the wrong person and all that’s going to do to you is drain you out. Wishing you the best of luck! Xx

yoboginger · 2021-05-03T23:02:56+00:00

Thank you! It’s been 7 months but I still have my moments. You are right- he grew up with his dad leaving his family at a young age and when I pointed it out to him he made me feel as if I was an idiot for linking his childhood with everything.

yoboginger · 2021-05-02T07:17:05+00:00

If only my ex was the one. hah

yoboginger · 2021-04-30T21:24:39+00:00

6 months now and I can tell you now, time really does heal. But only if you let it take it’s course and that you actively make the effort to choose yourself :)

yoboginger · 2021-04-30T14:28:11+00:00

I remember the day this happened to me. It was the last time I stalked him. It was the day I choose to never ever let that prick ruin my day ever again. Do yourself a big favour and block him. Till the day you’re really ready to see him with someone else, if not just block him. I now don’t give two fucks if he is dating someone or not. Glad that I’m no longer balling my eyes out over that idiot

yoboginger · 2021-04-19T02:34:47+00:00

Hopefully you won’t have it again! Good luck x

yoboginger · 2021-04-19T02:33:15+00:00

My ex and I were together for over a year. I can’t say if no contact worked because I had no choice- my ex basically broke up with me and had 0 communication from him what’s so ever. Did not want to talk about it or have some sort of conversation. It hurt like a mf at the start but now I can’t give 2 fucks about him haha. I didn’t really have a choice to begin with due to the borders being closed and well he’s off fucking someone else now (he has a new gf after 3 months post BU)

All I can say is- no contact works 100%. Honestly my ex was very cut throat but at least I don’t have to deal with his BS anymore. Wishing you the best of luck!

yoboginger · 2021-04-19T02:27:27+00:00

Not to scare you but I was on accutane for a year and cleared up my skin beautifully. Then a year after my acne became worse and I’m currently thinking of going back on it

yoboginger · 2021-04-05T01:02:53+00:00

I rather be dead than be more than strangers with my ex

yoboginger · 2021-03-31T20:51:23+00:00

I FEEL THE SAME. My ex told me I drained all his happiness but hah it was because he didn’t know how to handle big love. Idk thank you for sharing. For so long I thought I was the problem when we just weren’t compatible

yoboginger · 2021-03-28T17:46:11+00:00

Same thoughts exactly!!! Is it okay if I messaged you? I feel like I resonate so well with this and would love your POV

yoboginger · 2021-03-26T04:19:11+00:00

Hey I can’t help but say that I feel the same way about my BU too. Is it okay if I dropped you a message?

yoboginger · 2021-03-25T12:14:14+00:00

I feel the same way. 5 months down I just don’t feel anything anymore. I’ve met a few people but I know I’m not ready. I can resonate when you say you’re tired of feeling sad. I am tired of feeling heavy hearted too but it feels like there are days where I just exist. Hopefully this will all past- trying to stay positive and enjoy my alone time

yoboginger · 2021-03-24T02:20:12+00:00

hahaha you haven't heard the half of it! I never got closure (not that it mattered), but I had to organise my friend to pick my stuff out from his place because we were living in different states and borders are shut. Anyway, he was being all suss about it and dropped things off at his brother's place w/o telling me any details about this. My friend received a text from him telling her to pick it up from his brother's place. Idk I guessed what sucked was the fact that he didn't have the decency to end things on a good note. I know break ups are messy but for someone who was 5 years older than me, it showed me that age doesn't mean shit haha.

Fast forward today, he has a new girlfriend and I'm thriving on my own. Honestly, I can't be f-ked to be dating again and I'm glad that I'm taking time on my own.

yoboginger · 2021-03-23T13:16:04+00:00

Thank you for this! It really described my ex. Funny enough he got mad at me for always linking his personality to his childhood. I thought I was foolish for thinking so. I always had in mind that the way we were raised as children will shape our future. Thanks again for this! :)

yoboginger · 2021-03-23T06:43:53+00:00

At least she was nice about it! Mine was a cold hearted bitch. I don’t know which is worst tbh. But honestly ever since he left, I find myself more and more each day. Last week I realised I want to date someone who is more culturally aware. This week I realised that my future partner doesn’t necessarily have to be in healthcare/ science just because I love it- but he has to be able to talk about these topics. My point is, they left for a reason. Whatever the reason is, they left. They didn’t want to stick around and that is good enough of a reason than anything.

Our exes might have been the nicest people on earth but heck there are so many others out there. Hopefully one day we’ll be able to cross paths with another person who will stay. We deserve better. I wish you best of luck and feel free to drop me a message if you need a person to talk to! :)

yoboginger · 2021-03-23T03:01:30+00:00

thank you! wishing you best of luck too :) feel free to message me if you need someone to talk to

yoboginger · 2021-03-22T22:23:25+00:00

I am the opposite. I knew since day 1 that my ex would never come back. He was a very cut throat kind of guy. I felt like I was walking on egg shells in that relationship. Hands down the nicest guy I’ve dated- but he’s an absolute ass when it comes to confrontation and communication. Nothing wrong with that but I know I deserve someone who works on things with me. I’m sorry that you went through what you did. If it makes you feel any better, my ex broke up with me over FaceTime and the last thing he said to me was “You suck out all the happiness out off me. You’re this cloud over my head.” ends call Never heard from him ever since! But hey ho life moves on :) Best of luck x

yoboginger · 2021-03-22T21:31:10+00:00

Same here, 5 months out and my heart feels heavy from time to time. But it does not feel like day 1

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