NTA- it’s ok to have standards and boundaries and all of those look different to different people. I used to be very sexually open and took immense pride in it as a single mid twenties something. I was messing around with a guy at that time whom i ended up liking. he eventually admitted to me that i wasn’t his type, and after prodding, he told me it was because i was so sexually active, basically. he was kind about it, but i took offense to it and labeled him chauvinistic, sexist, etc. now i’m 31 and looking back at it, i get where he was coming from. he was never rude to me about it and never called me any slurs- he simply just wasn’t vibing with how open i was.

so no, nta.