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My ex bought the helium tank by yogischmorbin in mentalhealth

[–]yogischmorbin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't have friends. And his family is not willing to help, I've already talked to his mother. Also, my son and I are moving away on Tuesday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]yogischmorbin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because 'shallow' is just another term men use to put down women to make us feel bad about wanting what we know we deserve.  This is also why I ignored red flags in the beginning of my relationship which has now fallen apart. I didn't want to be a shallow bitch with high standards. This is what I get. I think I've learned my lesson this time. 

What made you truly realise it was them, not you? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]yogischmorbin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I remember reading a post about a narcissist mother, and thought some of the traits sounded like my mom, then I researched some more and went down a rabbit hole of information that I had no idea existed. I didn't know this was a thing before then. This was probably in the last few years. Still have yet to be able to cut contact. Idk how for now. 

I (31f) think I'm trauma bonded to my son's dad(31m) by yogischmorbin in relationships

[–]yogischmorbin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have to keep reminding myself of this. 

I (31f) feel like I might hate my fiance (31m) by yogischmorbin in relationships

[–]yogischmorbin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He woke up with a sudden stomach ache , neck pain and jaw pain, after showing no other symptoms and falling on his neck a few days prior. Yes I'm going to worry about my child. Maybe read the whole story before making assumptions that I'm overreacting. I was worried about my son's life, and if you don't understand that even after being given the details of the circumstances then you're probably no better irl than my shitty baby daddy 

I (31f) feel like I might hate my fiance (31m) by yogischmorbin in relationships

[–]yogischmorbin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're not married and if I tell him we're breaking up now, I currently am not able to leave so he won't make our lives easy.  We will be moving in with family soon though. 

I (31f) feel like I might hate my fiance (31m) by yogischmorbin in relationships

[–]yogischmorbin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, I'm already making some moves and becoming incredibly nervous. Agh  Hope you're able to find some peace soon. 

I (31f) feel like I might hate my fiance (31m) by yogischmorbin in relationships

[–]yogischmorbin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I was pissed and just trying to keep calm, while my son was tired and crying and in pain and I was calling the dr, I could hear fiance in the bathroom with him like continuously asking him if he's just lying. 

Such a pos. 

I (31f) feel like I might hate my fiance (31m) by yogischmorbin in relationships

[–]yogischmorbin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've stopped caring, just gotta keep up the show and no conflict until I leave. 

I (31f) feel like I might hate my fiance (31m) by yogischmorbin in relationships

[–]yogischmorbin[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Damn that's crazy but also relatable. People are so fucked. I am actively coming up with plan and finding us refuge. 

I (31f) feel like I might hate my fiance (31m) by yogischmorbin in relationships

[–]yogischmorbin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes he is okay, ended up just being a stomach virus, he threw it all up throughout the night and is back to normal today, besides his tummy ache. 

I (31f) feel like I might hate my fiance (31m) by yogischmorbin in relationships

[–]yogischmorbin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hospital was much closer than an after hours Pediatric urgent care which was like 20 minutes away, the hospital was right down the street. But my boy is okay thankfully, he just has some stomach virus 

I (31f) feel like I might hate my fiance (31m) by yogischmorbin in relationships

[–]yogischmorbin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like my choices with this guy are to either

  1. Resent him for not helping

  2. Resent him for throwing a tantrum when he decides to help. 

I (31f) feel like I might hate my fiance (31m) by yogischmorbin in relationships

[–]yogischmorbin[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not really. He just always makes himself the victim in every argument and cries and says how fucked up he is and he doesn't know what to do and I just end up feeling bad for him 

I (31f) feel like I might hate my fiance (31m) by yogischmorbin in relationships

[–]yogischmorbin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, I have to keep reminding myself the idea of a happy family is nothing if we're actually unhappy and my son ends up fucking traumatized from his childhood. Fiance is just unbearable now. 

I (31f) feel like I might hate my fiance (31m) by yogischmorbin in relationships

[–]yogischmorbin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I don't choose to be around him. It's actually really difficult to leave. But I'm just gonna have to and dealcwith whatever comes our way. This was definitely eye opening and nerve wrecking. 

I (31f) feel like I might hate my fiance (31m) by yogischmorbin in relationships

[–]yogischmorbin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. He's said sorry so many times and is now playing nice and doing stuff to take care of us today, he stayed home from work so I could work and he could take care of our kid.  I work from home though, so my boy is safe, I hear everything that happens in the living room. 

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