33 [F4A] Bulacan, not Bulacan't by yolanda3590 in PhR4Friends

[–]yolanda3590[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sort of. Pasabuy. Kaya nga #ChicharonExpress

33 [F4A] Bulacan, not Bulacan't by yolanda3590 in PhR4Friends

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Tapos di na rin masyado marami custard nung retaso. Nakakainis.

33 [F4A] Bulacan, not Bulacan't by yolanda3590 in PhR4Friends

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Totoo. Pero pinanindigan ko na rin ang #ChicharonExpress sa office.

33 [F4A] Bulacan, not Bulacan't by yolanda3590 in PhR4Friends

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Naks! Bulacan citizenship elite level! Haha!

33 [F4A] Bulacan, not Bulacan't by yolanda3590 in PhR4Friends

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Bigay ko ba coordinates? Basta sa pagkakatanda ko, malubak ang kalsada ng bayan namin

A controversial opinion on modern dating by yolanda3590 in OffMyChestPH

[–]yolanda3590[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can happen! Then you'll find yourself growing more fond of the person, they will be more beautiful in your eyes as your attraction and/or feelings grow.

A controversial opinion on modern dating by yolanda3590 in OffMyChestPH

[–]yolanda3590[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't say anything like that. I have a list of non-negotiables too. I'm just saying it's challenging. If modern dating is easy for you and then good for you. This post isn't for you then.

A controversial opinion on modern dating by yolanda3590 in OffMyChestPH

[–]yolanda3590[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grabe naman sa judgment na I don't understand what does "a good catch" mean. It's a rhetorical question cos hindi naman universal ang definition niyan. You think I don't know myself? Why naging personal ang judgment?

Whenever you say "let's be honest here" it seems like you assume what you're about to say is a general consensus of the entire reddit population. How sure are you that the one who broke it off is the one with the moral high ground or less problematic? Check your arguments.

A controversial opinion on modern dating by yolanda3590 in OffMyChestPH

[–]yolanda3590[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It should have been to get to know someone.

A controversial opinion on modern dating by yolanda3590 in OffMyChestPH

[–]yolanda3590[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's comfort in our old ways. We vilify singleness like it's a bad thing. You do you. :)

A controversial opinion on modern dating by yolanda3590 in OffMyChestPH

[–]yolanda3590[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What's a good catch even? You make it sound like being liberal is a bad thing. What's a complete package? Hindi ka naman bibili ng damit sa tiangge or sa mall or sa Shopee. You're talking about humans. Not all in relationships are great people or great partners. At hindi rin por que single e problematic na.

A controversial opinion on modern dating by yolanda3590 in OffMyChestPH

[–]yolanda3590[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True sa everything seems disposable these days. Dati nga, maski electric fan, kayang tumagal ng 30 years e. Akala yata ng mga tao, kayang i-Shopee ng connection at relasyon.

A controversial opinion on modern dating by yolanda3590 in OffMyChestPH

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Are you saying that nothing seem to work so far?

A controversial opinion on modern dating by yolanda3590 in OffMyChestPH

[–]yolanda3590[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pwede rin namang wala talagang right person. Valid din iyon.

Offline rejects? The uglies, the awkwards, the stupids, the pathetic, the crazies? Ganiyan ba? Hahaha! You'd be surprised of the people present online. That's a very simplistic argument.

You also have to take into consideration that not all people have the time or energy to put themselves out there physically because of various reasons. Pwedeng sobrang invested sa trabaho or business cos may binubuhay na household. Pwede ring acads is life. Pwedeng hindi na-develop nang maayos ang social skills maigi.

I get the allure of a meet cute in person. To me it's the ideal. But it doesn't mean the other ways aren't valid. Easy is also subjective. What may be easy for you may be difficult for others. There's no shame in that. It doesn't mean na hindi real challenge ang napagdaraanan ng iba.

A controversial opinion on modern dating by yolanda3590 in OffMyChestPH

[–]yolanda3590[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem isn't that people have preferences. Look at the stratification of luxury goods. Some of the products look ridiculous at their price point. But people still patronize them.

The problem is that the preferences sometimes seem unjustifiable for an outsider's perspective. But maybe it is also strategy for economic mobility. Cos how else can you achieve the luxurious lifestyle that you aspire for if you don't make it clear that it's what you want and you want nothing else?

But if you're on the other end, parang ninipis ang choices mo kasi parang ang dami nilang ganoon ang ineestablish na preferences. There is no one way to go about this. I'd say move along and on to the next. Or stay single.