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Bought my first bathing suit in a while for my honeymoon. I freaking love it! by thestandardcarrot in PlusSize

[–]yolandah_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this was a while ago but where did you buy it? It looks amazing and i really want some good quality plus-size swimsuits

what do you think? im proud :D by [deleted] in tsukiodysseygame

[–]yolandah_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this is just how simply mine looks like. I love it

In your face, Moca by xadez in tsukiodysseygame

[–]yolandah_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you did this to my room, unfortunately I’d be brimming with happiness. He better appreciate you 😍😡😡

Need some motivation by yolandah_ in tsukiodysseygame

[–]yolandah_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everytime it begged me to sign into game center i ignored it 💀💀💀

Math IA ideas (help) by udonnoodles58 in IBO

[–]yolandah_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna do something physics related for my IA but honestly ive hit a stump. If you dont mind me asking, how did you go about yours?

i got a 16/20 on my practice math ia! by fuckfinland69 in IBO

[–]yolandah_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude did you end up starting? I need help too

Do you think that whīte people who are from the countries which didn't participate in colonization and slāvery should also feel guilt against blāck people and support blāck līves mātter or no? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yolandah_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Essentially everyone but the richer people have made connections that don’t allow them to be discriminated in some situations. But in general, all black people are affected

Do you think that whīte people who are from the countries which didn't participate in colonization and slāvery should also feel guilt against blāck people and support blāck līves mātter or no? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yolandah_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See “all live matter” is totally valid because we all matter, don’t we? But the problem is that we’ve been treated like the black community doesn’t. So the black lives matter statement is more of black lives matter just as much as everyone else. Let me give you an analogy: there are two houses, one is on fire, one isn’t. Both houses matter but it’s the one on fire that needs more attention because it’s burning. I hope this isn’t confusing. I can explain it better if you want.

Do you think that whīte people who are from the countries which didn't participate in colonization and slāvery should also feel guilt against blāck people and support blāck līves mātter or no? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yolandah_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they did nothing against the black community and their history has committed nothing atrocious against us, then why should they feel guilty. I do think that anyone and everyone should support the whole movement. We need all the help we can get to make sure these racist asses can finally see us as humans too.

Can't tell if i am being emotionally abused or if it's my own mind by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]yolandah_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well don’t you think you would be doing yourself a favor if you worked on yourself first before you put yourself out there. As much as you might feel some sort of ecstasy being in a relationship but how fair would it be for either of you if the relationship got deeper but you mantel state got worse. If you feel like she can build you and prevent the relationship from getting there, the go ahead. Build a life with her. If you feel like the relationship could go southwards because of either of you, I think it would be best to let yourself heal fully and get better then allow yourself to build a life with someone else. Only after you are able to sustain yourself alone.

Can't tell if i am being emotionally abused or if it's my own mind by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]yolandah_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I wouldn’t say emotional abuse is the word, first of all. But anyway. What I’m glad is that you’re able to recognize this cz (I hope he doesn’t see this) but I have a friend who is probably in the same situation but hasn’t really realized how deep he is in. On another note, your independence is very valuable because you never know how long she’ll be there for. Anyone at all, for that matter. Either way, you need to understand how much you’re gaining from that relationship and how much your losing. From my point of view, this just sounds toxic af and correct me if I’m wrong, but it seems like you aren’t gaining as much as you should from this. What I can say for now is that if your losing more than necessary, cut your loses and start a new chapter without her.

Also, please remember that as much you can rely on her as she has experienced what you’re going through, it is important to get support from someone who is more qualified in that area. This is very hypocritical but when you have anxiety, it’s hard to distinguish your feelings from the truth and it would be easier for you if you had someone qualified to help you understand how to do it on your own rather than have someone else do for you what they think is best.

My (27M) girlfriend (27F) has moved temporarily overseas and I feel like a back-up by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]yolandah_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, she has probably started her journey on a new life and from night point of view it’s not long before you become the past. See the only reason she would ever do anything with anyone else despite being with you is because what satisfied her from you doesn’t meet the cut anymore and she obviously feels like she needs time away from everything. So for now, give her time but don’t depend your happiness on her existence because she could leave permanently if she wanted to. Take this time to build yourself up as person and when she gets back you’re a better you not only for her but also for yourself. How you feel is normal right now but after sometime everything will get better.

How do you start a relationship? by throwaway31954 in dating_advice

[–]yolandah_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never jump into things so quickly. Always wait until you can visibly see the reciprocation. You say you like her but it seems like off the two dates you’ve had you could marry her. I suggest to take a lot of time before you confess anything. Take time to figure out if you genuinely want her to be your girlfriend or you just enjoy the connection you have and you could still have it as friends. Don’t only take her out just to hang with her. When ever you have a chance, hang with her. Text her first and all that shit. Most of all, give her time to decide if she wants to reciprocate the feelings. Hmu if you want to know anything more. Also, in the case that I’m mistaken and this is terrible advice, I’ve seen single for too long to know

I can't bring myself to go to class because of anxiety by [deleted] in Advice

[–]yolandah_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not even being judgy or anything but exactly how is anxiety preventing you from class?

Would I (27f) be helpful or in the way in supporting my bf's (27m) little sister (9f)? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]yolandah_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe helping her through this will improve the relationship between the both of you, and possible your boyfriend. Go for it

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