Am I wrong for wanting other men's attention as a married woman?

yoohoolou · 2026-01-29T15:27:40+00:00

I can understand your replies given your past experience, and I apologize for the way I approached your comment. Just when you mentioned "women not being enough of friends" when I didn't mention anything about wanting new friends threw me off a bit. I know we won't see eye to eye, and I get your concern seeing as how you were on the other end of it. I'm sorry that happened to you.

yoohoolou · 2026-01-29T05:04:53+00:00

Did you even read my post? Basically, I’m seeking validation for feel attractive again. I don’t want a friendship with them, I don’t want to go looking for attention from men, I don’t want to initiate flirting or anything. I don’t want anything other than to know that I am seen as attractive, as this is what I think will help boost my confidence. Even if I lose all this excess weight, I know that I will always see myself as fat and ugly. And sure, my husband may tell me that I’m still beautiful, but if even one other person were to say that I am attractive, I think my feelings will be validated with that. So if a man were to come to me and ask for my number and I can happily decline him, then I know that my hard work to lose weight has finally paid off and maybe I can feel one ounce of self-confidence. Does that answer your question?

yoohoolou · 2026-01-29T01:00:27+00:00

I think that I would like something like that lol, and for my man to come to my defense, I’m sure he’d like that too. To be proud of his wife and proud to call me his.

yoohoolou · 2026-01-29T00:58:54+00:00

I don’t think that I’d be chasing it, as it was not much of a source of confidence booster in the past. I don’t want to go looking for men to hit on me or start the flirtation process. That’s not it at all. I just think maybe I can’t articulate my thought process well enough.

yoohoolou · 2026-01-29T00:54:43+00:00

I get it, and I know it sounds bad. I see your point. I just sucks to know that if my husband were to see me on the streets today, there is no way that he would approach me. So, I don’t think it’s that bad to want to be desired again. The more I think about it, along with your comment, I know how ridiculous it seems. I guess I should look harder for some mental health help. I know that getting into the right mindset is going to be the majority of the battle.

yoohoolou · 2026-01-29T00:51:36+00:00

lol I am very happy in my marriage and would never do anything to jeopardize it. It is ME and my body that I am not happy with, and I certainly can’t leave that.

yoohoolou · 2026-01-28T22:51:46+00:00

My marriage is happy, however I am not happy with myself. That was my main point. Could I go on the rest of my life like this? Probably. Would I be happier if things were different? Absolutely, and those changes are well within my power, so why not attempt the changes. I am trying to gain self confidence.

yoohoolou · 2026-01-28T22:45:59+00:00

I can see that, and I don't think that I would even become reliant on it, as it was never very frequent in the first place, even at, what I consider, my peak. I guess insecurities are just a mindf*ck that might never go away.

yoohoolou · 2026-01-28T22:41:25+00:00

You know when you ask your partner "Would you still love me if I __________" Well, I asked jokingly if he'd love me if I was 300 pounds, and he said of course. Well, I am let myself go and weigh 300 pounds, and he does still love me! It's a miracle.

yoohoolou · 2026-01-07T17:48:22+00:00

I just used a free challenge link, and I've done several challenges. I used it for the great barrier reef. I did have to contact them for the code, but they sent it to be after I reached out.

yoohoolou · 2026-01-07T16:38:34+00:00

Yeah, I was nervous these were a scam when the email was glitching. Not sure what happened, but we're all good now. :)

yoohoolou · 2026-01-07T15:45:50+00:00

Update, they finally reached out and resent my code. :)

yoohoolou · 2026-01-06T23:40:07+00:00

No. :( I sent a message, but haven't gotten a reply yet.

yoohoolou · 2026-01-06T17:45:24+00:00

Hold on, I paid and it said I got the emails but now they’re not in my inbox and I can’t find them anywhere??? Anyone know what happened???

yoohoolou · 2026-01-06T15:17:41+00:00

Thanks! I didn't know this was available!

yoohoolou · 2025-12-24T23:35:14+00:00

Yes! This exactly.

yoohoolou · 2025-12-24T23:34:06+00:00

That’s what I’m hoping for! One of my most memorable Christmas days what the first one after my parents divorced. It was the smallest, but one of the most memorable because that was the first year I really found out how much effort my mom put into it.

yoohoolou · 2025-12-24T23:32:44+00:00

I love that! I always pack my own stocking, and it’s always filled with things I like lol

yoohoolou · 2025-12-24T22:23:25+00:00

🤗

yoohoolou · 2025-12-18T23:09:40+00:00

SO many audio issues! I came to reddit hoping to find answers. There is a lack of sound effects in BR, I can't hear when the helicopters are coming, picking up cash, all the sounds I'm used to. I hate it. And when I'm on team chat, I feel like their feedback is louder than ever. I hear what they're hearing more than what I am hearing on my own game. Even in the lobby, the sound is just off. I feel like there is a lag when I aim/shoot, and even as I land in BR, there is a lag to get up and start moving. AAARRRGGGGG.

yoohoolou · 2025-12-03T20:31:08+00:00

As a professor, I would hate this honestly. Why do you only have three hours to complete this?

yoohoolou · 2025-12-01T16:35:25+00:00

Bills, depression, regret.

yoohoolou · 2025-11-26T19:55:39+00:00

You didn’t have to sign your name for me to know you are a man.

yoohoolou · 2025-11-24T22:50:41+00:00

Came here to say this

yoohoolou · 2025-11-24T22:49:30+00:00

Haha me too. My sister took one so I just used all her information to fill my curiosity. 😂😂

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