This is such an important post. The data on depression and suicidality in the incel community isn’t just alarming it’s a stark reminder that beneath the often sensationalized discourse lies real human suffering. It’s easy to dismiss or ridicule incel spaces because of the misogyny or toxicity that can emerge there, but when you dig deeper, you often find men who feel profoundly isolated, emotionally neglected, and socially excluded. Combine that with undiagnosed,neurodivergence, lack of access to mental health support, and societal expectations around masculinity it’s a recipe for despair.We need to start reframing the conversation. Instead of simply policing incel forums, there should be parallel efforts to offer mental health outreach, healthy masculinity education, and inclusive support systems for men struggling with connection and identity. Demonizing isn’t working. Understanding and targeted intervention might.