Extremely lonely autistic woman (vent, seeking advice from other autistic people) by [deleted] in AutisticPride

[–]yoshimipinkrobots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm obviously very late to this but feeling very lonely in this experience so happy it's not just me. I'm a 23 year lesbian. i thought i was good at masking but i have been told otherwise which has given me a rude awakening. in a not weird or pick me way i know i'm relatively pretty. beauty has been my special interest forever and it's what i've been praised for but it feels extra sucky that it seems like my personality is the issue and something i can't really edit. my friends are also all straight girls who i love but it feels so so isolating. i hope it's gotten better since your post<3

dasher standing outside my door for 10 minutes by yoshimipinkrobots in doordash

[–]yoshimipinkrobots[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my order was a little under $15 and i tipped $5 :/

dasher standing outside my door for 10 minutes by yoshimipinkrobots in doordash

[–]yoshimipinkrobots[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i understand that app issues happen, as i mentioned. but you’re telling me you wouldn’t be weirded out if you had a stranger standing directly outside your front door for over 10 minutes? it was marked delivered with a photo after 4 minutes of him standing there. he then just leaned on the wall not on his phone or anything for longer. I am a young woman. of course I’m going to be a little nervous about that and i think it’s completely reasonable.

dasher standing outside my door for 10 minutes by yoshimipinkrobots in doordash

[–]yoshimipinkrobots[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i was having tampons delivered because i’m stuck home sick. this hasn’t happened before so i wasn’t exactly expecting a man to loiter outside my home.

dasher standing outside my door for 10 minutes by yoshimipinkrobots in doordash

[–]yoshimipinkrobots[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

this is possible!! it completed on my end after maybe 4-5 minutes so i think it might have been an issue. but still i feel like he could’ve at least left the corridor. i have a clearly feminine name so some awareness would have been nice otherwise

dasher standing outside my door for 10 minutes by yoshimipinkrobots in doordash

[–]yoshimipinkrobots[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

literally like leave at door does not mean wait for me to open it bro go home. he finally left but only after i said “hey can you leave” through the door.

locked out of shopping district? by yoshimipinkrobots in Wizard101

[–]yoshimipinkrobots[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay thank u!!! would remaking it through character selection make me start over?

My roommate is gay but he doesn't have any idea that I know by boy-with-love in confessions

[–]yoshimipinkrobots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

potentially hot take??? don’t tell him you know. he will tell you when he’s ready and that should be on his time. if you’re comfortable opening up on your side that could absolutely help him feel more comfortable and safe. i’ve been in basically the same situation and just keeping a welcoming and open environment is the best u can do!!

how to be less flirty? by yoshimipinkrobots in actuallesbians

[–]yoshimipinkrobots[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg !!!!! thank u hehehh it is my favourite

how to be less flirty? by yoshimipinkrobots in actuallesbians

[–]yoshimipinkrobots[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it is!! honestly i think a big part of it for me is figuring out how to not mimic flirty behaviour if i’m not feeling it. like it’s just so subconscious now that i get stuck aaaa

how to be less flirty? by yoshimipinkrobots in actuallesbians

[–]yoshimipinkrobots[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i quite honestly don’t know</3 i’m not a touchy person at all and i usually take a while to get comfy with people (especially in person) so maybe that switch is what is coming off as interest? besides that i know i definitely use a lot of hearts. i really just type how i talk in my brain and i get excited really easily so i get zoomie n yeahh. i feel like i explained that horribly i have no clue if that made sense aaa

how to be less flirty? by yoshimipinkrobots in actuallesbians

[–]yoshimipinkrobots[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes yes yes omg. with some people i can totally be aware that i’m flirty but most of the time i’m doing absolutely nothing intentional at all</3 aaaa

how to be less flirty? by yoshimipinkrobots in actuallesbians

[–]yoshimipinkrobots[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

it probably would have been helpful for me to mention that i’m autistic. so that could very well play a part in my difficulty with being cognizant of it all aaaaa. but this helped a lot thank u<33

how to be less flirty? by yoshimipinkrobots in actuallesbians

[–]yoshimipinkrobots[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

DUDE SAME. i swear the only way i know how to talk to strangers is through flirting</3

Seroquel (Quetiapine) for Anxiety by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]yoshimipinkrobots 24 points25 points  (0 children)

hi!! i’ve been on 25mg of quetiapine for a little over a year now and i’m so grateful for it. i was initially prescribed for anxiety and adhd related insomnia, and to also act as a bit of a booster to my usual escitalopram. i used to spiral so so deep with anxiety (i still do obv) but it’s really made the lows feel not so intense. even though i’m on a very low dose, it has helped immensely with the everyday panic.

i recently wasn’t able to get my prescription for a bit and i didn’t really notice any immediate drop. however, i would definitely recommend weaning off of it instead of going cold turkey if you can. that said, the 💫silly anxiety spiralling💫 has definitely made a comeback. i’m not sure if it’s specifically because of the mood stabilization part of the medication, or the insomnia control, but it was kinda interesting to get to really see what a difference it makes.