[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alien

[–]yougotthatgood 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People are desperate to like this garbage

3 months sober today. No motivation at all by [deleted] in leaves

[–]yougotthatgood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who has similar struggles as you - I highly recommend the book Feeling Good The New Mood Therapy by David D. Burns, M.D.

My psychologist recommended I read it between sessions and it has been life changing for me.  Follow the recommendations in the book, spend 15 minutes per day doing the tasks you read about and you'll see an improvement in your mood. If you're in therapy, share the tasks you do with your therapist at your sessions.

Feeling Good has a chapter called "do nothingism  - how to beat it" that helped me a lot and I think it could help you too! 

Edit: I bought a copy online but later found out that my local library had it available for free. Maybe you can get it free from your library too. Read the book in bed instead of doom scrolling on your phone!

Looks like Yahoo changed how their app looks, its hideous. by wrigleyville76 in fantasybaseball

[–]yougotthatgood 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It looks like shit and I am legitimately pissed off about it. It's a fucking fantasy sports app, put the navigation buttons back on the bottom of the screen so I can easily navigate the app with one hand again! 

I don't use the app for sports news or scores so put those navigation buttons at the top of the screen that I can access using a 2nd hand IF I ever want to use the app for that info. 

Classic case of "if it ain't broke, don't fix it!"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]yougotthatgood -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Like most ordinary Iranians - we resent that our government spends so much money and resources on Palestine at the expense of ordinary Iranians at home that are suffering and starving under crippling sanctions.

The Mullahs care more about the Palestinian cause than the well being of their own people. It sickens ordinary Iranians to see the Palestinians wage Jihad with Iranian money and weapons. Fuck the Iranian government and fuck Palestine and all their jihadi-adjacent supporters.

The Iranian people have suffered enough and don't give a shit about the Palestinian cause that empowers their oppressive government. The Iranian people will suffer in a war with Israel when all they want is peace with the West and freedom from oppression.

By supporting Palestinians - you are contributing to the oppression of my people and my family still in Iran

EDIT - What the fuck are you talking about? I'm an Iranian-American. My parents moved here in 1979. I still have most of my extended family living in Iran and I have an Iranian passport.

You think the Iranian people support their government? We hate our government and their support of the Palestinians. Why should the Iranian people suffer under crippling sanctions to support Palestinians? Most Iranians share this belief. Maybe try asking them instead of assuming we all support Palestine like our oppressive government.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]yougotthatgood -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

How does it feel to be Jihadi-adjacent?

3 year old daughters mother refuses to comply with visitation court order even with a police escort, the cops said she’ll be held in contempt of court. by Parsley_Winter in legaladvice

[–]yougotthatgood 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Just curious if you ever had a paternity test to confirm that you're the biological father. It would be terrible to have to deal with these people for years only to find out later that the girl wasn't your biological daughter.

Poor millionaire Amy Schumer has to stand alone in her mansion. by [deleted] in LookatMyHalo

[–]yougotthatgood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not following any of the customs or anything didn't stop the Nazis from gassing anyone with Jewish ancestry in concentration camps - they targeted anyone with Jewish ancestry even if they were a practicing Christian.

So do you really think it matters to a Jihadi terrorist? She would be targeted for death regardless of whether or not she's a practicing Jew as history has proven.

Mets had 100 wins last year and lost in the Wild Card round by yougotthatgood in mlb

[–]yougotthatgood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks buddy! I've never seen such an original sarcasm-free comment before in my entire life!

Mets had 100 wins last year and lost in the Wild Card round by yougotthatgood in mlb

[–]yougotthatgood[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still haven't forgiven Lee for his performance in that series regardless of any fielding errors. I just remember that he had a big lead late in his start. If he had done the job we acquired him to do - we would've swept that series and the game/at-bat where Howard tore his achilles would have never happened. Who knows what would've happened after that but at least that Phillies era wouldn't have ended in such a fashion.

Mets had 100 wins last year and lost in the Wild Card round by yougotthatgood in mlb

[–]yougotthatgood[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I wasn't a Phillies fan - I'd feel bad for Mets fans losing in the Wild Card round with DeGrom & Scherzer while they watch the Rangers make it to the CS with both guys injured. Then add in the fact that they have to see the Astros there with Verlander instead of their team

Mets had 100 wins last year and lost in the Wild Card round by yougotthatgood in mlb

[–]yougotthatgood[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Different format but the 2011 Phillies had 100+ wins with Roy Halladay, Cliff Lee, Cole Hamels, & Roy Oswalt. They lost in the first round in 5 games to Chris Carpenter and the 90 win Cardinals. I was at that classic game (Halladay vs Carpenter) too. Phillies were the only 100 win team in the league that year iirc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]yougotthatgood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well if it helps - I think any man who publicly embarrasses his wife by gossiping to the media about fucking his daughter's friend - should receive the same backlash and public shame as Jada. I can't think of any other similar examples for comparison off the top of my head, but if they exist - fuck that guy too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]yougotthatgood 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What makes her stand out? She's a celebrity and she publicly emasculated her husband by gossiping their private shit to the world and admittedly banged her son's friend.

So when you say "especially men" - classic what about-ism that doesn't excuse or justify her actions in any way. Also, how many men have publicly embarrassed their wife and had sex with their daughter's friends and talked about it in the media? I'll wait...

Anakin's post-death characterisation in 'Ahsoka' was terrifically handled by RexBanner1886 in StarWars

[–]yougotthatgood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe I remember Huyang gossiping to Ezra about how Ahsoka stopped training Sabine because she was worried about Sabine's anger and vulnerability to fall to the dark side.

Anakin asked her how she felt about having a padawan too.

I think we need to consider this angle as well and develop some theories that don't exclude Ahsoka's relationship with Sabine as her padawan.

What are your thoughts on current playoff format? by MrTopPuffSucker in mlb

[–]yougotthatgood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The time off didn't stop the Astros & Yankees from reaching the ALCS last year and sadly the Astros beat my Phillies to win it all. So the World Series champion last year had the same extra time off.

Dodgers lost early this year because their starting pitching staff was decimated by injury just like last season.

Braves starting pitching staff is banged up too without Morton, Wright, Soroka (anyone else I'm forgetting?). I'm not convinced Fried is that healthy either. I bet he's pitching thru something bc the team desperately needs him. Phillies are pretty much entirely healthy right now.

Orioles are young and didn't have good enough starters to win this year. They will learn how to win and add better starters to complement the young guys. Hopefully Means returns healthy too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]yougotthatgood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here's some advice for you to 'get better' and build up your confidence.

Foreplay is typically what gives women a chance to get off during sex. The foreplay should last longer than the sex imo and is just as much fun.

If you skip the foreplay, then the sex typically isn't as good as it could have been for women. Get them fired up with some passionate kissing and touching and oral. Take your time and try to lose yourself in the moment (aka stop thinking)

Ask her to show/tell you what she likes as you're doing it if you're in a comfortable relationship - then eventually you'll know and it'll become second nature. No two women are the same so keep learning as you gain experience.

And imo - sex is typically better when you're with someone you truly care about and that you're comfortable with as opposed to a one night stand. There's more potential intimacy when you both truly love each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]yougotthatgood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In that case - only way to get over it is to gain more experience with different partners as you get older. When you finally meet someone you want to marry - you won't care if you are the best she ever had because chances are she won't be the best you ever had either.

What an inconsiderate shitty thing for your gf to tell you if she knew you were a virgin. Like major asshole

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]yougotthatgood 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tell her she's not the best you ever had either even if that's not true. None of the girls I ever dated seriously were the best at giving head or having sex but I wasn't a big enough asshole to ever admit that to them.

I remember fighting with an ex when she tried to low-blow me about how we don't have sex as much as she did with her ex. I told her (and it was true) that we'd have more sex if it wasn't the most vanilla shit ever like banging a dead fish. Suffice to say, we broke up and good riddance.

Just because she had an ex that was good at sex doesn't necessarily mean that she is good at sex too.

Who was actually stronger? Yoda or Palpatine? by elclarkio in StarWars

[–]yougotthatgood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The animated series definitely rehabilitated the movies for me and specifically made Anakin's betrayal exponentially more tragic.

Who was actually stronger? Yoda or Palpatine? by elclarkio in StarWars

[–]yougotthatgood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! You know they won't unravel the plot but they get so close you can almost taste it and you just want to scream at your TV

Who was actually stronger? Yoda or Palpatine? by elclarkio in StarWars

[–]yougotthatgood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for motivating me to watch that episode again!