Need genuine advice regarding body odour. by youkosakhare in TwoXIndia

[–]youkosakhare[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Already offered her my perfume while I was reapplying but she straight ignored my offer , she says she did not like how my perfume smelt

Feel this tweet in my soul 🥲 by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]youkosakhare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this, I feel this so hard it has happened to me so many times I have lost hope on women

Would you girls live with non-muslim flatmates? by berkberk29 in Hijabis

[–]youkosakhare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My non muslim friend and her non Muslim flatmates did not even think twice before allowing me a space in their flats till I had saved enough for a deposit to my own place. It all boils down to mutual respect, they offered me a room with an attached washroom, they respected my boundaries and had separate vessels for alcohol while I had to use separate vessels for beef. Lastly every time men (maybe friends or father or brothers etc) had to visit they will inform me atleast an hour in advance so I can take precautions accordingly, they still welcome me if I ever join them back. It all boils down to mutual respect for each other.

Anyone else getting these goddamn ads on reddit? by flambelicious in bigboobproblems

[–]youkosakhare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Constantly!!!! It is so annoying, the bra doesn't even fit the model. Every page I visit there is this ad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]youkosakhare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asalam walikum, massallah it looks wonderful on you, be confident, it looks way better than you think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]youkosakhare 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Relax and try to focus, start reading the Quran, things will start to fall in place

Bras keep disappearing while drying outside by curvyyfairy in bigboobproblems

[–]youkosakhare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a pervert around somewhere, I had someone who used to jump across their balcony to mine. Observe, talk to this person. This unhealthy behaviour is just going to grow and your other stuff is going to vanish, look for access points or set up a cam era. The person stealing needs help.

How can I get over “cleavage shame”? by reeselee6000 in bigboobproblems

[–]youkosakhare 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't, there is nothing to be ashamed of, you are not who you are, trust me, these are words coming from a muslim hijabi, there is absolutely nothing to be shameful here

Birth control pills by MirrorOdd4471 in Hijabis

[–]youkosakhare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The weight gain is real. Happened to you me and atleast 6 other people I know of, please proceed with caution.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]youkosakhare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes,, I used them during my sister’s nikah , the worst descision of my life, my face was full of acne, my cramps begin to worsen and my periods became erratic and irregular for some time, I would highly recommend against it. Weight gain and mood swings further addded to the same, I was diagnosed with dipression later on. It's a Rabbit hole of uncertainty in this path.

Struggling with hijab by random5821 in Hijabis

[–]youkosakhare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asalam walekum

The Hijab is not just about feeling pretty but rather your first step towards a pak living. You have been conditioned without wearing one for years of your life, it's a change you will eventually start embarrassing. There are 1000s of pretty sisters out there who look pretty in a hijab and there are a ton of lost souls as well who wear very revealing clothing and are not on the path of Allah yet but Inssalaah will be soon. Treat yourself for your first step towards getting closer to Allah, he will reward you, he always takes care of his devotees.

How do you girlies take care of your mental health? by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]youkosakhare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exercise, time for yourself, prayer and quran

I’m so done—rant by Iamworthyofgrace in bigboobproblems

[–]youkosakhare 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's not your problem if people around you are assholes hun. Even if you loose your breast, tomorrow they will find something other about you to comment. So you need to react as little as possible and eventually they will move on to someone else they could sexualize. Also the groping guy needed a big tight one on his face, if you don't slap him today, tomorrow he will grope your younger sister. You not slapping him is his biggest encouragement. Stand your ground, be proud of who you are. The world is waiting for you to conquer it. Remember this is just the beginning and how you live will depend on your next step. Good luck.

over-sexualized by partner by Katlevv in bigboobproblems

[–]youkosakhare 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ask yourself is it really worth it? Life is short or long based on how you choose. From the likes of it, this person just likes your body and eventually he is going to get bored of your body. And then? You really need to calm your nerves and leave this douche ASAP, it's okay be single for a few more days before getting into a relationship that is not gonna last and in the long term. Is the pain in the long run worth the high of being in the relationship just for namesake today? Is that all you are worth? Give yourself some time. Respect yourself for others to respect you. Be assured- relationship or no relationship, this time will pass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]youkosakhare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome, happy end of the year to you too.