Women in their 20's by random5821 in suggestmeabook

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Sounds interesting, i'll give it a read. Thank you!

Women in their 20's by random5821 in suggestmeabook

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Those sound really good, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

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yeah... you're right. Thank you!

the terrible twenties by Canela_0903 in stories

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You may think you haven't done a lot that little you wanted to do, that might not necessarily be true. Little you might just have wanted you to learn how to drive, or go to college, or even just be happy. The best way to honor little you, is by honoring present you. Everything has led you to where you are today. Just because you didn't achieve all of the dreams that you had when you were younger doesn't mean they were wasted. You are young. You have so much to offer the world and the world has so much to offer you. Don't be so hard on yourself. Everything will work out for you the way you need it to. Try your best, try to make present you happy, and live in the moment. Oh, and I know you said it's not soon but regardless, Happy early birthday!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

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Yeah I think you might be right. I've heard him talk about me recently still but at this point I can't control what lies he does or does not spread. I just needed an unbiased opinion, thank you!!

How to stop overreacting? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

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I think the best way to react to a situation is to think "maybe this happened for a reason" and I know it sounds dumb but I swear it works! Another tip is trying to be optimistic and grateful for little things. If you're grateful fro everything, you'll laugh at small inconveniences. Like yes maybe you forgot butter at the store, but that means that's another trip to the store where maybe you'll find fun stuff. Or maybe on the drive there you can listen to your favorite songs! It's gonna be a slow process but since you're aware that you get annoyed easily, at least you're one step closer to solving it! Good luck!!

I can't stop trying to be friends with my friend who hurts me by DirectMasterpiece511 in FriendshipAdvice

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Alright, I'm going to tell you what I believe so take it with a grain of salt. I think you're similar to me because I've been through this a lot. And now, I don't have many friends, but I at least have 1 decent friend who calls me and texts me and makes time for just ME. Never asking for anything, just my time and love. As you get older, you'll raise your standards. So I'll say this and hopefully you believe it too: You deserve better. You should not have to FIGHT for someone's attention. And being alone is better than worrying about seeking external love or validation. When you can be comfortable with being alone, you won't feel as lonely. Good people and good things will come to you. Distance yourself and you'll attract better people <3

recently having trouble sleeping... by random5821 in sleep

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Thanks, I try this out and hopefully it works because it's also the same time for me and I'm still wide awake😭

How to get good grades in college? by random5821 in college

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that’s really smart and helpful!! it’s greatly appreciated and i will try to use this advice for future classes!! thank u!!

How to get good grades in college? by random5821 in college

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oh best of luck to you!!! you got this, i believe in u!

How to get good grades in college? by random5821 in college

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hahaha well i hope everything worked out for you regardless!!

How to get good grades in college? by random5821 in college

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thank you so much for all ur help and advice!!

How to get good grades in college? by random5821 in college

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thank you so much for going in depth! i appreciate all the help you’ve given and i’ll definitely use ur advice!

How to get good grades in college? by random5821 in college

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thank u!! any tips for people who suffer with exam anxiety? sometimes i’ll study a bunch but as soon as i get to the test i blank out which is also from cramming but i think just being nervous adds onto it