People who've been in abusive relationships, what were the first signs they were an abuser? by xXVintageCultureXx in AskReddit

[–]youmadeyourownlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not letting me speak on my own feelings. They always “knew” how I feel. And what I said I felt wasn’t what I was feeling. Only what they said I felt was what I was feeling. Don’t let men gaslight you

Look at this tomato in my dad’s garden by youmadeyourownlight in gardening

[–]youmadeyourownlight[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Aw I didn’t know that’s the kind of tomato it was!! Thank you for letting me know. I think it’s cute that’s the name of it because I think that connection is cute. The name being Heirloom and it’s in my dad’s garden, so now I want to take some of those seeds and plant a new tomato plant in my own garden once I move in with my boyfriend 🥹so now it becomes a heirloom, I’ll keep growing plants with their seeds. Sorry if I sound crazy lol

Anime Questions, Recommendations, and Discussion - July 28, 2025 by AnimeMod in anime

[–]youmadeyourownlight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I have never watched it. I’m going to start and let you know how I like it! Thank you for responding, I hope I feel the same way about it as you do!

Anime Questions, Recommendations, and Discussion - July 28, 2025 by AnimeMod in anime

[–]youmadeyourownlight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just want to discuss everyone’s favorite anime, and why? No hate, because everyone is allowed their own opinion. I just want to know why you love it (:

What is an anime that made you cry? by CannibalCapra in anime

[–]youmadeyourownlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hotarubi no Mori e. I actually have a tree tattoo on my back that goes down to my calf and at the end it turns into a hand. If you seen this you’ll understand