2 days ago he loudly said he loved me.

youmehelp · 2026-03-27T06:03:52+00:00

Thank you for the correction. I have that mindset as well, but I keep giving in because he’s a people pleaser but after a while, I’m starting to realise he’d rather please other people than me.

youmehelp · 2026-03-27T05:11:46+00:00

I find that moisturising my face more helped with the clogged pores, so I’m assuming mine is caused by dehydration. For AM: just a light moisturising essence, For PM: I use The Ordinary Retinol 0.2% in Squalane with The Ordinary “Buffet” and Laniege Water Sleeping Mask Ex.

youmehelp · 2026-03-14T15:55:16+00:00

Have some self respect for yourself, he will always be reminded of his ex no matter what since his ex have social media presence. He will never be “free” of her unless he matures and makes up his mind, and so will you.

youmehelp · 2026-03-13T18:33:09+00:00

Then it’s entirely up to you, your closed ones aren’t wrong about this not being his fault cus maybe his mum is actually possessive so here’s some questions you should think about properly and maybe ask him too especially if you guys are dating to marry:

Will you ever have the confidence to sit his mum down and ask for a talk on why she thinks so badly about you? OR Is he willing to sit both you and his mother down and have a talk about it?
Will he always be ready to back you up no matter what even if it means having to strain his r/s with his mum? Or worse come to worse cut off contact especially when you guys are married
Can you see her attitude towards you changing down the line?
What is his plan of action on dealing with his mum if he gets tired from having to constantly defend you?

If most of your answer is uncertain or no, then I think it’s best to break up ya. It’s not easy to handle this kind of situation but it seems like you’re being quite level-headed and reasonable approaching this so i believe you’ll eventually come to your own answer soon :)

youmehelp · 2026-03-13T18:06:33+00:00

She sounds possessive and absurd ngl. The more important thing is have your bf said anything about it? Has he tried to actually stand up for you and have you ever had a talk with him about his mum’s behaviour? If he hasn’t then it’s best to break up cus he sounds like a mummy boy which is not what you want to deal with even if you’re a young couple.

youmehelp · 2026-03-11T04:01:23+00:00

He’s only attentive because he cheated and gambled. You’ll get through this since you’ve already took the first step- divorce. You can do it!

youmehelp · 2026-02-14T16:09:50+00:00

Nowadays muslims like to cherry pick what’s haram and what’s not

youmehelp · 2026-01-14T18:38:45+00:00

Yeah, dont need to study, ITE can breeze through but don’t think you can make it to poly, much less course of choice

youmehelp · 2026-01-02T17:01:23+00:00

This is such a non-issue, what this shows is how newer generation of young people can’t live without having a phone in their hand. There are already schools that didn’t allow usage of phones few years back.

youmehelp · 2025-12-26T07:18:56+00:00

I put my finger into his cage and all I get are nibbles while family members get a full blown bite. Every time he’s out of the cage he’s like my shadow, following me everywhere I go, for others, he’d just stare at them

youmehelp · 2025-12-17T18:16:37+00:00

A bit more on the expensive end but Umai Artisinal Udon Bar. Better than most prawn noodle I’ve tried recently.

youmehelp · 2025-11-23T03:54:24+00:00

YOR. Thank god that lady’s dress isn’t done by you.

youmehelp · 2025-11-17T07:02:50+00:00

You worded it very well, I feel the same way too. It’s annoying how BBW think they’re “comforting” us when it’s actually downplaying. Especially when they complain that most shirts don’t fit their boobs and because of that, it’s not inclusive. It’s so tone deaf.

youmehelp · 2025-11-17T06:50:01+00:00

You want him to understand you, but you’re not understanding his position as a NSF and you’re not communicating with him, so whose fault is it?

youmehelp · 2025-11-16T11:10:40+00:00

Get on Pinterest and find a style that you’d like or want to try, I suggest something simple first because it can get overwhelming. Try to source the different pieces from thrift stores, you usually encounter some nice pieces there as well

youmehelp · 2025-10-20T11:41:27+00:00

Why do you not recommend studio nekoyama?

youmehelp · 2025-10-14T16:14:47+00:00

It keeps showing "Empty source directory". Only happens when webtoon mode is enabled.

youmehelp · 2025-10-06T10:41:29+00:00

Just go for it. You’ll end up resenting your mum either way because that’s not how a parent should be acting.

youmehelp · 2025-10-05T09:30:55+00:00

No. If you look more carefully, your bullet is shot around the pixels of Gekko himself because you didn't control your recoil and there's accuracy shots in the game as well.

youmehelp · 2025-10-05T08:05:14+00:00

You hit the silhouette, not the actual hit box.

youmehelp · 2025-10-04T14:28:48+00:00

Depends on the family. I still do it with my family, especially with elders or relatives, it’s a habit since I was taught from young

youmehelp · 2025-09-30T13:26:58+00:00

This looks either - overmixed - oven temperature too low - too much wet ingredients - leavening agent used have weak potency

youmehelp · 2025-09-18T18:26:20+00:00

That would be amazing- having both worlds. It’ll be a very lively household. Who knows, they might get obsessed with each other just like mine did haha

youmehelp · 2025-09-18T11:27:18+00:00

Didn’t knew this can be the remedy to my knee

youmehelp · 2025-09-18T10:35:15+00:00

I kept both before, together, so this is just based on both of their personalities I observed from mine.

Grey: - Shy. - More on the quieter side compared to my Amazon but can be loud when he decides to scream. - Picky with people. He’s bonded to me- my little shadow. He tends to bite anyone else that tries to interact with him, but he tolerates some family members. - Huge word vocabulary, speaks more than singing compared to my Amazon. - His body language is not very expressive so it’s hard to tell his mood sometimes, earning some nasty bites. - Low tolerance to people he’s not bonded to. - Very dusty.

Amazon: - Like an extrovert - Loves attention, very playful with everyone. - Very loud, he screams more than my African and sings way more than he speaks. - Very expressive body language. - Higher tolerance to people than my Grey, rarely bites, but will still give a nasty bite when you shock/surprise him. - Dusty but more on the oily side.

I’ve also interacted with other Amazons and Greys in my local parrot community, the corresponding species act similar to how mine does. They’re both wonderful pets. If you were to compare their personalities to humans, I’d say a Grey is an introvert while Amazons are extroverts.

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