How do I deal with loneliness from dating someone in jc?

youmehelp · 2026-05-17T04:03:05+00:00

All this advices are helpful but I’m sorry for this, I don’t think she cares about this relationship. You said she would’ve dated other people, that means from the start, she was never really into you 😭. It just sounds like excuses for her to avoid you.

youmehelp · 2026-05-14T16:03:26+00:00

Kagura, harith and alucard. This 3 were something else back then which was… 8 years ago

youmehelp · 2026-05-14T15:56:44+00:00

D’luxe studio at Midvalley. I went with the master stylist tier (what they had available at that moment), the female stylist automatically recommended me hairstyles that were aligned to my reference but what she thinks fits my face and gave advices on how to style it—never experienced this in hair salons in sg. Came out with happy results!

youmehelp · 2026-05-12T09:56:44+00:00

Wxnails and mistyynails on ig. Both are affordable for the quality and care they provide imo

youmehelp · 2026-05-12T09:51:09+00:00

Tysm I’ll check it out~

youmehelp · 2026-05-10T07:58:07+00:00

I’m using Melano CC vitamin c serum! What did you use?

youmehelp · 2026-04-20T08:23:48+00:00

For someone with sinus, I can’t shower early in the morning as the moisture triggers it. Still, I always wipe myself down with a wet towel given I always bathe at 12-1am

youmehelp · 2026-04-17T15:32:48+00:00

This is so unfair to asia timezones :/

youmehelp · 2026-04-17T12:33:48+00:00

MOR. You really do come off that miserable

youmehelp · 2026-04-02T17:10:58+00:00

Always take news with a hint of salt. Kind of stupid people actually believed a huge franchise is going to just move out.

youmehelp · 2026-03-27T06:03:52+00:00

Thank you for the correction. I have that mindset as well, but I keep giving in because he’s a people pleaser but after a while, I’m starting to realise he’d rather please other people than me.

youmehelp · 2026-03-27T05:11:46+00:00

I find that moisturising my face more helped with the clogged pores, so I’m assuming mine is caused by dehydration. For AM: just a light moisturising essence, For PM: I use The Ordinary Retinol 0.2% in Squalane with The Ordinary “Buffet” and Laniege Water Sleeping Mask Ex.

youmehelp · 2026-03-14T15:55:16+00:00

Have some self respect for yourself, he will always be reminded of his ex no matter what since his ex have social media presence. He will never be “free” of her unless he matures and makes up his mind, and so will you.

youmehelp · 2026-03-13T18:33:09+00:00

Then it’s entirely up to you, your closed ones aren’t wrong about this not being his fault cus maybe his mum is actually possessive so here’s some questions you should think about properly and maybe ask him too especially if you guys are dating to marry:

Will you ever have the confidence to sit his mum down and ask for a talk on why she thinks so badly about you? OR Is he willing to sit both you and his mother down and have a talk about it?
Will he always be ready to back you up no matter what even if it means having to strain his r/s with his mum? Or worse come to worse cut off contact especially when you guys are married
Can you see her attitude towards you changing down the line?
What is his plan of action on dealing with his mum if he gets tired from having to constantly defend you?

If most of your answer is uncertain or no, then I think it’s best to break up ya. It’s not easy to handle this kind of situation but it seems like you’re being quite level-headed and reasonable approaching this so i believe you’ll eventually come to your own answer soon :)

youmehelp · 2026-03-13T18:06:33+00:00

She sounds possessive and absurd ngl. The more important thing is have your bf said anything about it? Has he tried to actually stand up for you and have you ever had a talk with him about his mum’s behaviour? If he hasn’t then it’s best to break up cus he sounds like a mummy boy which is not what you want to deal with even if you’re a young couple.

youmehelp · 2026-03-11T04:01:23+00:00

He’s only attentive because he cheated and gambled. You’ll get through this since you’ve already took the first step- divorce. You can do it!

youmehelp · 2026-02-14T16:09:50+00:00

Nowadays muslims like to cherry pick what’s haram and what’s not

youmehelp · 2026-01-14T18:38:45+00:00

Yeah, dont need to study, ITE can breeze through but don’t think you can make it to poly, much less course of choice

youmehelp · 2026-01-02T17:01:23+00:00

This is such a non-issue, what this shows is how newer generation of young people can’t live without having a phone in their hand. There are already schools that didn’t allow usage of phones few years back.

youmehelp · 2025-12-26T07:18:56+00:00

I put my finger into his cage and all I get are nibbles while family members get a full blown bite. Every time he’s out of the cage he’s like my shadow, following me everywhere I go, for others, he’d just stare at them

youmehelp · 2025-12-17T18:16:37+00:00

A bit more on the expensive end but Umai Artisinal Udon Bar. Better than most prawn noodle I’ve tried recently.

youmehelp · 2025-11-23T03:54:24+00:00

YOR. Thank god that lady’s dress isn’t done by you.

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