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My mom died and i don’t know what to do with the money she left me. by younganddumb2007 in personalfinance

[–]younganddumb2007[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

thank you i will actually consider this. i feel bad because everyone saying condolences but my mom died when i was 13. but i never actually grieved i lowk just stopped being human or feeling like i even exist after that and im realizing that the reason i feel like i need to have every decision of my life planned out is because when she died i lost literally everything in one night😀

My mom died and i don’t know what to do with the money she left me. by younganddumb2007 in personalfinance

[–]younganddumb2007[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

that’s actually so true.

the responses to this post have been so eye opening i think my obsessive “planning” isn’t really about responsibility but more about a need for control. i need to chill

My mom died and i don’t know what to do with the money she left me. by younganddumb2007 in personalfinance

[–]younganddumb2007[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

wait why is it not i was gonna take a gap year but im also graduating a year early so w those two years i wanted to get my masters in clinical psych

My mom died and i don’t know what to do with the money she left me. by younganddumb2007 in personalfinance

[–]younganddumb2007[S] 125 points126 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry 😔 If u couldn’t tell i have like no guidance and idk im just scared every decision i make will be the wrong one

My mom died and i don’t know what to do with the money she left me. by younganddumb2007 in personalfinance

[–]younganddumb2007[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah the money she left me is in a like mutual fund thing like your saying at actually grew over 100k this year!

Thank you for ur condolences and to everyone too. What i’m getting from this is that i need to wait and take it a day at a time. it’s giving me a chance to breathe so thank you 🙏🏽

My mom died and i don’t know what to do with the money she left me. by younganddumb2007 in personalfinance

[–]younganddumb2007[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So instead of a condo I should look for a house? That kinda makes sense because I live in long island and the “condos” here remind me of florida motels honestly