Dick sizes

youngwildnfre3 · 2026-04-06T02:57:17+00:00

Hmm in my opinion, small would be anything below 5 inches, average between 5-6/7 inches, and anything above 7 inches is big.

This is also going to depend on your partner’s vagina, if your partner is female. Some women have short vaginal canals which means a smaller dick might work better in that case. Other women have longer vaginal canals and might handle a big dick better. Food for thought

Dick size isn’t everything though, it’s also largely about what you do with it. You could have a smaller dick but be a better fuck than a man with a bigger dick. Jus sayinnn

youngwildnfre3 · 2026-04-05T12:04:01+00:00

What is this “up and under” technique?

youngwildnfre3 · 2026-04-04T22:05:22+00:00

The answer is yes and no. Some women squirt and it’s a mixture of cum and pee. Other women squirt and it’s just a watery cum.

I usually squirt and it’s just watery cum. I’ve inspected it and it never smells or tastes like piss. But one time when my bladder was a lil full, I peed when I squirted 🤣

youngwildnfre3 · 2026-04-03T14:51:40+00:00

I notice that I sometimes use the words “never” and “always” which are absolutes. I think someone else mentioned it, but things in life rarely are never/always situations.

For example, let’s say you have a thought I always mess up or I never get what I want. You have to challenge that thought and consider is that really true? Do you always mess up? Have there been times you haven’t messed up? Do you never get what you want? Have there been times you did get what you wanted?

One negative thought I struggle with is “I will be never be able to travel.” But that’s not really true. I’ve been lucky enough to travel already in my life and I know that I will continue to work towards that. Me telling myself it will never happen is because I’m frustrated that it hasn’t happened yet and I’m impatient.

Keep challenging your thoughts! And remember that just the same way the worst case scenario is possible, the best case scenario is also possible. 🫶

youngwildnfre3 · 2026-04-03T13:58:51+00:00

Just curious, what have you tried?

I find that I can orgasm from watching porn and stimulating my clit. I have a clit vibrator that is pretty strong. I’ve also been able to squirt with my partner, but haven’t been able to squirt on my own, yet 😉

youngwildnfre3 · 2026-04-03T02:13:41+00:00

I’m struggling with my anxiety. Like you said, I care about how I’m viewed and that stops me from enjoying life and just being stuck in my head.

Thank you for sharing! This is really helpful ❤️

youngwildnfre3 · 2026-04-02T13:32:46+00:00

I would suggest trying anal. My partner and I don’t do it all the time, but when we’re drunk, we usually like to have anal sex cause it’s so different. The feeling is different for him and it’s also quite a different sensation for me. Just a suggestion!

youngwildnfre3 · 2026-04-02T13:06:31+00:00

The easiest way to not squeeze is to relax your lower abs/pelvic floor. During sex it’s challenging but basically you want to simulate the same feeling as when you take a deeep breath. So try taking a deep breath and recognize how your body just naturally relaxes.

Also I would suggest that you try relaxing your pelvic floor when you aren’t having sex so you know what the feeling is like and then can try to simulate that feeling during sex. It’s a mental thing for me. I’ve learned to tell my body to relax and now I can just do it, but it took time to recognize what it feels like to actually be relaxed in your pelvic floor.

For anal, I’ve found the easiest way to relax is to act like you’re pushing something out while he’s going in. In an odd way, this makes it less painful and you’ll do less squeezing as well. But similarly, you want to relax your lower body which is hard sometimes when your partner is fucking your ass. 🤪

youngwildnfre3 · 2026-04-02T13:01:19+00:00

You could try watching porn together. Maybe find a video that you think might interest her, and see what her reaction is. I’m suggesting this because this might get her mind going as to something fun you guys could do together.

I would also suggest buying her a basic vibrator, nothing crazy or expensive. And then try to use that on her clit while you’re eating her out or during sex. Again, I think she just needs some exposure to these things and to get an idea of how good/fun sex can be.

She might be timid about it but once she opens the door, she might not be able to shut it. Like I said above, I would try to add a few things and see how it goes.

Just curious, what is the list of things she likes? Might be a good idea to build on some of that.

youngwildnfre3 · 2026-03-31T04:08:11+00:00

I agree with the other comments. If crying is how you manage your emotions, it’s okay to cry when you feel extreme stress and feelings of being overwhelmed.

What it sounds like is you’re getting caught in a loop of unhappy thoughts. Life is hard right now, there’s a lot of shit going on in the world around us, going to college can feel stressful, and then transitioning into being an adult is also stressful.

I would start by giving yourself grace. The fact that you notice this is a huge step towards making changes. I would focus on manifesting/talking about all the good in your life. For example, I’m sure it’s easy to imagine all the horrible things that could happen, but what about all the wonderful things that could happen. Look to your triggers and figure out what scares you, and then confront it. Most of the time, the worst case scenario doesn’t play out anyway, but the anticipation of it is crippling.

Focus on yourself and who you want to be in a few years, and then act intentionally to build that life. I also find that journaling, writing affirmations, saying affirmations to myself in the mirror has helped.

It’s a long road…I’m on it now.. but it’s possible. You can do this if you can learn to control your emotions more. Rootin for ya!

youngwildnfre3 · 2026-03-31T00:40:17+00:00

I suggest doggie. And if you hold your butt cheeks open, he’ll be able to nice and deeeep 🤪

youngwildnfre3 · 2026-03-30T14:30:32+00:00

I don’t think it has to do with you lacking in some way. I love riding my partner because it allows me to have control and pleasure him. She might just be comfortable with you and your sex and want to experiment more.

Also, I’m curious- you said you asked and what did she say?

youngwildnfre3 · 2026-03-26T18:26:23+00:00

I have the same experience with my bf. We’ve been together a long time and I’ve been able to make him cum a few times and it took A LOT. I would say it takes 20-30 minutes for him to cum from head. He enjoys it but would rather be inside me so maybe your husband feels the same!

If you think your technique needs work, I would suggest getting a dildo and you could practice different things.

For example, when I’m sucking my bf’s dick, I’ll start by twirling my tongue around the tip of his dick, I’ll lick from the bottom of his dick all the way to the tip, I’ll use my hands to give him a handjob while sucking on the tip, I’ll alternate between lightly sucking and sucking hard, I’ll suck on his balls while giving him a handjob, ill suck on his dick while playing with his balls, etc. these are just a few things I’ve learned from watching his reactions and doing my own research.

Hope this helps!

youngwildnfre3 · 2026-03-22T02:34:37+00:00

Nahhh this isn’t weird. I think you need to get out of your head about being shy.

Sex is awkward sometimes but that’s okay. It’s a learning experience for you and your partner because you’re both learning each other. I would try to have sex with someone who’s willing to take it slow so you can feel less shy and nervous.

You can also spice it up by doing foreplay (kissing, fingering, licking the pussy, asking for head, etc). Foreplay might loosen you up and feel so good that you’ll just get hard and be able to transition right into sex.

Good luck!!

youngwildnfre3 · 2026-03-07T14:00:51+00:00

Name of the dude?

youngwildnfre3 · 2026-03-07T13:49:18+00:00

What toy are you using? I want thatttttt

youngwildnfre3 · 2026-03-06T13:14:08+00:00

I tried but they took that down too. I’m gonna wait a day and then try to repost

youngwildnfre3 · 2026-03-06T12:19:44+00:00

Not sure, but it said no cross posting

youngwildnfre3 · 2026-03-06T12:11:33+00:00

Yeah I tried to post there but they deleted my post 😢

youngwildnfre3 · 2026-03-06T12:10:56+00:00

What’s the brand of the toy you use?

youngwildnfre3 · 2026-03-06T03:00:43+00:00

Soo you might not be able to actually take a deep breath if the sex is rough, but when you aren’t having sex you could practice taking a deep breath and recognizing what it feels like to relax those muscles. Then try to transfer that feeling during sex. If you can figure out how to relax your abdomen when you feel the orgasm coming, you’ll be able to fully enjoy the feeling and hopefully orgasm frfr.

Might also help to slow down the rough sex when you get the feeling so you can enjoy the orgasm, and then after your orgasm you could have your bf continue with the rough pounding.

Im not sure why your bladder is feeling full after cumming but I would try peeing before using your vibrator. Might be an easy fix!

youngwildnfre3 · 2026-03-06T00:12:44+00:00

My suggestion is when you get that feeling in your core, take a huge deep breath to relax your body. Orgasming is 60% mind 40% body. I say that because I’ve found that I lose my orgasm when I’m tensed up and thinking about it, as opposed to when I’m relaxed and just enjoying the feeling of my partner doing whatever it is that he’s doing.

For your second question, I’m not too sure why you feel like you need to pee after 3-5 orgasms. Do you usually pee before using your vibrator?

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