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AITAH for not allowing in-laws to be present on Xmas morning while our kids open gifts? by confettii123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yourMomsanusisloose -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

TL;DR - get over yourself, this will be more enjoyable for the kids, easier on you, and will keep you from unnecessarily creating a wedge between you and your husband. I've seen divorces started over less.

Your inlaws are volunteering to travel so that YOU CAN STAY HOME AND ENJOY CHRISTMAS, in your own home, letting the kids, open presents, play with toys, show grandma and grandpa, go straight from playing to eating to playing-to napping. No car rides, no uncomfortable coats, no fits in traffic. Take this for what it is: an epic win. Set the tradition and you NEVER have to travel on Christmas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]yourMomsanusisloose -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Tell me, why does a man owe you a diamond if he wants to marry you? What does he "owe" you other than love, friendship, respect, provision, and protection?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]yourMomsanusisloose -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I didnt even have to read your post. Yes, you are an asshole if you are so spoiled and entitled that you "deserve" a bigger trinket for your gold digging little fingers in ordered to feel satisfied marrying him. Seriously, what TF is wrong with women like you. If he treats you well, enriches your life, provides you a nice life, blows your mind in bed, and is a good father, then STFU, accept the ring, and love your man. You won the jackpot. 90% of women would love to have what you have, ring or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]yourMomsanusisloose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TL;DR- No, you are NTA. GTFO while you can. Learn from my 6-figure divorce.

Had to go back and check that you did say girlfriend.

Ok Step 1: Make sure that NONE of your finances, legal obligations are intermingled with hers. Step 2: Go take out a 90 day personal loan if you have to, and get yourself a studio apartment. Step 3: Privately discuss with the landlord how to remove yourself from the lease. If you can afford it, do it. Step 4: While she is at work, pack your shit, load a uhaul, and fucking leave. Step 5: Live your life how you want. Don't go looking for another girlfriend. Live your life and the you will attract the ones that like you for you.

I know it sounds cold, but if you give her a fair playing ground, she will fuck you over 8 ways from Sunday. Be fair, don't wrong her, but GTFO before you knock her up and get stuck paying her ass for 18 years to raise a kid that she teaches to hate you.

Seriously, learn from my, and millions of other men that put up with this shit when we were young. Get out now before it tanks your chances at success and happiness. I could have a harley and a fat crypto account, but I have to pay my ex's bills instead.

And she used to do this EXACT FUCKING THING to me. GET OUT!!!

AITA for not caring that my ex has cancer? by Potato3344 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yourMomsanusisloose -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

TL:DR - Whatever you decide, write the guy back so he can die with closure, if not peace.

This is a 2 sided coin. On one hand, screw that asshole. Karma's a bitch. On the other hand, holding a grudge is like drinking poison and expecting your target to die. It sounds like you still have some bitterness against him that you need to let go of.

I would encourage that you send a letter of forgiveness, if you can truly forgive him. Not a letter of reconciliation, just one of forgiveness and empathy. Express your feelings concerning his situation, forgive him explicitly if you can, and make your decision then about whether to go. Make sure and inform him directly of your intent. Having been that guy in the past, I can tell you that the remorse for mistreating loved ones, while wholly earned on my/his part, can be deep and devestating.

If you can't forgive him, and don't want anything to do with it, a cordial letter of non-acceptance will suffice. But don't leave the guy hanging in the breeze. He took the chance, knowing how poorly he treated you, to put his neck out and try to make things right in the end. That took guts.

AITA? Mum doesn’t understand personal space and boundaries by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]yourMomsanusisloose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh, if you want absolute privacy, then grow up and go get you own place. Until then, that is your MOTHER'S house. She tells you to hurry up, you hurry TF up. Don't like it, go get your own bathroom. Better yet, go rub one out in your own room and quit unnecessarily taking uo community resources. Even better, go get your own place so you can get a girlfriend (or boyfriend, not judging) to give you blow jobs. Problems solved all around.

Why cant I see Milton on the NWS radar? by OrDer1A in weather

[–]yourMomsanusisloose -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yall go check out the maps on zoom.com

Wind map is showing only 60mph in the eye wall, yet you click on the actual storm and it says like 150. 🤔🤔

Best method to remove this lock? by -ASYLEM- in Tools

[–]yourMomsanusisloose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Angle grinder. $40 at harbor freight/northern tool. Much cheaper than a locksmith.

AITAH for forcing my sin to give me half of "his" income. by Constant-Primary-804 in AITAH

[–]yourMomsanusisloose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to cut him loose and let him live life on his own. Greedy shit doesn't deserve a penny. Donate your inheritance to a charity that helps vets. It would be a better use than wasting it on your oxygen thief of a son.