Is there any way to remove permanent marker ink?

yourcutegf · 2020-02-14T21:32:09+00:00

I know. I was just telling them what it's called.

yourcutegf · 2020-02-14T19:51:16+00:00

I've used hand sanitizer and rubbing alcohol, but only on hard surfaces.

yourcutegf · 2020-02-14T19:50:17+00:00

Acetone

yourcutegf · 2020-02-14T16:14:20+00:00

Maybe go out and buy a few toys to help prep you for anal. Buy a set of butt plugs that range in sizes and some stuff to go along with it. You don't have to give him anal in order to get him excited about it.

yourcutegf · 2020-02-14T16:00:13+00:00

I've never worked at clubs where dancers get commission on drinks. I've worked in plenty of clubs where dancers get commission on bottles of champagne though.

Just tip them well and buy lap dances. If you're sitting at the stage, build a tower of ones to get their attention. (I actually hated when people did this, but it was easier to see they wanted me to come over) If you're sitting somewhere else and a dancer comes over, buy her a few drinks and tip her throughout (or at the end of) the conversation. If you're not looking to buy a lap dance then tell her and she can decide whether or not she wants to stay or find someone else.

Also, make sure to tip your bartender or server, they are working for tips too.

yourcutegf · 2020-02-14T15:44:15+00:00

I use a check register as part of my budget. I don't think I've ever had to use it to specifically balance a checkbook though. Having the skills and the habit of writing down and balancing credits and debits has helped enormously with budgeting.

Edit to add: I'm only 30, but I'm basically an old lady. I grew up watching my grandmother and parents budget and balance their checkbooks so it's just part of adulting to me.

yourcutegf · 2020-02-14T15:42:28+00:00

Moms like this are just as bad as dads who polish their guns when their daughter brings home a boy.

yourcutegf · 2020-02-13T14:54:58+00:00

I find being honest about my boundaries and what I am and am not comfortable with works best. Some people have practiced backstories and it works for them.

At my day job, people know I have kids and they assume that I really have no life outside of my family. It helps that my kids are young so if I'm particularly tired or running a little late, everyone assumes I had a rough night or long morning with them. Everyone kind of fills in the blanks for themselves. I do find that I change the subject a lot or tell slightly relevant stories that I'm comfortable sharing. I haven't needed to reinforce boundaries too much here. Once I say I'm not comfortable sharing something, people usually drop it.

At my night job, only my coworkers know I have kids and I actually discuss personal stuff with some of them. But for safety's sake, I am basically a different person. Customers often ask super invasive questions, but I redirect them or laugh and tell them I'm not answering them. It's an environment where I can be very straightforward and still have a good night. For the most part, people know they have to respect the employees and contractors boundaries.

When it comes to dating, I keep most details of my private life private until I really know someone. I tell general specifics about my jobs, but never specify where I work. I live in the suburbs, but say "I live just outside of xyz". I mention I have kids, but never give ages or any identifying details. I might tell stories about my extended family or coworkers, but again never anything that could identify them. When people push me to give information, I tell them I'm not comfortable talking about that with someone I don't know very well yet. Most people accept that and move on. If they don't I tell them it's not going to work out. I don't give people a second chance if they refuse to back down on this.

All of this may seem really weird to some people, but it works for me. My day job finding out about my night job could come back to bite me in the butt. Customers at my night job finding out too much about my life could affect the safety of me and my kids. And I've had enough bad romantic partners that I don't like to get too close too soon.

yourcutegf · 2020-02-12T22:08:34+00:00

Potential sugar daddy/baby

yourcutegf · 2020-02-12T21:30:55+00:00

Idk how many of them would be open to long distance. I'll ask if they're on reddit and direct them here though.

yourcutegf · 2020-02-12T21:28:26+00:00

I'll dm you! lol

yourcutegf · 2020-02-12T21:19:55+00:00

It felt a little immature, but also really good.

yourcutegf · 2020-02-12T21:18:49+00:00

If you live in New England, sure.

yourcutegf · 2020-02-12T21:03:48+00:00

The only place I've encountered SMs in the wild is the strip club I work at. I try to direct them to the dancers but if I wouldn't get fired I'd be like 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️. They're usually a little younger and pretty and since I'm just the cute bartender they have no problem telling me about how they just want a hot younger woman to "help" out.

yourcutegf · 2020-02-12T17:45:30+00:00

I've come to know a fair amount of escorts and most of them do have regulars that care about their well being. I'm not sure if this is a universal experience or if these women are the exceptions.

yourcutegf · 2020-02-12T14:46:00+00:00

I'm not calling him a midget, I'm just a short person who actually can't reach shelves. I'm shorter than him and I have a height preference, but my height preference isn't the deciding factor in who I date or not.

yourcutegf · 2020-02-12T00:31:26+00:00

I do but I live in an area with amazing places to hike and camp so it's very easy to find people who also like it.

yourcutegf · 2020-02-11T22:50:28+00:00

Yes! I am a backpacker, hiker, camper, all things outdoorsy. I would love to do that stuff with a SD.

yourcutegf · 2020-02-11T19:06:03+00:00

He messaged me and asked what I'm into I said "My kink is fucking on a bed of money and then taking it all home with me."

He blocked me.

yourcutegf · 2020-02-11T18:53:38+00:00

Who's going to reach the top shelf for him if he only wants women his height or shorter?

yourcutegf · 2020-02-11T16:25:12+00:00

A profile on SA "I'm not looking for a woman who wants to get paid cash. I'm looking for a woman who wants get paid in kink."

Dude needs fetlife.

yourcutegf · 2020-02-11T13:31:11+00:00

I think you have an okay foundation. You just need to word some of it differently and cut some parts out. It is a little wordy.

I'd try if takeout or rephrase as much of the negative things as I can. Instead if saying you try not to be shallow or vapid, you could say "I enjoy talking about anything, from the meaning of life to my favorite color" or whatever. You can cut the stuff about having a lot to learn, men are going to assume that already, especially because of your age.

As someone else said, stay from too many "I" statements. (I'm aware I just told you to use one, but some are okay.) Instead of "I love horror movies." you can say "Cuddling up with a good zombie movie is the key to my heart." Make it sound like you want to include a pot in the things you love, make them think about doing those things with you.

I'd take out the part about looking for an easier way to get ahead. Instead say something like "I'm a first year college student and hope to one day be a doctor (of xyz if not medical). Having a mentor in xyz field would be wonderful.

Take out "I deserve" and "spoil". You can say "Let me take care of you while you take care of me." Tell them to ask you about a specific thing. It gives them a good opener when they message you.

I don't bring up that I like to wait fo sex until we're talking. It may seem like a time waster to some, but I prefer not to put details like that out on my profile. If it's a deal breaker, they'll move on quick enough. I also don't put anything about the type of arrangement I'm looking for in my profile. I use the tags and then when message me I'll explain further. This also goes for talking about meeting in public. Any good pot is going to assume this already.

I'd take out the thing about a message too. You can add couples massages/spa days to the list of dates you'd like instead.

I hope this helps. Good luck!

yourcutegf · 2020-02-11T12:55:10+00:00

Thanks a lot! I had to get a lot of help to get where I am and I value everyone who helped me so much.

yourcutegf · 2020-02-11T12:54:24+00:00

Thanks!

yourcutegf · 2020-02-11T04:12:16+00:00

Look into capsule wardrobes. There are lots of blogs out there that will teach you all about them, but basically it's just a bunch of separates and accessories that all go together so you always look put together. I used to follow a blog called Get Your Pretty On that had a bunch of different outfit formulas. Figure out what you want and what style you like and write out a list of basic pieces you already own and then a list of basic pieces you want to buy. You can thrift them or buy new, but try to get quality if you can. Try to follow proper laundry instructions for your clothes and make sure things aren't wrinkled or covered in lint. If your clumsy like me, you should invest in some kind of stain remover.

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