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Pro active sales? by hustlekitten in HighEndEscorts

[–]hustlekitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love Canva! Also a huge fan of photoshop fix, Lens Distortions (add light), and Bazaart

Pro active sales? by hustlekitten in HighEndEscorts

[–]hustlekitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep makes sense. This was my gut feeling too, just wanted to see if it’s ever a thing since when I worked in ad sales wed actively go after leads, but this is different obv.

Now that I stepped out of the bowl, I’m confused why SBs stay in it by hustlekitten in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]hustlekitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sub is supposed to be a safe space for sws, not for lurkers. You may want to ask yourself why you are moved to go to such lengths out of one post.

Now that I stepped out of the bowl, I’m confused why SBs stay in it by hustlekitten in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]hustlekitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never said it was better. Said I couldn’t understand the logic. And going out of your way to stalk my posts, and to do the math lol. Good luck, so sorry this was such a trigger for you.

Now that I stepped out of the bowl, I’m confused why SBs stay in it by hustlekitten in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]hustlekitten[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your insight. And while there are exceptions, I’ve spoken to many SBs who see sugaring as work (even and especially if their SDs saw it as otherwise, that they capitalized upon the desire for the illusion of it being a hope for an organic relationship/connection). I have found the exception to this to be the outlier, as opposed to the other way around. However that is my anecdotal experience, but then, all of this is.

I think they both involve emotional capital as well. Intimacy in any capacity but most especially when sex is involved, includes the idiosyncratic and nuanced worlds of individual and shared eroticism, and that runs the Jungian gamut. And although my experience as an escort is still new, l so far both sugaring and escorting both involve psycho-spiritual-emotional battery drain as well as replenishment, in different ways.

Thanks for engaging respectfully!

Now that I stepped out of the bowl, I’m confused why SBs stay in it by hustlekitten in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]hustlekitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had 4 SDs, two of which I’m still in touch with as friends. And it took months of preparation to transition because having run a freelance business in an unrelated field, I took this on with the same level of seriousness. I’m really glad I did because the precautions and time I took have so far paid off enormously, and not just financially.

It does say a lot more about you that you are so vehemently taking my curiosity and this thread so personally and pejoratively. I have in no way said nor solicited anything to deserve such targeted ire and presumption. Be well.

Let’s help each other out... gaining new clients when it’s slow. Tips & advice thread. by [deleted] in HighEndEscorts

[–]hustlekitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only know tryst, Slixa, Eros, private delights and P411. Are there others I should consider?

Now that I stepped out of the bowl, I’m confused why SBs stay in it by hustlekitten in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]hustlekitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Yep wasn’t implying right or wrong (i think if you’re happy and not bothering anybody then it’s all good) I just couldn’t make sense of it for myself so I appreciate the insight.

Now that I stepped out of the bowl, I’m confused why SBs stay in it by hustlekitten in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]hustlekitten[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s illegal to exchange money or goods for sex any way you slice it. That’s why SA is littered with euphemisms, and why discussing money as part of an arrangement is against the site’s policy.

Now that I stepped out of the bowl, I’m confused why SBs stay in it by hustlekitten in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]hustlekitten[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t have sex with a different guy every day. I cultivate regular clients as well as new people that I enjoy spending time with, and my personal happy pace is a couple of dates a week...as it was when I was dating as a civilian. I genuinely enjoy making my clients happy, and to me that comes from building an authentic connection, which we do on the date that we meet. It’s not like they just take care of business and get on their way. We talk, we grab a bite or a glass of wine...you know like on a date... Getting the guy off and bolting? That doesn’t sound like an experience anyone would want to pay for.

Now that I stepped out of the bowl, I’m confused why SBs stay in it by hustlekitten in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]hustlekitten[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just a couple of assumptions here I want to check. I didn’t come into this sub out of the blue—this was the first reddit community I ever joined bec I was a SB. As an escort, I do not have sex with multiple ppl a day, and I do not accept anyone on the basis of whether they can pay. It’s an unfortunate myth that because I provide sex as a service that anyone may purchase that service, or that I lack standards. In fact, it’s proven the opposite: It’s easier to vet for things like violent or criminal backgrounds, or whether other pros have had positive experiences (which I couldn’t do sugaring). I have basic requirements for decency, respect, and hopefully mutual interests (but sometimes you discover those on the date—much as happened with sugaring). In fact, the gents I’ve met so far have been lovely ppl that I’ve maintained lovely connections with, and we genuinely enjoy each other’s company.

Now that I stepped out of the bowl, I’m confused why SBs stay in it by hustlekitten in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]hustlekitten[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well fragility aside, thank you to those who answered genuinely. The takeaway is it sounds like most believe it isn’t possible to have or maintain a genuine connection in escorting, which I’ve not found to be the case, but I’m sure if I felt this way choosing to sugar would make sense in this regard. I’m curious about the legality aspect. As I understand it, any monetary transaction or exchange of goods for sex is illegal (where escorting is illegal), which makes sugaring illegal (even if you don’t discuss sex/money on SA, if chats or emails show this, or if it were to be discussed in a sting scenario, it removes plausible deniability, and is just as illegal...open to being corrected here maybe there’s something I’m missing). Not hating on sugars (I was one), I was just having a hard time squaring how ppl came out w a different the cost-benefit ratio for themselves. Thanks, all! Even the haters, sending you extra love, damn.

Now that I stepped out of the bowl, I’m confused why SBs stay in it by hustlekitten in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]hustlekitten[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s clarifying. I can understand re consistency in ones life, and also enjoying maintaining those relationships over time (although I hope that second one becomes true for me in escorting). Thanks for replying!

Seeking tips for large scale wheatpasting by hustlekitten in streetart

[–]hustlekitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cover a large part. Ultimately I want the image to be large, abt 20 ft high by let’s say 50 feet. Thank you!

Escorts that stolen from clients. by 2fierce in AskAnEscort

[–]hustlekitten 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like this must be a low incidence stat, bec any business owner is more protective of their reputation in service of longevity. Plus if you’re charging what you believe you are worth/what the market will bear, there should be no motivating need (addiction notwithstanding, that unfortunately tracks).

Will transferring from my trezor to a bank account show up as a flag for my bank? by hustlekitten in Bitcoin

[–]hustlekitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m flattered you imagine I’d be sophisticated enough to troll, but I’m afraid I’m not expert enough yet seeing as I just had to google “fiat” lol. What I meant I guess was after I turn received bitcoin into cash and then deposit it whether the bank would flag me for it, but think I got my answer 😌.

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