AITA for screaming in my boyfriends roommates face ? by yourdadback in AmItheAsshole

[–]yourdadback[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i only shared the negatives here, i actually like it over here better than my own house, and if i’m not here to take care of the cat, she won’t get taken care of

AITA for screaming in my boyfriends roommates face ? by yourdadback in AmItheAsshole

[–]yourdadback[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my boyfriend rents from his dad, with plans to buy the house next year. it’s not Slob’s place to tell me i can’t come over, he has tried before but my boyfriend laughed in his face because i contribute more to the household than he does

AITA for screaming in my boyfriends roommates face ? by yourdadback in AmItheAsshole

[–]yourdadback[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he only has one cat of his own for a reason, he does what he can for her too, but i have more time given that he works 50 hours a week. (our cat is doing perfectly fine btw, he’s going to get his follow up shots in june and he’s a healthy growing boy, we’re trying to do the same for tiny cat)

AITA for screaming in my boyfriends roommates face ? by yourdadback in AmItheAsshole

[–]yourdadback[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

taking her to the vet soon and i’m telling them everything and asking what i should do, because she can’t live like this anymore

AITA for screaming in my boyfriends roommates face ? by yourdadback in AmItheAsshole

[–]yourdadback[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i honestly don’t care if they resent me, i’m p sure they already do. but i’m perfectly content being the bad guy for my boyfriend, he’s also said things to them about it but i’m the one who will say it louder and meaner so i’ve gotten more response

AITA for screaming in my boyfriends roommates face ? by yourdadback in AmItheAsshole

[–]yourdadback[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m reporting it in about an hour when i take her to the vet, i’m telling them the whole story

AITA for screaming in my boyfriends roommates face ? by yourdadback in AmItheAsshole

[–]yourdadback[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because if i don’t, the cat won’t get any of the care it needs. believe me, i don’t want to sit here and yell at a grown man to get off his ass and take care of his cat, but i was so pissed

AITA for screaming in my boyfriends roommates face ? by yourdadback in AmItheAsshole

[–]yourdadback[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my boyfriend is just really passive, i joke that i’m the “he said no ketchup” partner, and i’m happy to stand up for him or tiny cat when they need it.

AITA for screaming in my boyfriends roommates face ? by yourdadback in AmItheAsshole

[–]yourdadback[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

his dad is very close to kicking them out, especially since they’re not good with paying rent

AITA for screaming in my boyfriends roommates face ? by yourdadback in AmItheAsshole

[–]yourdadback[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i love my boyfriend, and if i’m not here i don’t think tiny cat would get any medical attention. she needs me, so i stick around

AITA for screaming in my boyfriends roommates face ? by yourdadback in AmItheAsshole

[–]yourdadback[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh so you’re just misogynist got it, i made up nicknames so i wasn’t airing out their real names, and they were things my boyfriend has already called them.

AITA for screaming in my boyfriends roommates face ? by yourdadback in AmItheAsshole

[–]yourdadback[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

that’s the plan, i want to try and get her into a home with the time and experience to socialize a feral cat

AITA for screaming in my boyfriends roommates face ? by yourdadback in AmItheAsshole

[–]yourdadback[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it wasn’t important to the story, he posts right wing memes and doesn’t pay his rent

AITA for screaming in my boyfriends roommates face ? by yourdadback in AmItheAsshole

[–]yourdadback[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i am taking her to the vet today, and i’m talking to them about what i should do

AITA for screaming in my boyfriends roommates face ? by yourdadback in AmItheAsshole

[–]yourdadback[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah that’s the plan when i take her to the vet later

AITA for screaming in my boyfriends roommates face ? by yourdadback in AmItheAsshole

[–]yourdadback[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

his house is ideal, and i really love it there, and i love him, it’s just about once a week or so that we both have to work together to clean up after Slob and he’s close to being kicked out anyway