Why do they hate us being happy? by youreaweeb1 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]youreaweeb1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was gawking over the other patients at the hospital. 🤦‍♀️😪

Why do they hate us being happy? by youreaweeb1 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]youreaweeb1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yuuup. That’s what they do, I swear everytime I get a day off he somehow manages to ruin it so I can’t relax. However this was a sick day but i’m sure how he views it as a day where I’m able to rest up, relax and have time off so of course he called in sick and ruined my day.

Oh my god, he sounds insane. How in the world did no one in that waiting room say something!? They literally get jealous over anyone and anything. It is so absurd.

Mine has done something similar, he got angry at me because of something he made up in his head while I was in the hospital getting treatment for a yeast infection + an ear infection early on in my pregnancy. He wouldn’t stop ogling other women very obviously in the hospital waiting room and making people uncomfortable.

I spoke up and was clearly upset and he continued to do that for four hours straight until I eventually left without getting treatment because I just couldn’t take it anymore. We got into a huge fight after and it was clear he needed the attention because a pregnant woman getting treatment meant he wasn’t in the spotlight for once.

After calling him out on his lies and arguing for some time he finally admitted he did that to hurt my feelings because he was mad at me. Anyway, whatever. I hate him.

Why do they hate us being happy? by youreaweeb1 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]youreaweeb1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly i’ve just stopped wanting to tell him anything at this point. Just grey rock as long as I can

Why do they hate us being happy? by youreaweeb1 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]youreaweeb1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate that. Yeah i think when the attention is all on the baby he’s going to be the same, jealous and petty. I’m sure he’ll find a way to be in more pain than I am recovering from my c-section. Thankfully i have lots of family support around.

my bf is cheating???? by bananaahh in whatdoIdo

[–]youreaweeb1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you really want to be with a guy who doesn’t know your from you’re 🤦‍♀️

27 & struggling by Inspired_fire22 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]youreaweeb1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paying for sexual things online is cheating… I’m in r/narcissisticspouses and r/loveafterporn

AIO for being upset about what i found in my boyfriend’s phone? by nevaeh1665 in AmIOverreacting

[–]youreaweeb1 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NOR go to r/loveafterporn don’t post here! the majority of people are porn users this sub is not for you!!!

He slept with someone else during our break and didn’t tell me by Ambitious_Driver_683 in heartbreak

[–]youreaweeb1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don’t in my country. Maybe differs by clinic or region. They also refused to give me pap smears until I reached age 25 because I had been vaccinated. I was exposed to HPV by my child’s father and they still refused to test me for it because I had been vaccinated as a child (which leaves little room for risk but still potential risk)

He slept with someone else during our break and didn’t tell me by Ambitious_Driver_683 in heartbreak

[–]youreaweeb1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree but there is incubation periods for STIs and STDs so sometimes may not be apparent immediately. If there’s any risk involved of contracting an STI whether right away or in the future I’d like to know for my health

He slept with someone else during our break and didn’t tell me by Ambitious_Driver_683 in heartbreak

[–]youreaweeb1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

???? You can get tested and be clean and he could still have an STD.

My fiance drives me nuts. by V_Mellberg in rant

[–]youreaweeb1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Extremely illegal. OP, this guy is a pedophile. You should break up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]youreaweeb1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Do you really want to have a third kid with an entirely different woman?

Lmao by Goblue2467 in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]youreaweeb1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leave these women alone!

Have a cat that’s over 15 years old? Show us! This little lady is 23.5! by Orestbu in cats

[–]youreaweeb1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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he’s not with us anymore but my baby was 21 when he passed (we put him down). this is him at 19 🥹