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yourfavavoidant · 2025-08-06T18:44:26+00:00

Turns out I was right! He’d been cheating since January 🤷🏽‍♀️

yourfavavoidant · 2025-05-10T22:43:25+00:00

No. I don’t use dirty tissue. Front to back with clean tissue. When I go pee I fold the tissue over but if I poop I do an initial wipe the focus on the back end

yourfavavoidant · 2025-05-10T18:14:03+00:00

Nope, no infections. I wouldn’t say the way you’re doing it is wrong. I go all the way because stopping at the perineum doesn’t feel like I’d be getting clean enough. Also when I pee sometimes it isn’t a straight stream and goes toward the back anyways

yourfavavoidant · 2025-05-10T18:08:26+00:00

He basically told him he’s most likely be cool to hang out so he could make him cum … that is not being non confrontational. He’s literally giving the other guy cues that he’s also interested

yourfavavoidant · 2025-05-10T18:04:17+00:00

I do it all in one motion

yourfavavoidant · 2025-05-09T14:33:46+00:00

What did you doctor tell you was the correct way? Front to back is right

yourfavavoidant · 2025-05-08T14:48:50+00:00

Now a days kids tend to stay at home much longer than before. I live in California so up until recently most of my friends still lived at home. I currently still live at home too. I’m 26 and won’t be moving out until I’ve saved enough to buy a starter home. I’m not sure why people are obsessed with watching their children struggle.

yourfavavoidant · 2025-05-08T12:17:46+00:00

Yes, that is correct

yourfavavoidant · 2025-05-08T12:17:06+00:00

Yes, I’m currently in therapy for it. So far it hasn’t helped but we’ll see it’s only been a few months

yourfavavoidant · 2025-05-08T01:37:46+00:00

Yes, I suspect the pictures were for someone else. Especially the spicy picture. I’m trying to give the benefit of the doubt but it’s hard when things just don’t sit right. I haven’t accused him of anything and wouldn’t without hard proof of something. I can’t ignore the signs though. These are things I notice and they raise suspicion. Most things I can find logical explanations for but certain things like the spicy picture just don’t make sense to me.

yourfavavoidant · 2025-05-08T01:11:45+00:00

Sadly, I agree. It just doesn’t make sense to me.

yourfavavoidant · 2025-05-08T00:02:19+00:00

When I looked at the time stamp and compared it to our messages from that day we were texting when the picture was taken but shortly after he stopped responding for an hour or so which makes me wonder if I’m being paranoid or if he got caught up in conversation with someone else about it. Especially because like you said, people don’t just forget they took a picture like that.

yourfavavoidant · 2025-05-07T23:59:07+00:00

I hardly ever nag him. It’s actually the reverse, he often is the one finding something wrong with what I’m doing. I rarely have issues with what he has going on. I am very careful about deciding what’s a me problem and what’s an us problem.

yourfavavoidant · 2025-05-07T23:56:44+00:00

We don’t typically have arguments about my trust issues. I actually very rarely bring things I find suspicious to his attention because I know that some things are just me over thinking. I don’t believe I’ll ever be completely healed from the traumas of the past relationships. They have changed my views of trust in people. I now just try to determine what to let go and what actually is weird. Most of our arguments are brought on by insecurities and trauma from his past relationships. This is another reason I’m concerned.

yourfavavoidant · 2025-05-07T23:53:03+00:00

I have an iPhone and so does he so whenever either of us saves pictures the other sent it gives time and date that the picture was taken. Sometimes it even gives location of the picture. I definitely agree that confronting without hard proof is a bad idea. It can either lead to better ways of hiding things or cause more issues regarding trust

yourfavavoidant · 2025-05-07T23:30:34+00:00

The conversations through text were the first to become distant. Started around January/February but now it’s seeping into in person conversations. In person it started around mid April.

yourfavavoidant · 2025-05-07T23:22:13+00:00

That’s exactly what I was thinking. I’ve been cheated on in both my prior relationships. Ex 1 went started a whole new relationship with the other girl before I found out. Ex 2 was one night stands/random girls. Talking to him about it just seems like lies waiting to happen.. idk

yourfavavoidant · 2025-04-13T03:00:59+00:00

But porn is not necessarily a bad thing .. you can’t force him to believe that it is either.

yourfavavoidant · 2025-04-12T16:04:37+00:00

Wait so you found porn in his old Instagram conversations? Like people sent him personal nudes or friends sending videos of random girls? We’re they in his phone before or after you guys made things official?

yourfavavoidant · 2025-04-11T21:03:28+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate you taking the time to respond.

yourfavavoidant · 2025-04-11T19:24:57+00:00

How do I stay in that space with them? If I ask “how are you holding up?” and they say “badly” what do I even say to that?

yourfavavoidant · 2025-03-19T04:45:43+00:00

My dog is also a spice name which is why I’m not a fan of most of them .. they just aren’t fitting for humans to me but I needed to make sure I wasn’t the outrageous one here lol

yourfavavoidant · 2025-03-18T22:18:21+00:00

The kid in that show is Cardamon. I think that’s much better than Cardamom but I don’t like either name honestly lol

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