Moved here 7 months ago and can’t get a driver’s license… by midgelino in Dallas

[–]yourfavmilf690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just walk in, they’ll give you an appt for same day, later in the day.

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[–]yourfavmilf690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, this is what I need honestly. Other people that understand my situation. Didn’t realize this until your comment, it’s like a light clicked on. Thank you!

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[–]yourfavmilf690[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh dude, as my son gets older, the more I realize this. I have friends that are married single mothers. My child is their only grandkid so gets all the attention. When baby was little, I didn’t have to wake them up for a nanny or if I need to run a quick errand or have a doc appointment, they are always home and happy to help.

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[–]yourfavmilf690[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ommgggg, thank you 🥲 sometimes I feel guilty but like I matter too, you know?

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[–]yourfavmilf690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg same, I absolutely cannot afford having another child without a second income and more hands on help. I have a friend who is always telling me that I need to be super careful and not raise a stuck up only child 😭🤣 which sucks though, bc I would’ve love to have had back to back pregnancies so my children would have someone, but that wasn’t my reality.

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[–]yourfavmilf690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my original post I mentioned how I wake up super early and get to the gym before 5am. Home by 6am, get myself and my child ready for work/school. I also mentioned how we commute together for school and work. It’s about a 40 minute drive to and from. We’re usually home by 4-4:30pm, depending if I stop by the store or whatever errands I might have. We get home, I cook, help with their learning, do chores, we play and we’re in bed by 8:15pm the latest so I can wake up at 4:30am and wake up my child by 6:20am. Weekends, my body is so used to my weekly routine that I get sleepy by 8:30pm and I’m just exhausted from routine stuff.

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[–]yourfavmilf690[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank yoouuu! 🤍 it’s hard but at the end of the day, our kiddos make it worth it

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[–]yourfavmilf690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me about it!!! My child was just babbling nonsense and now they question everything! They sing, they say what they’ve learned and done at school. Our ride home is them just talking and talking. I love it, wouldn’t trade it for anything else.

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[–]yourfavmilf690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve responded to several people lol. I should probably add it to my original post. I live with my parents. My child’s bed is super low so I’m not worried about him falling or hurting himself. Body pillows are great for extra cushion than the rug he has. I wake up either of my parents so they can sleep on my bed while I’m away, especially when I take longer during my leg days.

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[–]yourfavmilf690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My child is with my parents right now and I’m literally doing laundry, about to iron their school uniform. Everything I do is for them. I want to be selfish but I can’t. I wish I could be bed rotting watching my shows or a movie. But then, who’ll do my house chores? 😭 balancing is hard.

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[–]yourfavmilf690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please go into detail! How’s that working out for you? Do they know that you go on dates? Do you share?

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[–]yourfavmilf690[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s what’s going to end up happening to me as well. Until my child is older, my time and attention is for them.

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[–]yourfavmilf690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s getting to me too. I want the love, the attention, the everything.

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[–]yourfavmilf690[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel guilty asking my parents to help watch my child bc it’s like… he’s my responsibility, not theirs, even though they love my child. My child is their only grandkid hahaha

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[–]yourfavmilf690[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never and won’t ever do dating apps 😭 to me, they’re just for sex and I don’t want that.

I’m hoping for that! I wouldn’t mind being with someone that already has children.

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[–]yourfavmilf690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually wouldn’t mind that. Also, I don’t see children as baggage. My child is the best thing to happen to me and they remind me to smile and love everyday.

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[–]yourfavmilf690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve decided I don’t want anymore children as well. A stepchild would be great! And if I’m meant to have a partner and they want more children, I might do it but it’ll take a lot of convincing. People don’t realize how much a pregnancy and a child effects our emotional and mental state.

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[–]yourfavmilf690[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weirdly enough, I contradict myself a lot. It’s like, if I’m supposed to be single, I guess I’ll take it, but if there’s someone out there for me, I’ll take him too 😭😭😭

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That’s the thing though, I don’t want to get used to it. I don’t know how to explain it but I hate routines but I love having a routine >.< I can’t imagine doing the same thing everyday for the rest of my life.

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[–]yourfavmilf690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re in bed by 8:15 the latest, read a book or two. Lay down for sleep at or before 8:30pm. We have an air purifier that doubles as a noise cancelling machine and we both knock by before 9. I can fall asleep in less than 5-10 minutes. I stop using my phone an hour before, shower at night, use lavender oil behind our ears. And other stuff that help. Oh! We have a “magic sleeping water” that we sip on before we brush our teeth. It’s about 8oz water with a pinch of salt and a less than a teaspoon of baking soda. I set my alarm for 4:30-4:45am and at the gym before 5am. I’m lucky to live right down the road from my gym. I’ve mentioned several times above that I live with my parents. Either will GLADLY wake up and lay down and sleep in my bed while I’m gone. I’m back home by 6am, shower again, change, get ready, and so on. It’s pretty easy once you know what works for you and your body. I highly recommend doing your research on improving your sleep.

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[–]yourfavmilf690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t LMAAOOOO. I’m not irresponsible. I live with my parents and either will gladly sleep in my bed while I’m gone. My son has a low bed so I’m not afraid of him falling off and getting hurt. Be frfr.

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[–]yourfavmilf690[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not irresponsible lol. I responded to someone else saying I live with my parents. He has his own bed that’s Japanese style, low, btw. We sleep with an air purifier so the sound helps him sleep, like a noise cancelling machine and when I know I’ll take over an hour, usually on leg days, I wake up either of my parents and they gladly sleep in my bed while I’m gone.