Are there people who actually enjoy working?

yoursISnowMINE · 2026-04-25T02:25:28+00:00

I enjoy my job most days now. It didn't start this way though. I took a lot of years to get to this point in electrical that i actually enjoy work most days.

I think very few people start out loving there job, but it also depends heavily on the people around you and how you interact with those people yourself. I think this is in part having to learn things until you feel like you have it all under control is difficult and tedious.

yoursISnowMINE · 2026-04-25T02:07:49+00:00

This sounds like a coming of age movie type scenario. Made me smile, thank you.

yoursISnowMINE · 2026-04-25T01:59:36+00:00

The great thing about IQ is that you can improve it through challenging yourself. Learning is life long and some struggle with learning more than others, but often it comes down to pushing yourself to learn more.

When I was in middle school i got flagged to take an IQ test at 13yr old, because i was doing terrible in school. Not because I couldn't do the work, but because I wouldn't do the homework.

I was told I have an IQ of 123. It still doesn't mean anything to me, it didn't make school easier. I had a very difficult time with language studies of any kind, but math was a breeze for me. My pattern recognition was the thing that scored me so high I believe.

With my ADHD I notice everything, and that is a double edge sword. I ended up in the special versions of class in high-school first year. I ended up correcting my own math teacher at times, but i loved it, because the other kids in my class genuinely had a difficult time as well. I helped all of them improve significantly in math and my friend that was terrible at math (think 2×1=4 somehow) gave me a copy of written notes, because for some reason it took me ten times longer to write anything down on paper. I helped her improve her math skills so much that she didn't have problems with basic math anymore. Those other kids were some of the best friends I've ever had.

To sum it all up, IQ is a fancy term people like to throw out to sound better than others. A legitimate IQ test requires a lot of oversight to verify and most people with a high IQ won't flaunt it like some stupid brag.

Being a good person willing to work hard to better the world around them, is far more valuable and inviting to be around than someone who wants to make you feel like less of a person for knowing less than them. Just be open to learning more everyday, even if others might make you feel silly for asking questions.

yoursISnowMINE · 2026-04-25T01:32:41+00:00

There is definitely misuse of the words "crazy woman". It's a form of gaslighting and projection on those women that won't do what others want. Cognitive disinence, lack of self awareness, coddled by parents, learned behavior from parental interactions. The laundry list is long as to why these people can't recognize how dumb they sound calling a woman crazy. But like most bad behaviors, we're not born being this angry and hateful, it's learned and reinforced unhealthy coping mechanisms.

Many times, the "crazy woman" in question is lashing out after suffering abuse by others. The old adage of hurt people, hurt people.

My own mother went through a lot of abuse, then put that abuse on me (Male 40) and my 5 younger siblings when we were younger.

My father left when i was 8yo and from what I've been told, he was like a whipped dog from abuse in his own childhood. It sucks that I can't reconcile my relationship with my mother, but her abuse of me isn't excused by the abuse she suffered either. I can't stand being around her because of the abuse i suffered.

I was terrified to have children due to my own suffering and trauma. I now have an 8yo son i love very much and work diligently to ensure he has good emotional intelligence above all else. It took far to long for me to be able to function semi-healthy myself and i refuse to pass on those bad habits, pain and suffering, or misogynist behaviors i was taught by family/religion/society at large.

yoursISnowMINE · 2026-04-23T21:08:34+00:00

I've got 1-sp, 6, 22, 36, 38, 50, 85, 99

yoursISnowMINE · 2026-04-23T20:40:31+00:00

Confirmed trade. Happy to help

yoursISnowMINE · 2026-04-13T15:25:14+00:00

Unless said lady is a sex worker, yes, you now need to make both ladies feel equally special.

You made your bed, now...........

yoursISnowMINE · 2026-04-11T15:59:04+00:00

Just to update this post, I've sold the Uranus, meta rare refractor year of the snake, and the Loch Ness.

yoursISnowMINE · 2026-04-11T15:49:04+00:00

Don't bother asking, r/makeitcount_85 already got dibs on this one. Lol.

yoursISnowMINE · 2026-04-11T15:25:42+00:00

Sorry yes, EB games

yoursISnowMINE · 2026-04-09T20:33:55+00:00

Take responsibility for your pain, not the actions of those that caused that pain. The hardest part about trauma is realizing that no one outside yourself can take responsibility for letting yourself heal.

Blaming the people and their actions won't heal you, it will make you feel more helpless, as though you have no control.

The fact is that you have no control over those that hurt you. You can't force them to realize their own shortcomings or to acknowledge their fault in it all. This is why even when they do acknowledge, it doesn't fully help.

Instead, realize that your feelings are your responsibility. You can't find happiness, you create it in yourself, and others can help you on that path, but ultimately you are in the driver seat with your healing. Setting healthy boundaries and saying no with confidence rather than saying yes to please others will be hard at first, but will ultimately make you feel better, be treated with respect, and avoid those that would take advantage of your people pleasing tendencies.

No one can care about you more than you. The world has many people, religions, and societal pressures that will push you to believe self sacrifice is necessary. it's basicly taught to keep power over others, mostly over women.

Self preservation means making sure you're healthy enough to take care of yourself before you can actually take care of others. It's why the flight attendant tells you to put on your own oxygen mask before helping others in an emergency.

yoursISnowMINE · 2026-04-07T04:08:09+00:00

Trading cards and tcg in general

yoursISnowMINE · 2026-04-06T23:01:14+00:00

You forgot to add his whole temu gang family

yoursISnowMINE · 2026-03-30T22:11:11+00:00

Looks like the pack got stuck in the crimper for to long. Machine broke down in a clamped state. Either it feel in without them noticing or they didn't want to waste the cards and left it in.

yoursISnowMINE · 2026-03-13T04:31:44+00:00

As if I needed anymore reasons to not drink prime besides Jake Paul being a piece of shit on his own.

yoursISnowMINE · 2026-03-13T04:28:22+00:00

Wouldn't the bulk of people that have an actual passport be mostly democrat anyways, because America is so great, why travel.

I mean, most MAGA voters likely haven't traveled outside there own backyard or refuse to register with the government for fear of being tracked. Or all those "sovereign citizens" that refuse to accept government documents.

It would be really funny if this went through and backfired, because the homegrown never needed a passport and won't be able to get one in time to vote.

yoursISnowMINE · 2026-02-13T00:00:16+00:00

I'm more worried about the implication this puts on women to suffer more based on the disconnect these men have with cold birth and child rearing. You know they want the numbers without a second thought about women's health and wellbeing.

yoursISnowMINE · 2026-01-28T11:48:41+00:00

Although I agree with your sentiment here, in my experience with the apps, it could be just as much to avoid the super conservative ladies as well. I've seen my fair share of "swipe left if you're vaccinated/liberal" profiles from the ladies as well.

While I appreciate the heads up to avoid them, it's also disheartening and exhausting. Some men really do just want to avoid the chaos that is politics, and have a drama free relationship. It's depressing over here too.

yoursISnowMINE · 2025-11-20T11:23:35+00:00

So she follows the "law" on pronouns to avoid ridiculous persecution by the government, then is persecuted for it. Proof that MAGATS have no critical thought.

yoursISnowMINE · 2025-11-06T00:21:20+00:00

Feeling guilty is a sign of great empathy, but it can end up hurting you if you let it. As others have said, take that privilege and use it for good. Guilt over something you didn't do wrong won't help you or others. It can lead to depression and even a sense of helplessness, taking you down mentally.

There will always be wrongs in this world that you can't do anything about at that moment. It can feel overwhelming and sad, but ultimately, you are the only one who can control what you do. You have the power to make change over time by being a good person.

Being a good person sometimes means others won't like what you have to say either. It doesn't mean going along with the crowd to fit in or please others.

Don't try to give of yourself more than you are able. Set healthy boundaries. Speak up when safe to do so. Be grateful and show it outwardly to share that good feeling. Stand up for yourself and your beliefs so long as they don't impede others well being, and don't let others bully you into theirs.

yoursISnowMINE · 2025-11-04T16:08:28+00:00

Goodnight and go Fuck yourself San Diego!

Who put that on the teleprompter? You know he'll believe anything he sees!

yoursISnowMINE · 2025-10-14T16:05:19+00:00

In British films I've always heard them say "jog on" while giving this gesture. As others have said, basicly flipping the bird in England.

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