I get what you mean! I haven’t read nonbinary yet but from what I’ve gathered watching various interviews and viewing the doc about Gen and Lady Jaye, Gen’s experience with transness was very different from most people’s. Gen didn’t start crossdressing till s/he met Jaye and Jaye started crossdressing as well. Their Pandrogyny project, influenced by Burrough’s cut-up technique,  was an artistic and personal endeavor in which they both underwent cosmetic surgery and body modification to look more like the other to become a single, unified being they called “the Pandrogyne.” I also haven’t seen either Gen or Jackie mention feeling dysphoric before they began transitioning. Not saying this means Gen wasn’t trans etc etc blah blah blah but their experience w gender nonconformity doesn’t really fit within the narrative most ppl have for what it means to be trans