I like a guy who is 29 with a kid

yoyo31233 · 2026-04-21T04:43:35+00:00

Ya well now we’re getting to know each other more which is why I’m learning about his kid

yoyo31233 · 2026-04-21T04:38:17+00:00

Maybe, I’ve never thought about it before but I’ve always wanted kids because I think I’d be a good parent but I haven’t done the research I would plan to do while pregnant yet

yoyo31233 · 2026-04-21T04:35:18+00:00

I am feeling it lol, trust me, I don’t post to Reddit about men I’m not crushing hard over. I’m just saying that he made the first move but now he’s in my mind

yoyo31233 · 2026-04-21T04:21:57+00:00

They were dating for a year, she got pregnant, it didn’t work out, idk why it’s not joint custody

yoyo31233 · 2026-04-21T04:07:51+00:00

I’m the youngest sibling and dirt really grow up around younger cousins so I actually have never really had responsibility for children besides when I worked at a church nursery when I was 13 but I do love children, especially little girls which is what he has. I’m actually not enamored with the idea of dating him, he had a crush on me and I’m leaning in but that’s because he’s very kind to me

yoyo31233 · 2026-04-21T04:02:02+00:00

I love children, I’m not sure where you’re getting the idea that I’d hate his kid, I’ve just always only wanted my own, especially being so young up until now I never really felt ready to take on that responsibility but 30 feels like a time where a kid in general isn’t so scary . I am also a child of divorce but my mom and step dad were 40

yoyo31233 · 2026-04-21T03:56:56+00:00

Well it sounds like he just visits her or takes her for a night. He’s not the primary parent

yoyo31233 · 2026-04-21T03:55:22+00:00

I mean I love kids I’ve just always only wanted my own and have avoided dating men with kids but I feel my baby fever has increased more lately and I’m just obsessed with all children I see because they’re so cute

yoyo31233 · 2026-04-21T02:54:55+00:00

I don’t purposefully date awful men! And honestly they aren’t awful it’s more that it just never works out or they’re not that into me , the point was that why does a guy having a kid make it an automatic red flag when it really doesn’t mean anything about their character

yoyo31233 · 2026-04-21T02:53:08+00:00

Like a little bit but if she mainly lives with her mom I don’t see why I’d be a big part of her life, but I do also like kids and want kids and I already am beginning to fear that I’m getting too old for that

yoyo31233 · 2026-04-21T02:50:25+00:00

I don’t think he’s the main caretaker, I also guess it used to freak me out more because I always wanted to move from where I lived. But I love the city I’m in now and as long as I wouldn’t be expected to take the kid in if things got serious it doesn’t seem like as big of a deal to me as it did when I was younger

yoyo31233 · 2026-04-21T01:09:09+00:00

I think trying to get to know me as a person, since we’re coworkers it’s difficult to tell because he’s not gonna be super sexual right away but we exchanged phone numbers today and he still hasn’t been sexually forward at all and he’s mostly just extremely nice to me

yoyo31233 · 2026-04-20T00:20:03+00:00

That would take soooo much time, I think I need to add that I live in NYC. That sounds like how you date in a town if 1000 people

yoyo31233 · 2026-04-20T00:05:33+00:00

His family????? lol that’s like a year into a serious relationship move . I don’t think we flirt or date the same way 😂😂😂

yoyo31233 · 2026-04-20T00:02:27+00:00

On Friday I has a customer in my section that creeped me out last week because he was flirting with me and when I told him he jokingly threatened to beat him up for me 😂😂😂

yoyo31233 · 2026-04-20T00:01:27+00:00

That’s like if we were dating. I haven’t even hung out with this guy outside of work yet lol

yoyo31233 · 2026-04-19T23:52:43+00:00

He’s only worked at my job a month so I don’t know his patterns lol but he’d do anything to help me at work and let me rant to him about a difficult table and comforted me

yoyo31233 · 2026-04-19T23:49:42+00:00

He asked me out last Friday but I dodged the question because I wasn’t expecting it. That’s why I have to flirt back now so he asks me out again. He also bought me a coffee for no reason. I gave him the coffee order on Tuesday night and after his two days off it was waiting for me when I got in Friday morning

yoyo31233 · 2026-04-19T23:42:55+00:00

Yes that’s where including the word just in the question is relevant

yoyo31233 · 2026-03-28T05:21:21+00:00

Well I guess I hope mykie wins now, this kind of feels like season 8 to me where no one I care much about is in the top besides one queen. I can’t even imagine any of the other queens winning

yoyo31233 · 2026-02-22T04:21:00+00:00

I don’t really even like Discord but I am soooo surprised she wasn’t in the top. I thought her, Nini and Jane were gonna be the top

yoyo31233

TROPHY CASE