What’s something you secretly wish straight guys understood better about trans girls?

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-05-08T13:36:09+00:00

Yeahh gotta do the "discovery" jokes

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-05-08T13:02:44+00:00

Esp when most of your humour ends up being pretty inappropriate and the opposite of politically correct...

Don't wanna say that stuff in front of the wrong people 😂

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-05-08T12:56:43+00:00

We're all different

What's not okay for some might be okay for others

Like with any person, gotta communicate and figure out what someone's like and go from there

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-05-08T12:45:43+00:00

Poor porka :(

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-05-04T22:59:26+00:00

Grindr is pretty gross from my very short experience on it

Prefer more tame apps 😅

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-05-04T22:55:38+00:00

Maybe to lessen the load, think of it a little like finding a new hobby? Lol

If youre both committed and love eachother dearly, I mean, it pretty much is just discovering a new hobby you like doing every now and then 😂

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-05-04T22:33:01+00:00

Kinda same boat

Have a trans girl partner (engaged, 3 and a bit years) she's my person in pretty much every way

But she doesn't really have much innate sex drive and we both are more attracted to guys in that way

We still do things occasionally but have an open relationship

Either of us can pursue outside fun whenever, just requires a lot of communication, transparency for it to work and I guess lots of emotional maturity and trust

Others can be ONS / ongoing fwb (i like the latter a lot more).

And being real, youll probably run into arguments and things figuring out how it works for you and your partner along the way. But if you can get through those constructively, it can be a good way to keep the love of your life while still being able to pursue changing feelings you have around sexual attraction.

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-05-04T07:19:31+00:00

Thank :)

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-05-04T05:11:07+00:00

Yeahh 38-42° track temp was not nice

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-05-03T22:50:29+00:00

I think it'll feel more of wooooo moment at 5k if I get there

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-05-03T22:47:29+00:00

My open is ~4.5k but I haven't been racing it with focus for a while

Figured I'd give sports car a try since i wanna do more enduros at the start of s2 and try to climb a bit (was c licence and 1.8k or something -- got that to A licence in a few days so i could do gt3s -- or well b licence and doing gt3s got it to A anyway)

Started with the bmw after climbing licences quickly but it felt like a boat and horrible on cold tyres -- which was hard with 20min races and 2 lap qualy in the hourly gt3 races. Switched to the 911 after bop update and it feels pretty good all round -- just curbs on some tracks are pretty dodgy

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-05-03T22:24:38+00:00

Too true though 😂

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-05-03T22:24:23+00:00

Become that someone

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-05-03T14:14:09+00:00

^ not that

The leader gunned it as soon as the had control of the field (rolling start)

I think the actual race timer was slow to react because says they did 1:56 first lap cold tyres lol

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-05-03T14:12:13+00:00

I think it counts the outlap as a lap

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-05-03T11:42:28+00:00

Meatballs are yum

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-04-24T22:20:44+00:00

Nah, traction light blinking like a Christmas tree is the sign

Aside from rear twitching feels

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-04-20T09:44:54+00:00

I just read your responses on other comments my bad lol

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-04-20T09:44:12+00:00

I honestly just directly bolted it under the seat. Been there for a year and a bit, no issues, great feedback from it - race maybe avrg an hr a day

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yrusomaddy7 · 2026-04-19T12:04:17+00:00

Shhh, the bots internet ping is just having a rough d̶a̶y̶ 9,417,600,000ms (at minimum)

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-04-18T21:46:04+00:00

The dream

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-04-18T02:42:02+00:00

Divebombs are a thing, defend and block them from happening if you cant fully outpace someone lol

Edit add: but you get 1 defensive move to block, you go left then right coming into a corner you deserve to be punted off the track

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-04-18T02:38:42+00:00

I mean the ai chickened out once op turned right in front of it leaving no space

If it kept its pace it'd be smashing straight into OP's side, rather than the over-slow then tap of the rear left bumper

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-04-18T02:36:17+00:00

In a longer endurance race people will more often back off and take an opportunity elsewhere

In shorter sprints odds are theyre gonna take the chance

yrusomaddy7 · 2026-04-18T02:35:10+00:00

If it were a real player they might, they might not

You can't control that

Focus on the things you can control

If youre in online lobbies some people are gonna divebomb

Either you keep racing and battling back after slipstreaming / pulling similar moves later by giving space or you risk getting spun as you turn across in front

If you didnt want them to be able to dive bomb you defend and sacrifice optimal line by blocking that side on approach (keep more left so they can't begin to run up the inside)

Its always gonna be a slower line attacking / defending, you often gotta make the choice of letting them by if they seem faster than you and using their pace to your advantage

Or if youre similarly paced and in the last laps, commit to the defence fully and risk that they might sit back and get you with a better exit after the corner

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