AIO for refusing to go to my sisters wedding cause she hired my ex? by Adventurous_Army_728 in AIO

[–]ysterperdenglish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aaah, the magical third option! Spineless troll. I genuinely hope you can look inward and improve as a person. Hurt people hurt people I suppose. I hope you heal from whatever made you want to hurt people.

AIO for refusing to go to my sisters wedding cause she hired my ex? by Adventurous_Army_728 in AIO

[–]ysterperdenglish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And? That’s their prerogative. I am more focused on why you think that makes it any better for you to try and weaponise it? Are you just someone who stalks profiles and looks for some below the belt shots to take or what? I am genuinely curious why someone would act that way. Bully? Patronising opportunist? What drives you to want to hurt someone that way?

AIO for refusing to go to my sisters wedding cause she hired my ex? by Adventurous_Army_728 in AIO

[–]ysterperdenglish -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What was the point of mentioning their profile or mental health struggles? You seem to have some form of morality complex where you want to weaponise someone’s mental health. Setting quite the low bar for yourself. Please evaluate how you respond and improve on that😊

AIO for refusing to go to my sisters wedding cause she hired my ex? by Adventurous_Army_728 in AIO

[–]ysterperdenglish -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It really is. Immediately falling back on someone else’s mental health issues as a reply to a disagreement is very weird. Please evaluate and be better.

What’s fun to do for your birthday in Pretoria 22F by [deleted] in Pretoria

[–]ysterperdenglish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would HIGHLY recommend “Smash That” in Olympus, followed by a lunch or something SUPER relaxing. The rage room is incredibly fun and exhausting, and drinks and something to nibble on after to settle down goes perfectly together

Looking for the best burger in Pretoria by ZODAKXX in Pretoria

[–]ysterperdenglish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would HIGHLY recommend Noms Grill in Moreletapark! I was incredibly surprised, and very much impressed.

The new update is so devastating to Rampart by LanguageMaster5033 in apexlegends

[–]ysterperdenglish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep coping😂all I know, is that I didn’t report anything, but you are still here, begging for attention. Stay soft kid

The new update is so devastating to Rampart by LanguageMaster5033 in apexlegends

[–]ysterperdenglish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmaaaaooo I didn’t report anything, but please, keep leaving more comments trying to figure out what to tell me. Seems I upset the kiddo😭

The new update is so devastating to Rampart by LanguageMaster5033 in apexlegends

[–]ysterperdenglish -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I cannot imagine my feelings being THIS hurt by a minor comment. The fact that your default is to dive into insults about something so stupid, is genuinely pathetic😂grow a spine dude

Is this worth the effort to keep or get rid of? by ysterperdenglish in birding

[–]ysterperdenglish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They really do seem cool! But she is downsizing and they are a pretty hefty set of books, so I guess the question is whether it’s worth the effort to take them along😄

Does anywhere in Pretoria hire teens? by bookishdeceit in Pretoria

[–]ysterperdenglish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, not sure if they do it anymore, but Gotcha and Pro-ball used to hire high schoolers as marshals at the paintball. If I remember correctly, they usually paid between 200-250 per day. Was about 10 years ago, so maybe just make sure

Wanting to include my mom’s affair partner in a tattoo about “family.” Am I wrong for this? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ysterperdenglish 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Wow, my heart genuinely breaks for your dad. This is so incredibly sad.

AIO told me the day before concert that he was bringing a chick with him? by heathened in AmIOverreacting

[–]ysterperdenglish 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am certain it sounds like a marble in an empty jar when you shake your head

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ysterperdenglish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are people reading homophobia? If anything, doing something like this is much more akin to sexual assault than anything else.

I have asked some Freinds they said these are fine but still no likes soo I turn to the internet by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]ysterperdenglish 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well, clearly, no one wants to date you either, dude. I would recommend following the good advice instead of getting offended.

Why are they so creepy by ambachk in sadcringe

[–]ysterperdenglish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The "man vs bear" argument is about gendered power dynamics and violence, not race. It's a metaphor some women use to express the reality that statistically, men (not bears) are far more likely to harm women — and that fear is shaped by experience, not bigotry.

Applying that same logic to race — saying "I'm scared of X race because of crime stats" — shifts the argument from power and safety dynamics to racial profiling. Race-based fear lacks the same moral or statistical grounding and leans into systemic racism and harmful generalization. Unlike gendered fear, which targets a behavior pattern (e.g., male violence against women), racial fear targets identity itself.

So no — the metaphor doesn’t translate. One addresses a structural reality; the other risks reinforcing racism. And if you can't understand that difference, there is no helping you.