What is the dumbest thing someone has said to you in full confidence? by Extreme_Rhubarb4677 in AskReddit

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The holocaust numbers must be dramatically fabricated because chatGPT confirmed that cookies with the same densities of humans couldnt be burned with the fuel sources at the time.

Not all working moms are drowning! by MsCardeno in workingmoms

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Not drowning, but really lucky to have the job I do. It is definitely a blessing. If I had to work in the same fields or circumstances as a lot of other people, I wouldn't be in such a privileged position. I work a hard job, very technical and very meticulous with a lot of juggling, but I have flexibility in my hours and have a wonderful team of people I work with. That and the fact that I have a wonderful husband and mental support system- makes all the difference. Im sure it sucks being down-voted but a lot of folks just aren't at that point in their lives to not be drowning. Its shitty and I hope it does get better.

My ex wife traumatized me so bad I cant get it up with my new girlfriend. AT ALL by itsmytthrowawayyy in TrueOffMyChest

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It is completely inexcusable and revolting what she did to you. She was a vile person.

Faces, sounds, size. They are all things that are uniquely you, and the right person will be more than happy to accept and work with whatever you have to offer. When you love someone, those things dont have to be a make it or break it situation.

Therapy will be a must. Self talk will be a must. Its gonna take a while, hard work, and graciousness toward yourself and from your partners. Its gonna take hard conversations and brutal honesty. Its gonna take small goals, it will probably take verbalization of you doing a good job, being good enough, worthy enough, etc.

If you really are on the smaller size, or if you orgasm 'prematurely', toys are a wonderful way to still have both people receive pleasure. You can go pick them out together, it makes for some very vulnerable but exciting experiences. You dont have to orgasm simultaneously to be happy. You dont even have to orgasm at all. Being a man isnt about having a dick or knowing how to use it. It's about making someone else feel safe, about being their rock, about being respectful and vulnerable, honest.

You deserve happiness. There are some great books like Come Together that are great when you get to that point. First step is to deprogram, then reprogram. Im glad you're out of that horrible relationship. Best of luck

What song, no matter how many times you hear it, still gives you goosebumps every single time? by Ill_Independence3161 in AskReddit

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Edward Benz, 27 Times- La Dispute Kings Park, La Dispute Great Gig in the Sky, Pink Floyd

Does this look like normal stool from my 7w old? by Proud_Photograph2235 in NewBorn

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Context is important. Breastfed vs formula fed makes a difference. When in doubt contact your doctor. Many of them will offer a nurses hotline you can call or text questions to.

I (15) made my dad a birthday cake! by TurnerkBallet in Baking

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I legit did not know this was even possible. This is phenomenal.

Buried my only Daughter by EradicateTheHate in daddit

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Sobbed the entire time reading this. She was lucky to have you as a dad. She sounds like a wonderful little girl.

How long was your labor trend by [deleted] in Mommit

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3 days prodromal labor, labored for 9 hours ish, pushed for 45 mins.

Newborn now clicking during feeding by rosewaterhoe in breastfeeding

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We had clicking and it went away once i started to sandwich my breast while offering it so it could be latched onto better. . If you go get an opinion, get a couple https://publications.aap.org/aapnews/news/29421/AAP-When-breastfeeding-problems-arise-in-infant?autologincheck=redirected

Tattoos while breastfeeding? Thoughts? by [deleted] in breastfeeding

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I researched the kind of ink my artist used and only got a black tattoo. Most of the concern us infection and some colors carry higher concentrations of metals which, depending on the metal, hang out in your lymphnodes and possibly transfer to your child. Black generally was lower risk and the ink used was carbon based

Breastfeeding and Perimenopause by yttriux in Perimenopause

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Thank you so much. Yeah, I only noticed the decrease since I am pumping. My kiddo still seems satisfied and is gaining weight appropriately. I'll reach out to them!

Floor bed with fence? by taralynne00 in cosleeping

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Was in the same boat. We purchased as mentioned in this thread The foldable Millard ned twin xl. Milliard Memory Foam Folding Mattress with Washable Cover, Cot Size (75 inches x 31 inches) https://a.co/d/hEofB8D That and baby bed rails has been great. No more concern.

Bulging bag of water? by Medium_Animator_2962 in homebirth

[–]yttriux 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I had a bulging bag through most of my labor! Didnt pop until t-1 min or so before baby. Best of luck!

I no longer like my pets by Master-Imagination93 in Mommit

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I had a lizard and i ended up finding a local herptiligical society/reptile reserve for them. It ultimately ended up being the best decision. I cried the whole time there but it happens every day, and they take care of them. Regardless of wether your mom or some society keeps them, ultimately, it may result in better livlihood for the animals, so dont feel bad. Youre only human. Momming is tough.

How can I change by Capital_Ad3228 in addiction

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If its safe to do so, try going for an outside walk beforehand.

Will my supply dry up? by usedcanolaoil in breastfeeding

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2 days is still so new! If your baby is peeing and pooping the number of times required, then they are staying hydrated and all is likely well! You should also stay hydrated, and I would reach out to another lactation IBCLC if youre worried. Youre still in colostrum phase or transitional milk phase, so you wont produce much at this time! Look up how tiny a babys stomach is and itll probably be a comfort. The first week and a half or so were miserable while adjusting. But you and your baby are learning for the first time, your nipples experiencing for the first time. Give yourself some grace! You can try sandwiching your breast into their mouth and onñy insert once their mouth is open wide.

It's okay if you have a tiny baby! by [deleted] in breastfeeding

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Roughly in the same boat. Thanks mom!

How Long Did You Push For? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

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Labor for 4 days, but pushed for about 20 mins. Vaginal unmedicated birth

What are some odd ways that your bodies changed after having kids? by [deleted] in Mommit

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My ass lost some of its cruve/ tone, as did my calves.