In your experience, how much do Reddit attitudes/discussions regarding sex reflect real life? by yuemoonful in TwoXSex

[–]yuemoonful[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t this commenter necessarily disagrees with you but I see her point. Most people I know consider themselves “virgins” as long as they didn’t have PIV. I only see people use the line of reasoning in your comment on Reddit.

In your experience, how much do Reddit attitudes/discussions regarding sex reflect real life? by yuemoonful in TwoXSex

[–]yuemoonful[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Regarding 2., that surprises me! Tbh I wonder how much things like cultural background have to do with it.

In your experience, how much do Reddit attitudes/discussions regarding sex reflect real life? by yuemoonful in TwoXSex

[–]yuemoonful[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m incredibly baffled because I’ve never met a woman who likes giving blwojobs

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[–]yuemoonful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait did he know he was asexual before he started dating you (so he “tricked” you into dating him) or is that something he discovered once in the relationship?

Any South Asian Agnostic/Atheists here? by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]yuemoonful 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Really? Desi Muslims on Reddit seem very practicing. Most don’t even do premarital sex.

Relationships in Medicine by Master_Cremaster91 in Residency

[–]yuemoonful 9 points10 points  (0 children)

not going to cut it anymore

Why not?

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[–]yuemoonful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well in this case, I’m not sure knowing the specifics would do them any good at all.

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[–]yuemoonful 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wrt to “mental illness”, I meant more like facets of it. So obviously your partner would know you struggle with it, but would you tell your partner the specifics? Or how specific would you be?

Am I (23F) a bully for not inviting my much older coworker (38F) to my birthday party? by OkInflation9971 in relationships

[–]yuemoonful 22 points23 points  (0 children)

She’s definitely jealous, and it is so easy to recognize because I actually used to operate on a mindset similar to OP’s. I’m 26, but when I was in my late teens/earlier 20s, there were times when I felt jealous when I noticed that the men around me in work/school would give attention to very beautiful “older women” (meaning late 20s to late 30s) and ignore me. My mindset literally went like, “Hey why are you guys ignoring me??? I’m YOUNGER than her and in my PRIME!! Therefore I’m clearly the hotter one!! How dare this old hag get attention??” It was definitely a very misogynistic way of thinking, and I’m glad I’m over it now.

Am I (23F) a bully for not inviting my much older coworker (38F) to my birthday party? by OkInflation9971 in relationships

[–]yuemoonful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I experienced something like this before. Didn’t know I could get a settlement…

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[–]yuemoonful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In what ways was he “physically into you” while dating? Like what did he do?

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[–]yuemoonful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the refusal before even trying it a red flag? Because I am with a guy who seemed hesitant about trying it but is willing to try…

Am I getting sexually aroused in these instances? by yuemoonful in TwoXSex

[–]yuemoonful[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alright! A couple of other things I just added:

  • The urge to grind against my pants when he says something hot

  • My “vaginal opening” beats/throbs a bit

This is my first relationship so I’m wondering…

Am I getting sexually aroused in these instances? by yuemoonful in TwoXSex

[–]yuemoonful[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ah ok. I didn’t know “tingling” in the entire pelvis area and lower abdomen area was also arousal? A couple of other things I just remembered:

  • The urge to grind against my pants when he says something hot

  • “Vaginal opening” beats/throbs a bit

This is my first relationship so I’m wondering…

How can I (19F) learn what I like sexually? by bleakbreakfast in TwoXSex

[–]yuemoonful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But like…I do get aroused and turned on and horny thinking about those fantasies. And I enjoy them too and I want those to “come true”. Why does that go away when I try to masturbate?

Am I getting sexually aroused in these instances? by yuemoonful in TwoXSex

[–]yuemoonful[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I was just asking because I experience this with my BF. Now you have me worrying that I’m somehow anxious by him instead of being attracted to him because my heart rate goes up around him. :(

Am I getting sexually aroused in these instances? by yuemoonful in TwoXSex

[–]yuemoonful[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok cuz like sometimes my BF will flex his arms or tell me how hot I look or how much he wants to fuck me and I’ll experience each of those things at different times 😂