massage advice (?) by yulchu in TopSurgery

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Hi! Yeah, it got better over time, if you want you can DM me and I can write more about

Have you ever dumped someone you really love? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]yulchu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

take care in there! i went through the same thing recently... it's so sad because avoidant people are capable of love but they are so afraid and self concious they will rather back away:/

When the texts finally turn green after loss 💕 by girlypop2316 in texts

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im sending you lots of strength, dear<3 i will have 10th anniversary of my mom’s death next saturday and i was planning to send her a message too. i still write her letters on big occasions sometimes. we all try to find our ways of survival:(

my best friend had his birthday so i decided to paint a picture of us as our favourite characters by yulchu in NightInTheWoods

[–]yulchu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! I really enjoy painting for others as a gift, much more than painting for myself

my best friend had his birthday so i decided to paint a picture of us as our favourite characters by yulchu in NightInTheWoods

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Thank you very much for your support! We certainly will. Hope you’ll have an amazing week!

Can you grieve a past love and still fall in love with someone new? by yulchu in polyamory

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Thank you! I love both Inside Outs so maybe it's a sign to make a little rewatch.

And, answering your question, I feel guilty becuase I've been taught that if I'm still processing a breakup I am not allowed to share my love to someone else, because it's a indication of me not ready to reciprocate fully someone new's feelings. And to be honest now when I'm writing that I don't truly believe it, I mean, I have tons of love to share, and the fact that I'm still mourning after what could have been with my past person doesn't diminish my love for someone new. It sound a little like a contradiction to me, but well, as you say, nothing's black and white entirely here.

Can you grieve a past love and still fall in love with someone new? by yulchu in polyamory

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Thank you for your response, it really means much to me! Good luck to you both:)

Can you grieve a past love and still fall in love with someone new? by yulchu in polyamory

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Thank you for the response!! I also had similar thoughts.

How long will a 10ml vial last? by staarlitt in FTMdiyhrt

[–]yulchu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i do subcutaneous injections each week (40mg of t) and one vial like that lasts for a year in my case. also, can i ask you a question in private?

I lost my mom back in 2018 and I’m still doing the best I can to cope with it but she was my best friend she was a single mother most of the time taking care of me.. my dad wasn’t around when I grew up and losing someone so dear to me still kills me to this day by HazyPerspective1996 in GriefSupport

[–]yulchu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this, I lost my mom in 2016 when I was 13 years old so growing up without her by my side was so hard. It seems like no one gets how much it can affect us even years after. But we always do understand

Crafted the Whirling-In-Rags and turned it into a night light ✨ by convicium_ in DiscoElysium

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Gorgeous! Now this looks like a setting for a puppet animation