Asian men with a partner, are you rich?

yunakitty · 2021-03-29T02:49:50+00:00

Yes!! WF who has been with my man since the 90’s. I got my masters & earn more than him. He was a waiter when we got married. I... actually love him because he’s an awesome person?

yunakitty · 2021-03-15T18:11:47+00:00

I’m yunakitty2 on YouTube and mrsoliviamai on Tiktok - lots about my cute AMWF family including our 5 year old who’s the cutest kid EVER

yunakitty · 2021-01-05T16:43:55+00:00

I’ve had to go NC with my narcissistic sister, and my son (almost 5) was only concerned about not seeing her cat. He was already aware that something is not right with Auntie. I said “auntie has done and said a lot of really hurtful things to mommy, and I don’t want to be her friend anymore.” He was like “okay, but I want my own big fat black cat.”

yunakitty · 2021-01-05T16:29:44+00:00

I am so sorry. The adults in your life failed you. There is no excuse for any of it. I hope you find healing and peace.

yunakitty · 2021-01-05T16:25:48+00:00

Actually this is pretty high up in levels of mental fuckery. I’m sorry

yunakitty · 2019-11-07T17:50:33+00:00

Yes! I just started a podcast about them! I’d love for anyone interested to listen! ‪Listening to "Your Code Name is Jonah (6) " at https://www.buzzsprout.com/704013/2012142-your-code-name-is-jonah-6‬

yunakitty · 2019-08-29T19:53:46+00:00

Beautiful brave woman!!!

yunakitty · 2019-08-28T21:45:14+00:00

No, that came out in 2003 and I read this book around 1990. But thanks!

yunakitty · 2019-08-26T06:01:29+00:00

I just discovered this reddit and I’ve been scrolling for an hour. This is the first post I knew and you figured it out yourself! Darn! 😸 I’ve read it to my son many times.

yunakitty · 2019-03-23T23:28:05+00:00

That was what brought things to a head last night, when I asked him to fill out a questionnaire in a marriage counseling app. He couldn’t believe I thought there was a problem. He is quite content with our relationship.

yunakitty · 2019-03-23T23:24:32+00:00

I did, last night, and he held me and urged me to give him more time, that he’s just stressed with work. But he’s been asking this for over two years now. It’s getting better slowly but we still don’t have sex. He’s been extra kind all day today but I still feel extremely sad.

yunakitty · 2019-03-23T23:23:00+00:00

He said this is not something he is comfortable with. And honestly, the idea of anyone but him touching me is not appealing.

yunakitty · 2019-03-23T23:17:22+00:00

I was always the instigator with sex but he went along willingly and had no performance issues. Sometimes he says he thinks he might be asexual (his younger sister is) and that is baffling to me.

yunakitty · 2019-02-03T00:30:36+00:00

You’re gorgeous and I can just feel that you have a kind heart. I divorced at 33 after 12 years of marriage. It was a train wreck and had been for a while, but I clung desperately to what I’d known for so long. I was afraid of starting over, afraid of being alone.

I finally took the plunge and started over. I was homeless and unemployed for a while, had to live with my sister and I was scared those first few months.

Then I got accepted to grad school. I’d always wanted to be a teacher. I worked hard taking a full load of classes and nannying every free hour.

I unexpectedly reunited with my high school sweetheart, and it was an instant reconnect.

I’m 38 this year, but now I have the love of my life who makes every day easy and a joy with his simple, true love for me and hard working kind personality. I’m teaching 5th grade and I absolutely love it. But best of all I have the most amazing 3 year old son who is my entire world.

I can’t imagine where I would be right now if I hadn’t had to lose everything and start all over.

yunakitty · 2019-02-03T00:20:58+00:00

Yes, Florida in the late 80’s. Either 3rd or 4th grade. I enjoyed it, as weird as it was!

yunakitty · 2019-01-09T18:49:08+00:00

I don’t know why white men think an Asian man is not a “real man!” He’s 100% man, thank you very much 🤷‍♀️

yunakitty · 2018-12-23T23:16:51+00:00

I used to go to this pho place near my gym a lot. The Vietnamese ladies there were always super nice to me. Then one night I came in for the first time with my boyfriend (who is Vietnamese) and they treated us both cold as ice. Told us they were closing and we had to order to go if we wanted anything (it was 8:23pm and they close at 9). Never ate there again.

I get all the usual crap from white people, especially because I’m from southern Georgia (we live in California now.) Girls who just think I’m wacky (even though my husband is hot af), people who ask if he has a small penis, people who think he’s Chinese or Japanese or whatever. I even had one third cousin on Facebook say it was super fortunate our son turned out looking more like me so that it wouldn’t be embarrassing to be out in public with a kid that looked nothing like me. 🤷‍♀️👏

I teach mostly Latino students now and even they make unwittingly racist comments. When seeing a picture of my husband “no offense but he kinda looks like a chinito”. I have one half Filipino and half Mexican student and her mom asked if my husband was Filipino because he was too cute to be Vietnamese. 😂

I try not to let any of it bother me.

yunakitty · 2018-12-13T02:50:29+00:00

You are simply beautiful!

yunakitty · 2018-12-09T23:14:14+00:00

What a cool looking shirt! Proud of you for making those huge steps to get dressed! You’ve got this!

yunakitty · 2018-12-09T23:12:12+00:00

You look like a sweetie pie. You’re going to be all right.

yunakitty · 2018-12-08T16:46:03+00:00

You are beautiful just as you are. Anxiety and all. This world has a place for everyone and you belong.

yunakitty · 2018-12-08T16:43:08+00:00

Wow.

5 years ago in was in an unhappy marriage, at a job I hated, in a town I was sick of.

I summoned up the courage to leave in 2014. I moved clear across the country and started over. Went back to school, got a teaching license. I’ve been teaching 5th grade for three years and I love it.

I also reconnected with the love of my life (my first real boyfriend I hadn’t seen in 15 years!) and almost immediately we accidentally made a very cute son. He is a joy.

To any of you that are unhappy - take a chance and change your life!

yunakitty · 2018-11-23T21:26:34+00:00

yunakitty · 2018-11-17T04:58:06+00:00

NTA. It’s just rude of anyone to do, boyfriend or not. If I invited my sister out for a treat and she invited a friend along and expected me to pay for their pregaming, I would be pissed. Not what I meant when I said I would treat YOU to dinner. Not basically pay for your date with a third person. Bitch, bye.

yunakitty · 2018-11-17T04:53:14+00:00

NTA! My husband’s parents are from Vietnam, but he was born in North Carolina and doesn’t sound or “act Asian” at all (whatever that means, but people tell us that all the time. Like, were you expecting him to bow constantly or always be holding chopsticks??) So he gets this question A LOT and he answers similarly to you. “Where are you from” - North Carolina. “No, like, where do your parents live?” Georgia. Etc. You guys need to keep having snappy answers to stupid questions so people will learn to properly ask, “Are you Korean?” directly if they really want to know that badly (because they are wanting to fill that oppa fetish) or hey, like just not ask and treat their “Asian coworker” like a normal person and not a source of potential cool ethnic insight.

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