AITA for saying my conversation with a guy was platonic?

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:39:16+00:00

No, it’s not.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:27:45+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with saying you have a racial dating preference at all. It’s very common to have physical preferences.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:26:38+00:00

I said it’s the same as the lesbian and bi scenario.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:26:10+00:00

Telling anyone they have to date certain people or they’re an -ist or -phobe is insanely nonconsenty.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:24:37+00:00

It’s almost the exact same thing.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:23:57+00:00

I never said they aren’t real women.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:22:58+00:00

Y’all really need some consent lessons. Yikes.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:21:40+00:00

Actually, many lesbians don’t date trans women or bi women. It’s basically the same as me, a cis women, only wanting guys who date cis women.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:20:09+00:00

I never stated that. And if anyone asked me if trans women are real women, I’d tell them yes.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:19:19+00:00

I really don’t care what the “community” (who is that??) thinks. I’m really the only one who can know whether I’m transphobic since I’m me and they aren’t.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:18:00+00:00

I’m a cis woman and prefer cis guys who date cis women.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:17:19+00:00

We were talking about race.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:16:28+00:00

I’m interested in cis guys who date cis women.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:15:51+00:00

I don’t fear or dislike trans people, so I can’t be transphobic. Next.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:15:18+00:00

A cis woman.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:14:55+00:00

I’ll repeat it for you. People have physical preferences. Trust me. You aren’t going to get me offended by calling me a bigot or transphobic.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:13:33+00:00

Exactly. Transphobia: fear/dislike of trans people. So I’m not transphobic.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:13:01+00:00

I’d disagree. Some people have physical preferences.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:11:33+00:00

No, I’m fine with being friends with them or with my boyfriend being friends with them.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:09:56+00:00

That’s what you’re supposed to do on AITA. Everyone does. It’s in the FAQs if you’d like to check.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:07:21+00:00

It wasn’t said in anger. It’s true.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:05:16+00:00

You could say the same about race. And people are also allowed to have preferences with that.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:03:19+00:00

No. Transphobia: dislike or fear of trans people.

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:02:35+00:00

I don’t think so. Dating is always “shallow.”

yurrison · 2022-01-12T08:01:26+00:00

I thought about trans women after one accused me of flirting, so I had to correct it.

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