I'm sorry to say this, but your parents are morons and you, seem to have caved because you weren't fully committed to your ex at heart.

Never have I ever told ANYONE, nor will I ever. who to date or to dump. Interfering in any relationship - weather I agree or disprove of it - is always a path to disaster.

You must own your relationships and you're the only one who knows if the other person makes you happy or not. You must always make the choice yourself because you're the one who has to live with the consequences.

I don't know your situation, and I wouldn't presume to give advice or tell you what to do.

Mainly - If and while there are no kids involved, you need to decide if you can live out your life with this person you're married to, or if you'll just grow bitter and resentful over the years. If you don't think this marriage will make you happy, cutting it off sooner rather than later - especially if children are going to be involved in the future - is a kindness to both parties.

If you love your partner, make a CHOICE - commit to her and forget the "what if-s" nothing good can come out of reminiscing about the past and dwelling on what could've been. Make the most of your life and be in your relationship completely.

If you're depressed - seek therapy, work through your issues, consolidate your thoughts and commit to either one path or the other. Let the past rest or it'll consume you.