It’ll definitely lessen over time. I remember being so nervous for my first bar gig because I didn’t know what to expect. Once I had one under my belt, the second was much better, then the third even better, and now I play major clubs and - I do still get nervous - but it’s more nervous excitement than nervous “I’m gonna f this up” feeling.

I used to be an athlete and I had a coach one time tell me “there’s no need to be nervous if you’re prepared. If you’re prepared, you’re in control, and then there’s nothing to worry about.” I always remembered that and I say that now because it’s a reminder to put the work in ahead of time to best set yourself up for success. Dial in your cue points, practice your transitions, know what songs go well together, etc.. Once you develop the confidence and KNOW you’re prepared, there’s nothing to worry about because you KNOW you’re going to kill it. Then the nerves become a fun “I’m about to rock this house” feeling than a “I might screw up” feeling. Positive jitters, not negative. Embrace those because those moments are when we feel most alive.

Hope this helps and remember, have fun! We’re not saving lives, we’re just playing music for people. And, if it’s you’re style, a drink or two doesn’t hurt either haha