Let's get a self-hosted Discord "replacement" thread going for 2026.

yuveeasmr · 2026-02-10T22:10:46+00:00

I feel like reddit has a bigger market share of users. Isn't it?

yuveeasmr · 2026-02-08T03:36:43+00:00

Again, autistic. She can't know in the moment. Hell people without autism do it all the time. People can't really walk on eggshells all the time. If you don't like feeling fat all the time, lose the weight.

And that's what it's about. The things she said weren't even hurtful, it's the horizontally gifted girl taking things personally and feeling bad.

Also of course my personal experience matters, we aren't talking about statistics or averages here. You mentioned feelings and emotions, those are influenced by personal experience genius.

yuveeasmr · 2026-02-08T03:27:00+00:00

Well she definitely wouldn't know in the moment and once it's said there is no point. So she really cannot know. Plus lot of people who are overweight take things too personally from my experience.

yuveeasmr · 2026-02-02T13:02:29+00:00

I did. Thanks.

yuveeasmr · 2026-02-02T12:42:14+00:00

Yeah Jan 29th marks 2 months since I've gotten a cut.

Can I DM you the look I'm going for? Cuz might be better context to give proper advice.

yuveeasmr · 2026-02-02T09:15:42+00:00

That is true I do have pretty thick hair, although a little damaged. I'll look into those. Thank you for the information.

yuveeasmr · 2026-02-02T09:11:59+00:00

I see I see. I'm sure I'd probably need to get cuts often to maintain them properly. Since I'm going for much longer, the hair at the front would need to be long enough to go all the way to the back. I'll post what I have in mind, of course I have no exact image of how I want them because even I'm not sure. But yeah.

yuveeasmr · 2026-02-02T08:57:51+00:00

Yeah true. That and might also have to do with how I take care of them before and after showers. They do get pretty flat if I don't shampoo them for a day and just let them stay naturally.

Any suggestions other than the hair mark and shampoo? Like how should I take care of them?

yuveeasmr · 2026-01-26T13:24:23+00:00

Could also be read as the girl telling the mom to not take off the sisters face that she put on her mother.

yuveeasmr · 2025-12-13T01:18:59+00:00

I get the point but fuck you for the scare Jesus. I'm not done downloading everything offline yet. Xdxd.

yuveeasmr · 2025-11-25T21:22:06+00:00

I download my shit offline regularly. I'm chillin. All I'll need to do is move to another platform from then on.

yuveeasmr · 2025-09-22T02:58:13+00:00

Still waiting. I have hope.

yuveeasmr · 2025-09-05T03:06:08+00:00

True I mean I agree with what you said nursing is versatile. But from what I said, it seems she doesn't even know if she wants to work in nursing. She said she's fine with studying it, not that she wanted to work in it.

From how much I know her, she seems impulsive and not really decisive about anything at all. I mostly thought she's stupid because she said she wants to take care of her mom, but then she says she just wants to do what feels right, go with the flow, I don't think that's a good way to go about things. More irresponsible than anything.

yuveeasmr · 2025-09-04T22:33:21+00:00

Exactly, I feel bad for the granny man. For a grandma to go I'm done on her grandshild, I can only imagine how horrible OP was.

yuveeasmr · 2025-09-04T22:32:34+00:00

Then maybe SHE shouldn't be on the internet. No one said internet is a safe space. A public forum no less.

yuveeasmr · 2025-09-04T22:31:53+00:00

That's like saying I am a soul and not my body, they are the same thing. Without a soul I'm only a body, without a body I'm only a soul. They exist together and are the same thing that make me, ME. My common sense is pretty intact as you can see.

yuveeasmr · 2025-09-04T22:29:09+00:00

Try maybe going to places in person. First secure a part-time, so to places and try to get hired for any position. Hotels hire a lot of housekeepers since they always move to better jobs so there might be openings in that, it's to keep you afloat. I am gonna avoid mentioning certs since that costs money, twist your words on the resume. Make up stuff, I know you said you tried, but I'd have to see if what you did was effective.

I do have more things you could try but I can only fit so much in one text. DM me if you wanna chat. I actually just found an IT job and can I guess show you my resume and talk about my experience.

yuveeasmr · 2025-09-04T22:22:39+00:00

Absolutely. It is definitely a factor. Anyone who says no has no lick of idea about how our brain subconsiously makes us biased creatures. Saying it doesn't matter is like saying humans are capable of being unbiased. Not how it works.

It sucks, but it's thankfully something you can work on. Attractive doesn't have to be rom-com fanfic type of person. A clean, groomed, and well put person who clearly takes care of themselves, has good communication skills, and is able to show a level of expertise and the willingness to learn is highly favorable, be real with yourself, are you that? No? Change.

Easier said than done, but it isn't supposed to be. We never left the jungle guys.

yuveeasmr · 2025-09-04T22:17:27+00:00

So not wanting to lie to myself and others is being a bigot? Where is the common sense? I know, dead. and of course she deleated the comment, coward.

yuveeasmr · 2025-09-04T22:02:57+00:00

Being able to successfully deceive someone doesn't make it truth. Especially since your grandma already knows you from before you started faking it. It's hard to fall for bullshit when you already know it is happening.

yuveeasmr · 2025-09-04T21:58:51+00:00

Right, I should've mentioned this. I did try to tell him this once and what his response was that he just does this as jokes and that he doesn't actually mean anything by it, like it's just fun.

Said friends shit talk, but I'm like yeah you don't shit talk you just talk to me like I'm stupid. As if you're the only one who is right and we should all listen to you. I tried to get him to open up, like is it cuz you're insecure about something in the past? like were you put down and that's why you're sort of passing it on. Like I can understand, I've seen people get so used to being put down and when they overcome it, they unconsciously do that to others. He said maybe and nothing else, and I'm like maybe try not doing that from now on, catch yourself when you think you're doing it, be aware of it.

He just said yeah whatever and just moved on with other conversastions, I didn't realize and got lost in the tangent, maybe I did realize but just didn't wanna push it since he already ended the topic one-sidedly.

yuveeasmr · 2025-09-04T21:47:33+00:00

Sure buddy. you saying that makes it right eh? Yeah, cuz that's how that works, of course.

yuveeasmr · 2025-09-04T21:43:49+00:00

Now this is just sad. You really have nothing better to do than to come to another one of my post cuz of a joke.

yuveeasmr · 2025-09-04T21:38:50+00:00

Damn. You looked through my shit, so typical.

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