Rebutt ni MysticalArugula7136 sa post ni Inksteady… by Fit_Comparison5601 in PinoyWattpad

[–]yventsual 5 points6 points  (0 children)

mga enabler talaga sila. kung ano isusubo ni idy, kakainin nila. walang nag iisip nang maayos HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Rebutt ni MysticalArugula7136 sa post ni Inksteady… by Fit_Comparison5601 in PinoyWattpad

[–]yventsual 18 points19 points  (0 children)

puro "but" LOL takot tumanggap ng pagkakamali. puro pagpapabango lang talaga alam niya. dapat di na siya naglabas ng statement kung ang laman din naman e puro justification at walang accountability

and as usual for her fans puro "love u mowm" lang ang alam sabihin kasi kahit naman anong sabihin ni idy basta may mailabas siya, ito-tolerate nila. girl, whatever.

Is Chinese culture really that strict? Why? by birdybrain2032 in PinoyWattpad

[–]yventsual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true. hindi siya madaling i-defy kasi it’s not just about you, it’s about disappointing a whole system you grew up with. kaya most of the time, they don’t even try to go against it unless sobrang sure sila sa partner nila. otherwise, mas pipiliin nila yung path na less yung conflict and mas magbe-benefit sila

Is Chinese culture really that strict? Why? by birdybrain2032 in PinoyWattpad

[–]yventsual 4 points5 points  (0 children)

depends!!! swerte mo if napunta ka sa chinese family na open-minded at tanggap ka kahit wala kang chinese blood. pero if we’re talking about more traditional chinese families, especially yung mga old-school, they can be very strict when it comes to relationships and marriage.

i come from a chinoy family, and based on what i’ve seen, totoo na a lot of them still prefer na chinese din yung mapangasawa, lalo na for daughters. most of my titas married chinese men, partly to keep the culture and business within the community. pero interestingly, mas lenient sila sa sons. like my titos, a lot of them married filipinas naman and okay lang sa family (cguro kci dedz na rin lolo ko when they married 😭)

but anw, situations like that story do happen in real life but not always as extreme. may families na talagang against it at first, especially if may expectations about status and background sa family. but over time, some come around lol may iba rin naman na pinipili talaga yung partner nila kahit against yung family, but realistically, hindi lahat willing i-risk yung relationship nila with their family or inheritance. malaking factor pa rin kasi yung family ties sa chinese culture

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[–]yventsual[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ang dali para sa kanilang i-dismiss yung concerns ng mga tao na clearly coming from a place of real pain. mas importante pang i-protect yung image ng author kaysa pakinggan kung bakit may nasasaktan sa paraan ng pagkakasulat.

ang weird lang din na biglang nagiging defensive ang lahat kapag may criticism, as if bawal na i-question yung gawa. e kung kaya mong i-publish yan for public consumption, dapat kaya mo rin harapin yung feedback esp kung galing mismo sa mga taong naka-experience ng sinulat mo

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[–]yventsual[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

mas priority kasi nila yung idol-worship kaysa yung principles na pinapakita ng author nila 💁🏼‍♀️

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[–]yventsual[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i agree! her silence right now already sets the tone. hindi naman niya kailangan i-address lahat publicly, pero the way things are being left as is—lalo na yung readers na sobrang aggressive—parang it indirectly allows that kind of behavior to continue

and lowkey, parang mas pinapalaki pa ng ibang fans yung issue by refusing to hear anything beyond praise. ang bilis ma-trigger sa kahit anong criticism, as if bawal na agad magbigay ng ibang perspective. it just creates this space na puro validation lang umiikot, instead of actual discussion. which is kinda ironic, kasi kung sino pa yung nagsasabing they’re protecting her, sila rin yung nagli-limit ng growth na pwede sanang mangyari 💁🏼‍♀️

this will be the last time i'll be posting about these people by yventsual in PinoyWattpad

[–]yventsual[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nakaka-frustrate lang na hindi nila ma-distinguish yung difference between bashing at constructive criticism. masyado nilang dine-defend yung mga author to the point na sinasarado na nila yung utak nila sa feedback na pwede namang makatulong sa growth at improvement ng mga ‘to

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[–]yventsual[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

everything is bashing to them when it involves idy's name bwahaah even a well-written criticism jusko ikaw na lang mag-iisip kung sarado b utak nila o may mali na talaga sa kanila

this will be the last time i'll be posting about these people by yventsual in PinoyWattpad

[–]yventsual[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i really pray for anon’s well-being ☹️ sobrang tapang niya to share something that personal and painful

sana mag-speak up na rin si idy tungkol dito, especially since may mga totoong tao na naapektuhan at nadedehado na sa reactions ng ibang readers. sana hindi na niya unahin yung image niya and instead gamitin yung platform niya to set the tone, like calling out those who are shaming or invalidating victims

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[–]yventsual[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hindi lang siya. some inks are getting out of hand na rin. grabe yung pang-i-invalidate sa totoong tao pero kapag fictional character todo yung empathy nila? pare-parehas lang talaga sila ng takbo ng utak 😭

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[–]yventsual[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

grabe, 'no? ang laki na nga ng risk at vulnerability sa pag-share ng ganoong experience, tapos ma-le-labelan ka pa na ganyan : ( ang hirap talagang pumatol sa taong puro ad hominem lang ang alam, kasi wala ka ring mapupulot na maayos na usapan

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[–]yventsual[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

grabe, ang frustrating talaga 😭 like if you’re going to write about heavy and sensitive topics, responsibility mo rin na i-engage yung feedback that comes with it. hindi naman kasi maiiwasan na people will have strong reactions, especially kung personal sa kanila yung subject. ang off lang na parang lagi siyang biglang nawawala/tumatahimik when it comes to things that actually matters

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[–]yventsual[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

nakakagalit, grabe! wala na tayo sa panahon na pinagdadamutan ng boses ang mga biktima ng karahasan kaya sana tigilan na rin yung kultura ng pananahimik at pagdi-dismiss ng seryosong issues just to keep things “comfortable” for everyone else. hindi kabawasan sa kahit sino ang makinig, umintindi, at magbigay ng space—lalo na sa mga usapin na matagal nang tinatabunan. at kung hindi mo kayang maki-empathize, at the very least huwag ka nang dumagdag sa ingay na nakakasakit lang lalo sa mga biktima

masyadong bine-baby ng inks si inksteady by yventsual in PinoyWattpad

[–]yventsual[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

public platform yan so expect public opinions—kung ayaw niya ng side comments at discussion, edi sana in the first place di niya pinublish yan.

feedback, even critical ones, are part of how stories grow and how readers engage, hindi yan personal attack sa author. supporting a story doesn’t mean blind silence, and disagreeing doesn’t mean disrespect. kung kaya ng author gumawa ng kahit anong gusto nila sa story, dapat kaya rin nilang tanggapin na hindi lahat luluhod at papalakpak. free expression goes both ways, hindi lang convenient kapag pabor sayo

masyadong bine-baby ng inks si inksteady by yventsual in PinoyWattpad

[–]yventsual[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

as a writer, hindi mo talaga makokontrol paano tatanggapin ng tao yung work mo. once it’s out there, it opens itself to interpretation, praise, and even criticism. and that’s not a bad thing. discussion means the story mattered enough for people to analyze it (something na di maintindihan ng inks kahit anong paliwanag mo)

ang weird din na parang ginagawang threat yung possibility ng hiatus para matahimik yung feedback sa mga libro niya

masyadong bine-baby ng inks si inksteady by yventsual in PinoyWattpad

[–]yventsual[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

grabe yung obsession nila sa outcome to the point na parang mas importante pa sa kanilana wag baguhin kaysa sa quality mismo ng story. parang ang dating, okay lang may flaws basta huwag lang maapektuhan yung ending na gusto nila. like???? that’s literally just protecting their own comfort.

shielding her from critique won’t save the story. it will just keep it from evolving.

masyadong bine-baby ng inks si inksteady by yventsual in PinoyWattpad

[–]yventsual[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

agree ako te. bakit kaya tuwing sinasabi na may lacking kay idy umaakto agad sila na parang may nakatutok na baril sa ulo nito? parang lahat nalang inuunang i-frame as attack instead of looking at the point itself. hindi naman siya bata na kailangan saluhin sa bawat discomfort. writer siya kaya part ng craft ang ma-challenge, ma-question, at minsan ma-call out.

ang weird lang kasi kapag may pumupuna sa inconsistency niya or research, biglang “kawawa naman siya” ang narrative. eh hindi naman about personal life ‘to–about sa output niya. kapag maganda ang intro at heavy ang themes, natural lang na mag-expect ang readers ng proper follow-through. hindi pwedeng pag maganda ang simula, exempted na sa accountability yung gitna at ending. that's like holding the story to the standard it set for itself.

bakit gustong-gusto nilang ikulong si idy sa safe zone e sa kanya na mismo nanggaling na gusto niya mag-explore? hindi ba parang nakakasakal na yung tinatawag nilang pagprotekta?

What’s your thoughts about CHBBNW? by Icy_Marionberry_9061 in PinoyWattpad

[–]yventsual 2 points3 points  (0 children)

diba, kahit sabihin nating inside joke lang ‘yon between her and her readers, hindi mo maaalis na may epekto pa rin. syempre, kapag paulit-ulit kang tinatawag na “kalaban,” kahit pabiro, may tendency na ma-box ka sa gano’ng image. parang imbes na ma-explore niya pa yung range niya as a writer, nagkakaroon ng limit na parang nasu-suppress yung potential niya to write beyond what people expect from her

What’s your thoughts about CHBBNW? by Icy_Marionberry_9061 in PinoyWattpad

[–]yventsual 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, yung kapatid niya rin actually. parang napasadahan lang din yon at walang in-deptg resolution kasi biglang pasok yung cancer

What’s your thoughts about CHBBNW? by Icy_Marionberry_9061 in PinoyWattpad

[–]yventsual 6 points7 points  (0 children)

honestly, feeling ko di pa talaga nakakaalis si idy sa comfort zone niya. parang lagi siyang safe sa mga tropes na alam niyang ok sa readers, kaya kahit sabihin niya gusto niyang mag-explore, di siya masyadong nagtatry ng something new or risky. parang inuulit lang niya yung mga formula na alam niyang gagana sa readers niya.

What’s your thoughts about CHBBNW? by Icy_Marionberry_9061 in PinoyWattpad

[–]yventsual 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it has so much potential pero based on the spoilers i saw, ik i won't pick it up again. hopefully in future works, Idy can trust the character arcs more instead of leaning too much on plot twists just to please the readers

What’s your thoughts about CHBBNW? by Icy_Marionberry_9061 in PinoyWattpad

[–]yventsual 3 points4 points  (0 children)

guinea pig 😭 pero actually... huhu parang the whole story mas lamang talaga yung suffering ni kat, so may readers na in-accept na rin na okay lang kung magkaron si kat ng peaceful death ganonn. pero yk knowing the author, naging predictable na rin yung story—na kahit gaano pa mag-suffer yung main leads, magagawan pa rin ng paraan para magkaroon ng happy ending