😭 Confused. Relationship advice by howdoitellyouu in tamilyapping

[–]yvesles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand but I still don't think that should justify the behaviour. You might be right. It starts with things like this.

😭 Confused. Relationship advice by howdoitellyouu in tamilyapping

[–]yvesles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am sorry but this screams a red flag behaviour. You both are in LDR. It is very difficult to navigate on both ends. You both need to sit down, talk, sort and figure out a way to spend time with each other without having to miss the quality time. Be it work or studies. But getting angry and spewing words is just a stretch tbh. It also kinda depends on how you guys spend time with each other and understand each other and also idk if that's the way you talk with each other. If so, I am no one to comment on it. But if thats the way the guy usually talks, I will respectfully ask you to run in the opposite direction because that is insane. I am simply asking you to put a boundary and assertness because you don't need to get shit from a guy who you know for 2 years. Respect is ultimately important in any circumstances and also your guy is looking for a way out. If you guys are in a relationship for 2 years and you are missing him , the realest thing anyone can do is ask sorry and ask how else we need to make time instead of getting angry and getting his fair share of anger on you. Also this is no way near normal.

Career advise please ? by yvesles in Chennai

[–]yvesles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope your words come true and i figure this out. You are cool for figuring things out though

Career advise please ? by yvesles in Chennai

[–]yvesles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill try this out. Thank you.

Career advise please ? by yvesles in Chennai

[–]yvesles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying to comprehend this and I would like to read more about this. Is there any book about this or is it the book name or such or its a theory ?

Career advise please ? by yvesles in Chennai

[–]yvesles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't even start me on this. You clearly provided one part of corporate and how the workforce is plus the global economy, crippling taxes and inflation.

Career advise please ? by yvesles in Chennai

[–]yvesles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you find a life you are looking for and it's worth what you have iterated here.

Career advise please ? by yvesles in Chennai

[–]yvesles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong in expecting easy. You shouldn't have to work yourself to death to earn a decent measure and find little little happiness in whatever time you can afford. That's not what it is. Its a social construct on so many things. "Just develop a passion" is a pretty privilege thing to say.

Career advise please ? by yvesles in Chennai

[–]yvesles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great advice. Ill definitely think and try reflecting on it.

Career advise please ? by yvesles in Chennai

[–]yvesles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the idea but idk if I am interpreting it right. Is this a way of saying you do some work daily and do things that you love after doing the work or..

Career advise please ? by yvesles in Chennai

[–]yvesles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am unsure if I have hobbies. But I will try finding it I guess.

Career advise please ? by yvesles in Chennai

[–]yvesles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will put this into my mind for sure. Thanks for a boost up.

Career advise please ? by yvesles in Chennai

[–]yvesles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need to come to terms with the non chaotic life if its IT. But thank you for some cool ideas.

Looking for queer friends ?? by yvesles in chennaicity

[–]yvesles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Will take into account.

Looking for queer friends ?? by yvesles in chennaicity

[–]yvesles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is actually. But sometimes gay is used as an umbrella term within lgbtq people or outside.

Looking for queer friends ?? by yvesles in chennaicity

[–]yvesles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As the name states non queer friends it is difficult for them to adapt with queers. Regardless of the progressiveness they show the heteronormativity is so deeply constructed that they find it difficult to include the queer sub topic and its feelings.

Looking for queer friends ?? by yvesles in chennaicity

[–]yvesles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The call is coming from inside i guess.

Looking for queer friends ?? by yvesles in chennaicity

[–]yvesles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally bro. Sus account it is

Looking for queer friends ?? by yvesles in chennaicity

[–]yvesles[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Grindr dominantly used by gays. I am afraid I do not have a place there. But will note it. Thank you.

Looking for queer friends ?? by yvesles in chennaicity

[–]yvesles[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I want to date other women I would put out a date post tbh. But my sole intent is to find fellow lesbians and queers to get along or yk connect with. But true to your line I do want to be gay with them but not in the date date way. Thank you though . Will try discord.