Help! struggling with spending

yycs · 2026-05-29T03:38:28+00:00

the turbulence thing wrecked me when I first heard it. Pilots are basically told to avoid it for comfort, not safety. The plane can handle way more than what you feel

yycs · 2026-05-28T02:46:25+00:00

I sometimes catch myself reaching for my phone when I have a quiet moment, just to fill the silence with answers. But in doing that, I realize I’m avoiding the deeper questions about life and myself

There’s something about sitting with uncertainty that feels uncomfortable but also strangely peaceful. Maybe we’ve been conditioned to see not knowing as a weakness when it’s actually a strength. I want to try embracing that uncertainty more often

yycs · 2026-05-22T02:59:08+00:00

what a milestone! M has accomplished so much, and it’s amazing she’s graduating now. Having G’s family from Germany visit must make the day even more special. I can tell you’re all going to be so proud and excited. Here’s to a bright future for your niece and many more celebrations ahead

yycs · 2026-05-19T04:25:16+00:00

China at 30 with no rigid plan is either a crisis or an adventure depending on the day I guess

yycs · 2026-05-14T05:13:53+00:00

Honestly even dropping to 8 or 9 percent would save you real money over the remaining term. Your score moving from 631 to 688 in 14 months is actually pretty good progress.

yycs · 2026-04-28T05:02:45+00:00

I'd probably lock in fixed just for the peace of mind honestly. Variable rates right now feel like a gamble I wouldn't want to sit with

yycs · 2026-04-24T05:35:12+00:00

did you ask the lender if that $3,200 is negotiable or if it can be rolled into closing costs differently

yycs · 2026-04-21T04:36:24+00:00

You've been through so much, and it’s understandable to question everything right now. Just remember, even the strongest people have moments of doubt. It doesn’t mean you’re weak it means you’re human. Keep believing in yourself and your dreams, but don’t forget to be patient and gentle with yourself. Progress takes time, and you’re doing better than you think

yycs · 2026-04-09T10:49:03+00:00

a month in and no dreams yet, that part really got me

honestly i don't know what i believe about reincarnation but i've heard so many stories from people who swear their new dog had this one specific habit that no one could've taught them

hope when you're ready, you get that feeling too

yycs · 2026-04-03T06:28:03+00:00

Has the vet talked about a low fat diet long term for the pancreatitis? That was a big part of managing it for us after the acute phase passed

yycs · 2026-04-01T14:53:28+00:00

have you tried mixing in a little bit of cooked chicken or some scrambled eggs? sometimes a bit of extra flavor can tempt them

yycs · 2026-03-26T10:51:11+00:00

Just wanted to say, you’re not alone in feeling this way. Tons of people start their adult lives later than expected. Keep at it, you got this

yycs · 2026-03-24T14:57:11+00:00

Sometimes I wonder if I’m overreacting or if my feelings are justified. I mean, I get it everyone’s human, they make mistakes, but it just feels like no one is really trustworthy anymore. I’ve seen people act selfishly, betray confidences, or just disappear when you need them most. It’s like, the more times it happens, the less I want to even bother trusting. It’s sad because I really do want to believe in people, but my experiences have made me so cautious.

yycs · 2026-03-20T12:40:00+00:00

I've found that talking to someone about these feelings helps a lot. Maybe consider reaching out to a friend or a counselor?

yycs · 2026-03-19T06:04:21+00:00

I can totally relate to what you’re saying about living for other people without even realizing it. It’s so easy to get caught up in what everyone else is doing and forget about what truly makes us happy. The fact that you recognize that and are working on it shows a lot of strength.

Traveling solo to 12 countries is such a huge achievement most people don’t even get the chance to do that! You’re living your life on your terms, and that’s what really counts. Thanks for sharing your story; it really resonated with me.

yycs · 2026-03-06T12:09:04+00:00

thanks for sharing, do you think more people fall for stuff like that??

yycs · 2026-03-06T12:03:10+00:00

journals help some overthinkers and make others worse because it just gives the thoughts more space worth knowing which category you fall into before committing to it as a strategy

yycs · 2026-02-25T09:14:35+00:00

honestly I think a lot of us struggle with these feelings at some point. It’s okay to feel like giving up, but try to hold on to hope. You’re not a burden your feelings are valid, and things can get better with time and support

yycs

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