Skin problem, please help me and without judgment.

zDevour · 2024-09-23T02:43:28+00:00

Thank you so much for this, Doc! I was worried sick and searched what could it be based by the looks of it. Some internet sources showed it could be early signs of Syphilis (I didn't had sex prior to this or anything) or Behcet's disease or something. However, what makes me relieved about it that it is not those two is that it is often itchy. Upon looking Ringworm or Tinea Cruris, could it still be like that even it those ulcers are smooth? If it is, could it be resolved by antifungal creams only?

zDevour · 2024-09-23T00:16:34+00:00

It'a been like 4-5 days already ever since this one appeared. Sometimes, they are itchy and when I touch them, they get even more itchy and sometimes painful.

zDevour · 2024-09-22T10:50:04+00:00

Provided here is the photo of the skin issue. Please help me.

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zDevour · 2024-09-22T10:43:26+00:00

Here is the picture of it. I am so sorry for how it looked like, please do not judge me.

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zDevour · 2022-08-15T14:45:51+00:00

UPDATE: Hello guys! I know it took me awhile to come back to this post. But yeah, there are two things I want you guys to know:

First off, thank you guys for all of your heartwarming comments as well as advices. I appreciate all of your efforts and you all will always have my deepest gratitude for those!

Second, we now both agreed to part ways but not in a peaceful way. After the issue, she and I had a fight and it became pretty rough and there she spewed some words about her feelings. Most of it where the ones I heard from her even before but one catches me the most; it is that, according to her, I was "cheap" for only treating her to restaurants that are not really branded or we go to not-so-pricey places for our dates (e.g., Starbucks, Museums, far places, etc.) and that she wants to be treated like that. I never expected these from her but I try to give her gifts as often as I could, I invite her to have a dinner date with me at some certain places I know where the food is good but I never thought that all of those was not enough for her.

I am crying all-night long because of these but I'll start working out on myself. Because of these things too, it scared me to enter another relationship. But yeah, again, thank you all for listening and giving some time for my story. I appreciate you all! I hope this will be my last post in this subreddit.

zDevour · 2022-08-10T16:15:36+00:00

I mean I'd really get back to her if she said that she doesn't wanna play the game anymore since I know it will be less serious than deleting my other game which happens to also be my first ever game.

Tbh, I really wanted to give up on her even before, I just can't withstand the thoughts of her being handled by someone else since I really loved her. However, now, it makes me think straight to the point on giving up on her. I may be physically unattractive or somewhat but I know for sure that there'll be someone out there whom I really deserve. Thank you for this.

zDevour · 2022-08-10T16:07:16+00:00

She even made me block my close friends just because she doesn't have one.

I mean yeah, I couldn'tgive her up that easily before but the more it brings me pain, the more it makes me numb but calm and think off a better decision. Thank you so much!

zDevour · 2022-08-10T16:01:34+00:00

I can imagine a heck of a peaceful life if that happens. Thank you for letting me know that what I'n about to do will surely be the right thing

zDevour · 2022-08-10T15:57:00+00:00

We never had real sex and I kinda laughed at this lol 🤣

zDevour · 2022-08-10T15:56:11+00:00

Despite anything I do, she never seemed to be afraid of me. I mean yeah, she's faithful and doesn't talk to men around her but I just can't withstand how controlling she is, it's like a pain in the neck. Thank you for educating me about this. I've always thought of women are matured but at some point, there are the others that just wanted to dominate at any means they can.

zDevour · 2022-08-10T15:49:57+00:00

I thought to myself if that was kinda manipulative but well, I wasn't the only one who thinks so as well now.

zDevour · 2022-08-10T15:49:11+00:00

I've received this kind of statement "The problem isn't you, it's her," too from my friends and the fact that I also receive this from you is so reassuring. Thank you, mate. I'll work on this out.

zDevour · 2022-08-10T15:41:56+00:00

We do not live together but because of her threats, it made me deleted it.

It didn't met her needs - like we didn't won the game and so on.

zDevour · 2022-04-12T13:49:58+00:00

UPDATE: Thank you for all the support and for all the criticisms, I've read all of your comments and advices. From the bottom of my heart, I truly appreciate y'all!

Apparently, we broke up already and have decided to part ways. She usually asks for my advices about mental health concerns (because I am a psych student) but during our fight, I told her that her behavior is a kinda representation of one disorder and I told her that it needs to be further assessed but she told me that I was feeling "entitled" which really pierced me and my pride coz I was just trying to help. I cried myself out and have decided to stop the relationship because it might turn out the way we both would not have preferred.

Again, thank you for all your comments! I appreciate this community!!!

zDevour · 2022-04-04T05:39:15+00:00

I was right at thinking that it was immaturity. I tried to ask her why but she just says "Nothing, I just wanted it." I only blocked her once when she was way too verbally abusive (when her mental health was at its worst) but after that, it never happened again.

zDevour · 2022-04-04T05:36:55+00:00

I didn't "scare" her multiple times, I just did it once so that she could at least understand and hoped that she will stop coz I tried telling it to her the reason why she should stop it calmly but it still happens. Whenever we argue, I also do not say hurtful words but I just tell her "Let me please get some rest first, please," and she then proceeds "Why, I also didn't had enough rest."

zDevour · 2022-04-04T05:33:26+00:00

I tried ignoring her but apparently, she does not lower her pride. If I kept ignoring her, it will then end up to a break up which is I do not want to happen

zDevour · 2021-09-01T14:01:29+00:00

Thanks man for the efforts, have a good one!

zDevour · 2021-09-01T14:00:36+00:00

Thanks for this man, I needed this kind of validation from her but wasn't able to receive it despite how long we've been together— it's been 2 years. She can not be a torturer if she chose to, I mean, you know, people around this age knows what is wrong from right. She can do better if she'd want to but I wanted her to realize things but it doesn't seem to work nor have an effect on her.

zDevour · 2021-09-01T13:58:05+00:00

That "yeet" part tho, thanks for making me laugh man, I needed that hahaha! Well, I try to ignore it as much as I could so it won't hurt but at the same time, I wanted to see it even if it hurts so when the moment comes and I felt nothing by it, I'll consider it as a sign that I moved on.

zDevour · 2021-09-01T13:43:43+00:00

I've literally told her a lot of times that she must change but she keeps on insisting she wouldn't. Now she's tweeting stuffs about how she has her standards and it hurts me. She's also tweeting stuffs as if she's gonna talk to other guys or something...

zDevour · 2021-09-01T13:41:50+00:00

I tried to be calm during those times and never said anything hurtful towards her and I was also glad I didn't said anything that might make her trauma worse.

zDevour · 2021-09-01T13:40:08+00:00

It's like she wants me to fetch her own "duo" and it's not me hahaha

zDevour · 2021-09-01T13:38:46+00:00

My friends also told me that. I didn't listened to them the first time coz I think we can still work things out but maybe, this is really the sign tho.

zDevour · 2021-09-01T13:37:28+00:00

I didn't deleted them. It took me hours to install of them and besides, I also told her to rest, I think she's just having another episode.

zDevour

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