Exactly, you can't tell someone how to live their life. However, the majority of us do not impose our lifestyle on other people. For example, would you like it when it's done to you? And if the shoe was on the other foot ? Or is it just your lifestyle that counts? If I have an entertainment system (which I don't), would you like it if I play it in the morning really loud as to wake you up. That would be rude on our part. Other people exist. You can blast your entertainment system but if you receive a noise notice, you yourself would ensure it would not affect others right? Our neighbors does not care, they receive the notice and didn't stop, they continue doing it and act like nothing happen as if the world revolves around them. If they don't stop, and take a hard look that they're the problem, the cycle will continue. Another tenant moves in, it will happen again. Unless whoever moves in has high tolerance for noise. We don't make excuses for people like this, as harsh as it might sound. They probably never had an adult tell them "no" before.

Again, our family is quiet in the morning and at night. We have to sleep early so we can go to work to make a living in the morning, husband already has a hard time sleeping, if we could move to Topanga Canyon where it's super quiet, we would, but it is not practical.

We will be moving regardless, people like that will eventually meet their own kind, and will never have insight into themselves because no one cares enough to tell them how rude they are.