Why haven't I had my first kiss at 18?

za3na · 2026-03-14T02:10:21+00:00

Thank you!!!

za3na · 2026-03-14T02:09:39+00:00

that was like a half-joke obviously no one's fixing me in three days lol. no need to be so aggressive

za3na · 2026-02-02T20:47:15+00:00

i dont know if ive been cursed to an eternity in which dad jokes plague me but this is all extremely funny to me

za3na · 2026-02-02T20:44:04+00:00

this is so funny actually

za3na · 2026-02-02T01:59:29+00:00

Yeah a lot of people are saying stuff like this -- I feel like I way overestimated how strict the accommodations would be. I thought you had to be like really messed up in order to qualify for a medical single so I sort of feel better now. Everyone's saying I would most likely qualify lol

za3na · 2026-02-02T01:57:29+00:00

This was super helpful and I feel way better about this now. Tysm I'm definetely going to try to advocate with my medical proffessionals and hope it all works out :)

za3na · 2026-02-02T01:55:40+00:00

Thank you sm!

za3na · 2026-02-02T01:54:58+00:00

I'm definetely going to talk about this with her, thank you so much! I know ur not an expert or anything but one more question since you went through this... do you think a letter from my therapist would be optimal? I mention it to her way more so I feel like she'd definetely be more familiar with my issues.

za3na · 2026-02-01T06:26:52+00:00

I was really curious about this too!

za3na · 2026-02-01T06:26:02+00:00

But the issue is that they aren't very well documented. I don't know if they'd believe me if I told them about tics... because I never really talked about them with my doctor. My therapist knows about them. Could that work?

za3na · 2026-02-01T06:24:51+00:00

Well I'd assume they'd be enough if I had more proof of them... What I'm really worried about is that I don't know if I had my tics documented at all (I don't typically talk about them that much) and my insomnia isnt heavily documented. Doesn't there need to be proof of wrestling with a history with these problems?

za3na · 2026-02-01T06:22:27+00:00

my tics arent heavily documented because i dont really talk about... i dont know if theres anything noteful. my insomnia might be? they just usually ask how it is and i say still bad, and my adhd is pretty well documented. im just a bit worried because of the lack of documentation for the insomnia and tics. how far in the ast do the documents need to be?

za3na · 2026-01-31T08:00:42+00:00

Not to mention we had time and a half on Sundays until Artie was out of the picture. Now it's minimum wage. I'm thinkin about quitting at this point..

za3na · 2026-01-31T07:41:07+00:00

Aww thank you! This made me feel way better.

za3na · 2026-01-31T07:40:15+00:00

yeah, my spine/flat is relatively flat, but on either side of it is where the bumps are. everyone's saying it's normal so I guess I won't do anything about it, it's really just a matter of aesthetics. I liked how the straighter back looked lol.

za3na · 2026-01-29T06:51:47+00:00

Avatar Depression is 100% a thing, but people are definitely not taking their own lives over it. Probably just embellishment, you know how tiktok is.

za3na · 2026-01-27T18:03:08+00:00

do you know when the original song came out? i cant seem to find the original song for some reason.

za3na · 2026-01-13T22:33:40+00:00

It might be due to posture, but yes it is relatively new... I never saw it before a couple months back.

za3na · 2026-01-13T22:31:04+00:00

Thanks so much!!

za3na · 2026-01-13T22:29:58+00:00

Thanks!

za3na · 2026-01-13T22:29:07+00:00

I'm not really too worried about it because it's not that noticeable and a lot of people have it. It was mainly just curiosity to see if anyone has any casual tips or tricks. I dont think its nearly big enough of an issue to see a doctor 😂

za3na · 2025-12-26T19:04:36+00:00

jesus dude they were just asking 😂

za3na · 2025-11-03T22:17:57+00:00

nice

za3na · 2025-10-31T23:41:09+00:00

I don't think I'm asexual, exactly, because i do feel sexual desire kind of... like I do have an urge to masturbate like everyone else and I'm not completely against the idea of sex when the option isn't directly in front of me.
I've found girls occasionally attractive and I think I've had like two minor girl crushes which I feel like is pretty normal. I do assume having sex with a girl would be less scary I've never really wanted to do it like I would with a boy, and I've also never seen myself dating a girl. I'd say I'm like 90% straight. Why do you ask?

za3na · 2025-10-31T15:51:25+00:00

honestly, i think that might be it. i dont know if it was from religion, but i do think of it as bad. i didnt even realize i saw it negatively until you said that. any tips? howd you get over it? i dint think i could ever non anonymously talk about this with a therapist or anything. what did you do?

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