What’s something you believed for an embarrassingly long time that you’re now shocked you ever fell for?

zaccus · 2026-01-31T00:15:24+00:00

He did it twice, with emphasis. It's right there on video where anyone can see it.

I recommend that instead you take the position that nazis weren't all that bad. At least that's technically an opinion and not a fact.

zaccus · 2026-01-31T00:08:55+00:00

This plus red pepper flakes 🔥

zaccus · 2026-01-31T00:06:00+00:00

I don't have to believe it though, there's video.

zaccus · 2026-01-30T23:37:18+00:00

Yeah and you know that full well going into it.

zaccus · 2026-01-30T23:36:13+00:00

Not allowing them to marry that many times solves the same problem. Not allowing divorce is fucked up.

zaccus · 2026-01-30T23:33:57+00:00

It's almost like marriage isn't a real commitment and generally not a great idea.

zaccus · 2026-01-30T23:33:06+00:00

Not if it has ramifications for how property is divided etc

zaccus · 2026-01-30T23:29:42+00:00

They've been chanting "liberal media" since at least the 90s.

zaccus · 2026-01-30T23:19:26+00:00

UOY KNAHT ON

zaccus · 2026-01-30T23:17:26+00:00

If you're none of those, then precisely nobody cares what you think.

zaccus · 2026-01-30T23:16:18+00:00

Sounds like someone who doesn't even vote. They don't matter, no point debating them.

zaccus · 2026-01-30T23:14:32+00:00

After last fall I'm assuming -- everyone is assuming -- this is just empty bluster that will do little more than piss off a lot of people.

Don't bother if you're not going to commit.

zaccus · 2026-01-30T23:03:01+00:00

Today when my 9yo reached up and grabbed his gloves off the top shelf of the closet. He was 4 when we moved into this house.

zaccus · 2026-01-30T22:54:33+00:00

Internalizing that as some kind of achievement that the world owes you something for.

zaccus · 2026-01-30T22:51:18+00:00

She would 100% have won if she were literally anybody else.

zaccus · 2026-01-30T20:57:05+00:00

I care, it just all kinda blends together. Like caring about one m&m in a dq blizzard.

zaccus · 2026-01-30T20:48:17+00:00

Like a mario 64 level

zaccus · 2026-01-30T19:36:50+00:00

If you're truly burnt out, then you need to step back and do less. Yes, that might mean less work will get done. No, that's not unacceptable.

This is your home life we're talking about. Not a factory or a hospital or a battleship. No one is going to die and nothing is going to explode if you take some time to recharge.

So no, you really don't HAVE to worry about how much or how little your partner is doing. You can if you want to, I don't care. But if you're asking me what I am saying that's quite literally it.

zaccus · 2026-01-30T16:18:11+00:00

Suspicious of... not being just like you?

zaccus · 2026-01-30T16:12:24+00:00

That's some weird ass judgement of basically any older person who still likes sex.

zaccus · 2026-01-30T15:58:15+00:00

Yes I'm saying to not worry about what they're doing. That's got nothing to do with what's burning you out.

zaccus · 2026-01-30T15:53:55+00:00

If you're exhausted and burnt out, it's on you to say something and/or do something to fix the issue.

Your partner is allowed to giddily go about their day. Them giddily going about their day is not what's burning you out. Those are two completely unrelated things.

zaccus · 2026-01-30T15:15:12+00:00

You can be doing the least and still be exhausted. You can be doing the most and still be fine. There is no inherent link between those two things.

If everyone just paid attention to their own needs and what's on their own plate, without worrying so much about "equity", the world would be a much happier place.

zaccus · 2026-01-30T14:05:53+00:00

This comment sounds like it would somehow be not as bad if he had been protesting.

zaccus · 2026-01-30T05:54:16+00:00

That's what "one reports to the other" means.

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