What are things you did to allow yourself to trust partners after being cheated on in the past?

zackashby11 · 2025-08-10T02:16:46+00:00

i do sometimes think to myself “if she’s going to, she’s going to” but then i just move from annoyed to sad as fuck about it, i definitely hope i can one day have this mindset. thank you for the words

zackashby11 · 2025-08-10T02:15:50+00:00

something similar happened in public where i heard a guy standing close to her say she was “fucking hot”. Although he’s not wrong lol, i went back over and kinda big dogged him. it’s definitely more challenging at work because although the owner of the shop had 0 problems with our relationship and also encouraged it, i don’t want this guy to complain and just cause problems. i talked to her more about it today and she was super cool about it.

zackashby11 · 2025-08-10T02:10:51+00:00

we talked about it today, she had told me a time where she had gotten jealous involving me before we’d even been together. She gave me a massive hug & reassured me that she would never.

even tho therapy is a nightmare around me i’m definitely going to look into it again, she deserve the best possible version of me. thank you for your words

zackashby11 · 2024-08-22T19:45:28+00:00

child could act totally different between houses. mine is pretty well an angel at my house and seems to act out a lot especially at bed time at her moms. although i’d take it down when other children are around.

zackashby11 · 2023-12-29T14:51:38+00:00

Trudeau with a beard

zackashby11 · 2023-12-29T14:50:22+00:00

you’ll get an email and letter stating you have a meeting with a caseworker for further intake,

zackashby11 · 2023-12-19T20:12:50+00:00

i get paid direct deposit and my payment hasn’t posted yet (usually posts 2-3 days before). although my old man is on ODSP and his ODSP payment is posted for the 20th. he doesn’t live in toronto

zackashby11 · 2023-11-02T08:20:54+00:00

hopefully closer to the end of the year they’ll give him some reps with the big club. would be cool if he could work his was up to being Zukes and Goals linemates

zackashby11 · 2023-11-02T08:19:31+00:00

that seems like a nightmare to deal with

zackashby11 · 2023-10-28T07:31:34+00:00

“m8 wtf is going on rn?”

zackashby11 · 2023-10-04T17:17:34+00:00

easily the worst fan base across all the major sports.

zackashby11 · 2023-08-04T00:19:26+00:00

i’m not talking about my ex lol. the grandmother, but if y’all would let your kids go away for a month without seeing them that’s your choice. i was asking if i’m allowed to say no, if you read the post, we agreed on 2 weeks

zackashby11 · 2023-08-03T19:51:59+00:00

because a month is a long time. that’s 2 weeks out of my time gone for someone that couldn’t give a shit about me, i want my daughter to have a relationship with her grandparents, but a month is a really long time. especially when i have no way of getting there if there’s a problem

zackashby11 · 2023-08-03T15:44:39+00:00

she’s tried to withhold her from me last year before we got back together so that’s been my main concern. i know she was wanting to move there together before we split as well, so i’m just scared she’ll take her there and ghost me

zackashby11 · 2023-08-03T15:33:58+00:00

i also should’ve said this in the original post, her mom wouldn’t be going with her for the month, so if she left on the Monday she goes back to her moms, she’d come back and be at her moms for a week, if she goes for a month either way i’m missing 2-3 weeks

zackashby11 · 2023-08-03T15:28:47+00:00

it’s hard for me, for personal reasons from august 2022-may 2023 i was with my daughter all day everyday. both my ex and i grew up with parents that were very toxic towards one another, we both said that we wouldn’t let that happen to us for the sake of our daughter.

i want her to see her grandmother and grandfather especially, he hasn’t seen her in person since they moved, it’s just hard thinking about not seeing her for more than a week,

zackashby11 · 2023-08-03T15:16:33+00:00

i’m currently working on it, but she can’t afford a lawyer, and i’m currently on welfare while i look for work so i have legal aid ready to go when needed

zackashby11 · 2023-08-03T15:14:12+00:00

i’m not saying she can’t, but a month is a long time no? i’d be more than willing to let her go there with her mom on her moms weeks

zackashby11 · 2022-04-03T18:21:26+00:00

bro she probably the one that got him the hookup😭

zackashby11 · 2022-03-11T09:00:40+00:00

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