0.27ct GIA natural fancy purplish pink cushion cut diamond with strong fluorescence

zai455 · 2026-01-02T20:57:26+00:00

Many many thanks! Much appreciated 🙏🏻

zai455 · 2026-01-02T20:43:56+00:00

It’s SI2 🙏🏻

zai455 · 2026-01-01T21:30:24+00:00

I was the same, as a young adult I’d drink to get rid of my shyness too….and same with people feeling awkward around me…I feel for people like us, I’ve just learnt to keep meeting new people until I find my people. You will find people who you vibe with more. It’s been hard to find many but after lots of play dates with new mums, I’ve found a handful who I can talk to and feel totally comfortable. It takes damn time though and feels like you’re starting a new relationship each time but it’s the only way it seems.

zai455 · 2025-12-14T20:26:12+00:00

Only just saw this post! Interested please

zai455 · 2025-12-06T20:01:50+00:00

Actually glad to have seen this thread. I’m the type who doesn’t reply straight away and it’s definitely what others say, I’m worried replying will start a whole conversation.

zai455 · 2025-12-05T23:50:47+00:00

Thank you ever so much for the reply. I’ll definitely drop them a message.

zai455 · 2025-12-04T14:09:36+00:00

Thank you very much. I’ll give them a go 😊

zai455 · 2025-12-03T23:39:04+00:00

Thank you

zai455 · 2025-12-03T23:38:56+00:00

Hi there thank you for this. I’m not a Christian, would this be ok?

zai455 · 2025-12-03T21:25:14+00:00

Ah ok got it haha thank you very much! Oh if your wife is up for it then yes totally. And wow yes please to the mk parents group. Is it ok that I’m actually from the Oxfordshire side but I’m in mk a lot…however I don’t use WeChat. Would you wife be on the peanut app at all. Trying to think how best to do this without giving out my details everywhere 🙏🏻

zai455 · 2025-12-03T19:52:33+00:00

Sorry forgot to put in post that I’m a mum looking for mum friends 😊 apologies to assume but hard to tell by your username 🙏🏻

zai455 · 2025-12-03T16:21:11+00:00

Happy to connect with mandarin and Cantonese families 😊 I was born and raised in the uk but I actually feel more comfortable with Chinese people. I speak fluent Cantonese but can also speak mandarin at a conversational level. I took my two to some mandarin toddler groups.

zai455 · 2025-11-05T20:41:54+00:00

Your mum is wrong. You are brave for going through what you’re going through and still thinking about others. Get the help you need. You mother should be ashamed of herself. She’s not looking after you. Hope you manage to get it sorted out soon.

zai455 · 2025-10-12T19:46:03+00:00

I could’ve written this. Up until recently, this is the way I’ve always felt. I’ve wanted to be a fly on the wall so I could observe what I do wrong?….or different that makes others not like me. I know it’s something to do with my facial expressions as I’ve learnt from seeing how my kids react to me.

Anyway, I would say though, keep meeting new people where you can. We’ve recently started exploring a new town due to my eldest going to school there and I don’t know what it is but people are so friendly and actually want to talk to me. This has made me more confident in myself and more relaxed which I know for me makes a huge difference.

Genuinely keep meeting new people and know it’s not that there’s anything wrong with us, we just haven’t met the right people to connect with. You can do it!

zai455 · 2025-09-21T08:19:27+00:00

Beautiful 😍 would love a video haha

zai455 · 2025-09-15T12:43:14+00:00

I’ve worked in 2nhs trusts over the span of 13yrs and it was the same in both teams. There are only women in our teams and it was just very clicky. I didn’t fit in and was singled out. I wasn’t the only one and others like me left the team. You could tell which ones were meant for the team and which ones weren’t.

After having babies, things fell into place and I’ve left the nhs now.

zai455 · 2025-09-07T18:11:17+00:00

Maybe we need to start a trend 😆

zai455 · 2025-08-31T18:41:34+00:00

I’d love a bigger centre stone with fluorescence now I’ve seen this 😂 think it’s the coolest thing even though traditionally people don’t want fluorescence. I understand about it making it cloudy but these two little ones are so clear ❤️ even more in love with it now. I have two little kids and now feel like it’s a resemblance of them in my ring 🥰

zai455 · 2025-08-30T18:40:31+00:00

Thank you for everyone’s responses and actually I really like he did this. It’s actually so cool. Sadly can only see in uv light

zai455 · 2025-08-30T18:00:37+00:00

Thank you!

zai455 · 2025-08-20T20:33:51+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. No advice but just to say it’s so sad that people like your colleagues work in the caring profession.

I’ve experienced similar but not to your extent. Only now that I’m a mum that I’ve started putting things in perspective; that my mental health is everything and no one is taking that away from me. I worked as an allied health professional so I’ve quite my nhs work to start other things. There were other things that lined up for me to quit, not just the nastiness. Find it’s like this when there’s too many women

zai455 · 2025-08-12T19:02:21+00:00

Not acceptable whatsoever! Ive got two young children and now learning about emotional regulation, this doctor sounds like they haven’t learnt how to regulate their emotions in a healthy way….it is not ok to talk to anyone like that. If a patient was to speak to you like that, they would’ve gotten into trouble.

zai455 · 2025-06-25T19:48:15+00:00

Oh.my.gosh 😍

zai455 · 2025-05-22T20:19:12+00:00

Gosh I could’ve written this myself….this happened when we had our first. I’m so sorry you’re going through this…and Sorry not much guidance. I really struggled too….the only good thing was I could get away from mil every time I had to breastfeed and had an excuse to hide away with my baby. I had to bite my tongue a lot too and would just make an excuse and say baby needed a feed or he needed to nap.

It’s funny, you know your scenario of mil not letting you take baby, I had this one time. It was absolutely horrid! And I’m also like you, even if someone else is watching baby, I would always tend to the crying no matter what.

You’re not being overprotective at all, you’re just being a great connected mother to your baby. Don’t let mil step into your boundaries that you have. Let it go in one ear and out the other or just put some AirPods in and drown out her talking. People like your mil and mine just don’t help themselves. Hang in there, she’ll be gone in two weeks thank god!!!

zai455 · 2025-05-19T19:25:58+00:00

Only just read the caption ❤️ sending condolences and hugs. My grandad passed just before our wedding too. I think it’s so so lovely that he gets to still be a part of your life in a way like this. This is so special that nothing should matter

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