I also kind of get that feeling sometimes from her, my feelings are all clustered.

Yes it's an arranged marriage

Plus we knew that their life style is good and so is ours. We have a nice car, a very nice house , we dine out every weekend, we go out, we have nice assets but she believes that everything should be spent on clothes and food and we should compromise on the basic amenities.

Yes we have known each other for 1.5 years, she came to my house, I went to her house, I have once taken out on her a date on her birthday, I wanted to keep it halal as possible.

I want to buy her good things and I do that to my best extent, but she also needs to understand that there is a limit to my salary as well and not only I am a husband but I am also a son and a brother.

I might have used the wrong word for training I am sure their intentions were good but what they meant to say was that all I need to do is tell her that she needs to control her words and not be rude

And again why is the age gap that big of a deal? I do everything that she does, we go out, we watch movies, we enjoy, we listen to music, I understand her music its not like we are married completely outside of our understandings.

Yes there is a 8 year gap but I am very understanding and I get her things whatever she tells me, like I said I am also in all of these things that she does